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To accept a huge loss on my house

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CurlyHairMare1 · 29/10/2025 18:33

I live in a semi detached house in a quiet cul de sac. I’ve spent a lot of money doing it up and making it lovely. Early this year my neighbours (the ones I’m attached to) sold their house incredibly cheaply as it needed an awful lot of work doing to it.

A man bought it to do up and rent out, I understood he had a property business so assumed he’d be the landlord.

Fast forward to now and he’s actually turned it in to an HMO. He has a number of them across the city.

I put my house on the market in Spring and I just can not sell it due to the HMO. I’ve had a number of offers accepted and they have all pulled out when they have found out what I’m attached to so I’m now declaring it up front.

Would I be unreasonable to sell my house for way under asking price just so I can get rid of it? The estate agent has suggested it would need to go for nearly 100k less to even get any kind of interest.

I’m exhausted with the whole situation.

OP posts:
Heretosavetheworld · 30/10/2025 17:55

Anxietybummer · 29/10/2025 20:20

This is surprising to me. Our old home we lived next door to a HMO. We bought it knowing it was a HMO and didn’t think to knock the price down. It was sold to a couple and we said it was a HMO when they asked about neighbours and they didn’t bat an eyelid either.

They were actually great to live next too. They never used the garden so no noise in summer and never had a problem with them.

A shared house 30 years ago would have a different demographic to the HMO of today.

You're welcome.

Steeleydan · 30/10/2025 17:56

Sohelpmegod25 · 29/10/2025 18:35

How about contacting the owner of the HMO next door and asking if he would be interested in yours?
private sale, no fees and he may well be a cash buyer
this could be a plan?

He'd want it cheap not market value

Heretosavetheworld · 30/10/2025 17:56

Is it possible to challenge the council on this? As this is vile someone losing hundreds of thousands of hard earned money.

anon666 · 30/10/2025 17:57

I'm so sorry OP, this sounds terribly unfair.

Sadly, as its outside your control, yes I understand you wanting to just get out.

If its any consolation I was swindled out of a redundancy payment of £190k. I walked away because life is too short to let money drive you insane.

I try not to get resentful by telling myself the money was never mine.

Heretosavetheworld · 30/10/2025 17:59

SeemedClear · 30/10/2025 08:36

Many are working professionals though.

House prices are high. How do young professionals afford to buy or rent in some areas? Shared housing fills a need.

In my area the HMO was a staff house for a country hotel. All working, accommodation offered with the job, less cost than the hotel having to provide expensive rooms on-site.

This won't be it. She said all men, standing smoking outside, filthy. Inference. Critical thinking. We are living 1984 thanks to sheep like this.

OnlyOnAFriday · 30/10/2025 18:00

Jc2001 · 30/10/2025 09:20

So all those people setting fire to wheelie bins outside the asylum hotels are going to have them living next door to them now. The law of unintended consequences.

I said this months ago. Some people will be begging for the hotels soon.

pinkypoo8 · 30/10/2025 18:07

The clues in the title🙄

TheDenimPoet · 30/10/2025 18:07

themerchentofvenus · 29/10/2025 18:46

But what is actually wrong with the HMO? Noisy? Too many cars? I assume he got the correct council permission?

My grandparents live next door to one. It's a tiny terraced house that somehow houses 4 people. It's noisy, always people coming and going, smells of cannabis, police constantly there, noise all through the night.. it used to be a street full of families, they've been there for decades, and this is the second HMO in the last 12 months that's popped up, with a third currently being created further down. It's ruining the street.

KeepPumping · 30/10/2025 18:08

ACynicalDad · 29/10/2025 18:39

I'd turn yours into an HMO too.

AirBnB would be better.

KeepPumping · 30/10/2025 18:10

NewGirlInTown · 30/10/2025 04:03

So sorry for you. These HMOs are a fucking blight on decent neighbourhoods and the greed of these landlords makes me feel sick.
I blame Homes Under The Hammer.

I blame low interest rates.

Khayker · 30/10/2025 18:15

churrios · 29/10/2025 18:57

Did he have permission to turn it into an HMO? There are rules about that where I live if he didn’t have permission he may have to change back to a family dwelling and sell though not sure the timelines to enforce that would work for you.

There's rules about that everywhere. Also about community consultations within the planning process.

AnneElliott · 30/10/2025 18:20

Agree you don’t want to be living next to an HMO. There’s one in my mums road and it stinks of weed, loads of blokes hanging about outside and the rubbish is horrendous.

It doesn’t help you sell op, but if it’s affected the value I believe you can request you house is revalued for council tax to try and get it dropped down a band. I’m aware of a road where several houses took this option and it seemed to galvanise the council who removed the licence or took enforcement action.

But it might be simpler to see if the landlord wants to buy yours as well.

