Looking for views. A recurrent issue that dp (currently out of work for year+, looking for new role) is fine (happy?) to be at home, rarely sees friends or exercises, and never plans fun things for us. I work full-time (60+ hours a week). Also a homebody but need things to look forward to to break up the stresses of a very demanding job and family hassles. We're childfree. We've talked about the issue and he always says he will sort, then plans are vaguely made which don't materialise. But does want to spend time with me and very keen for me to do chores/house activities together. I have planned things but stopping as much now, as it's one sided. Have a/l coming up soon and nothing's been mentioned, although he previously promised he would. AIBU to expect him to do more, or should I just accept this is his way. Generally is kind although can be quite disconnected/doesn't seem to listen/process what's going on for me or what matters in my life.