DH is notorious for not saying quite what he means and thinking you've understood his exact meaning and for buying things on my ebay account whilst rather unsober - games consoles, motorbikes etc... We have had words in the past as whilst he does pay me for items, it tends to be days if not weeks after the money has gone out of my account, particularly if the item is for a friend who works offshore and won't be back for a month.
Yesterday morning I checked my ebay account to find I was the lucky winner of an Ohlins steering damper for an Aprilia Falco to the tune of £146. This is about the same amount I had put to one side for replacing tyres on my car and for ds birthday party in 2 weeks time.
So, rather than tear into him at the time and get myself worked up before work, I changed the passwords and sent him a very snotty email.
Last night he tells me that he had actually told me all about it the night before and I obviously hadn't listened and he was innocent of all charges. He then admitted that his actual words had been 'I've found what I'm buying myself for my birthday and will be picking it up over the weekend' might not have told the whole story and that he hadn't actually paid for it with paypal (only because I got to the emails first....)
So, AIBU?