Putneydad7 · 30/10/2025 18:22

Because of all the clobbering of private landlords by successive governments, the only way to make any money on a new BTL is by doing HMO, the more tenants the better (financially speaking)
Following what some other responders have said, make the council's life hell. Report every infringement however minor and demand a response/follow up.
My brother lived opposite a council run car park which was ungated and every Friday and Saturday night the local boys would use it as a gathering point to show off their cars and do donuts, races etc. He offered to pay for a barrier but the council said they didn't want to have to pay someone to open and close it at the start and end of each day. Eventually he paid a guy to park up in a van and take down number plates and document/film offences (such as illegal exhausts dangerous driving etc). Then every Monday morning he'd write it all up and submit reports to the police and the council.
Eventually it became such a joke that the police leaned on the council to put a barrier on the car park and hey presto the problem went away (to another council car park in the town).
Be a pain in the backside and you may, just may get your way!! Good luck.

KeepPumping · 30/10/2025 18:36

Steeleydan · 30/10/2025 17:56

He'd want it cheap not market value

If there were any higher offers he couldn`t get that, "market value" is just what someone is willing (and able) to pay for it.

Addictedtohotbaths · 30/10/2025 18:39

Can you turn yours into a HMO and go and rent somewhere else?

tommyhoundmum · 30/10/2025 18:41

UncertainPerson · 29/10/2025 18:39

What’s actually happening with the HMO that’s making you not want to live there?

It is just the fact it is one that puts people off buying next door. A well run HMO should not present a problem to anyone. However, there could be a lot of comings and goings.

weirdoboelady · 30/10/2025 18:43

CurlyHairMare1 · 29/10/2025 21:16

I could approach the landlord but I did some digging and he purchased his last few HMOs, including next door, with a mortgage so I’m not sure he’d have the cash. It’s worth a try, although I don’t have his contact details.

I wouldn't draw this conclusion. I have a friend who had a string of properties where each one was financed using the profits from the last, taking out a mortgage on each. It's a recognised business model.

InsectsMatter · 30/10/2025 18:47

I wonder if he has a contract with the council to house illegal immigrants as this is incredibly lucrative and councils are struggling to find enough places to house them all.
this may be why they are hanging around and not allowed to work.
What a nightmare.

SocksAndTheCity · 30/10/2025 18:51

InsectsMatter · 30/10/2025 18:47

I wonder if he has a contract with the council to house illegal immigrants as this is incredibly lucrative and councils are struggling to find enough places to house them all.
this may be why they are hanging around and not allowed to work.
What a nightmare.

Councils don't house illegal immigrants. How would people who don't exist on paper access public funds?

Mum5net · 30/10/2025 18:51

Three up, three down…
Could mean there are bedrooms without windows?

KeepPumping · 30/10/2025 18:56

weirdoboelady · 30/10/2025 18:43

I wouldn't draw this conclusion. I have a friend who had a string of properties where each one was financed using the profits from the last, taking out a mortgage on each. It's a recognised business model.

And a risky business model, pray for higher interest rates, he might go bust and a nice family could buy it off him.

80smonster · 30/10/2025 18:57

Sohelpmegod25 · 29/10/2025 18:35

How about contacting the owner of the HMO next door and asking if he would be interested in yours?
private sale, no fees and he may well be a cash buyer
this could be a plan?

This is a genius idea.

Chinsupmeloves · 30/10/2025 18:57

Give yourself a time limit then reduce bit by bit? It's a shame when this happens and, although some HMOs can be fine they are off putting for buyers. Xx

VikingsandDragons · 30/10/2025 18:57

I'm going to respond to this from two angles, firstly as a former planning officer I can say that in no authority that I've worked in have we had anything to do with licencing, wouldn't be consulted on a licence, wouldn't be told if one had been granted. Grant of a licence does not invalidate the need for planning permission and vice versa. I would strongly advise submitting a complaint to the planning authority that your neighbour has undertaken work without planning consent, and their enforcement team will look into it.

Secondly as someone who has experience in the current buying/selling market in general, it's a tough time in a lot of areas, have you approached one of the 'we buy any house' type places? While they usually offer under market value, it's usually around 85% of the value rather than the sort of figures you're looking at, so I'd consider contacting a few of them, make up a 'I need to sell quickly as I need to move away for work' type story and see what offers are made.

Beautifulsiro56 · 30/10/2025 19:04

CurlyHairMare1 · 29/10/2025 18:33

I live in a semi detached house in a quiet cul de sac. I’ve spent a lot of money doing it up and making it lovely. Early this year my neighbours (the ones I’m attached to) sold their house incredibly cheaply as it needed an awful lot of work doing to it.

A man bought it to do up and rent out, I understood he had a property business so assumed he’d be the landlord.

Fast forward to now and he’s actually turned it in to an HMO. He has a number of them across the city.

I put my house on the market in Spring and I just can not sell it due to the HMO. I’ve had a number of offers accepted and they have all pulled out when they have found out what I’m attached to so I’m now declaring it up front.

Would I be unreasonable to sell my house for way under asking price just so I can get rid of it? The estate agent has suggested it would need to go for nearly 100k less to even get any kind of interest.

I’m exhausted with the whole situation.

Which city is this? Can you ask if thr landlord would buy yours too

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