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To think about quitting my WFH job to re-train as a plasterer?

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confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 12:38

Would I be stupid or unreasonable to consider quitting my job and re-train in a new field as a plasterer? I am a 29 year old single mum WFH in a dead end call centre job. It’s quite niche as it involves investigating specialist fraud cases but is still mainly a customer service job. The pay isn’t that great (£2k pm after tax living in London) and I’m fortunate to be able to live in cheap accommodation through family, but it’s not sustainable.

I’ve had applied for hundreds of jobs to try in earn more money and elevate, even paid someone to re-write my CV and do an extra qualification in my field within finance. But I don’t have a degree and regardless, I’m struggling to stand out. Hundreds of applicants, countless ghosting's and unfortunatelys after an odd interview. Finance, admin and banking sectors seem to be too saturated whether remote, hybrid or office.

So I was thinking to quit my job, apply for universal credit of some sort (started doing research on what they can support me with) and then hopefully retrain as a plasterer in a course to try and better myself as I heard that there’s good money if you are a skilled labour and could hopefully work for myself or another company. I would hopefully be able to work it around my son and less competition for the jobs I am not getting. Am I wasting my time and dreaming? (I have no experience in this and trying anything to earn more at the moment, whilst still applying for jobs like crazy, pls be nice!) 😣

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Alpacajigsaw · 28/10/2025 19:03

Sounds like a good idea to me. You’ll become physically fit doing the job. I doubt all apprentice plasterers are ripped! I’ve only personally heard of one other female plasterer, the partner of a colleague.

WearyCat · 28/10/2025 19:05

Good for you @confusedlady10

My dad was a spark and he always said that you never saw old plasterers (over 50). He’d mutter darkly about the dust and the damp.

All the skilled trades will keep you fit and in work, and probably when you hit 50s you’ll wish you had kept your desk job!

But you will be able to be your own boss and have variety in your work, and you won’t be replaced by AI. My dad coped with aging by taking smaller local jobs which had less of the ladder work and carrying rolls of cable up into attics and crawl spaces- but he wasn’t the main earner in our house.

As an academic and not terribly skilful with my hands, I think my best option would be painting and decorating, but I’d fancy carpentry/joinery. I also know a couple of women carpenters which might influence me.

You could also work for a few years and then train to teach whatever trade you go into- colleges offer full time courses for 16-17year olds in the trades, and you’d be an inspiration to girls 😎

Good luck!

cosietea · 28/10/2025 19:06

MoominMai · 28/10/2025 18:18

Lol. I’ve worked in CS since my 20s, in child support, job centre and now project management and it’s always been busy with major stress periods as well throug some of those jobs. Not simple at all. I can only think that PP is just a natural born slacker, some of whom once they reach their desired grade just do the bare minimum - all employers have them I guess.

Yes I am sure you’re right, my opinion is tarnished by my short stint (2 years in CS) and seeing slacker after slacker, eeking out their work to fill all week, slopey shoulders galore and never wanting to pick up more, flexible working being abused and sickness was ridic. I couldn’t hack it and left for the private sector paved with gold. Halo

missmollygreen · 28/10/2025 19:08

CatherinedeBourgh · 28/10/2025 12:42

Do you have any experience of plastering? How physically fit are you? Why plastering as opposed to another trade?

I think a trade is a great idea, but do research the various options before choosing one.

This!!

Have you tried picking and a sheet of plasterboard and carrying it upstairs? very heavy and awkward.

confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 19:18

gmgnts · 28/10/2025 18:55

Agree prison officer is a good shout - they are getting increasingly desperate for trainee officers. But no wfh jobs there!

Tbh I don't as long as a job is a 9-5. Will check it out.

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confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 19:27

gmgnts · 28/10/2025 18:55

Agree prison officer is a good shout - they are getting increasingly desperate for trainee officers. But no wfh jobs there!

Tbh after looking, a lot ask for a degree. It counts me out sadly. I can't find any entry level non degree ones unless I am not looking properly!

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crackofdoom · 28/10/2025 19:39

WearyCat · 28/10/2025 19:05

Good for you @confusedlady10

My dad was a spark and he always said that you never saw old plasterers (over 50). He’d mutter darkly about the dust and the damp.

All the skilled trades will keep you fit and in work, and probably when you hit 50s you’ll wish you had kept your desk job!

But you will be able to be your own boss and have variety in your work, and you won’t be replaced by AI. My dad coped with aging by taking smaller local jobs which had less of the ladder work and carrying rolls of cable up into attics and crawl spaces- but he wasn’t the main earner in our house.

As an academic and not terribly skilful with my hands, I think my best option would be painting and decorating, but I’d fancy carpentry/joinery. I also know a couple of women carpenters which might influence me.

You could also work for a few years and then train to teach whatever trade you go into- colleges offer full time courses for 16-17year olds in the trades, and you’d be an inspiration to girls 😎

Good luck!

DS has a female tutor for his engineering GCSE (it's college based, a slightly weird set up) and he loves her to bits.

Summerhillsquare · 28/10/2025 19:44

smilingfanatic · 28/10/2025 13:26

Another suggestion for you OP - train driver. All training on the job. Probably very competitive but worth considering.

Look up Women in Rail if this floats your boat.

AffIt · 28/10/2025 19:59

Traceysgoingtobelivid · 28/10/2025 17:51

Being physically strong is really an advantage if you want to be a plumber.

https://www.facebook.com/reel/1490645768909345

Just because she was small doesn't mean she wasn't strong and fit?

There is, however, a clear physical difference between being e.g., a plumber or a spark and a roofer or brickie.

Whatshesaid96 · 28/10/2025 20:11

It's definitely something that could be achieved if you can support yourself whilst you do it. I'm actually considering doing a locksmith course. Doesn't require heavy lifting but just needs a good knowledge of all the different types of locks and systems. I'm closer to 40 than 30 so was looking at trades that didn't involve being too taxing on my body and could be worked around the kids.

SouthernNights59 · 28/10/2025 20:46

Bobbingtons · 28/10/2025 12:47

Id say go for it. About 20 years ago I was getting fed up of my career in IT and was very much in a slump and considered having it all in and retaining as a plumber. For me circumstances changed and I got some good career opportunities, but I still look back occasionally and regret not taking the plunge.

A man I know worked in a bank and one day decided he would like to train as a plumber. He loves it, there is so much variety and the money is great.

If I were younger I would definitely look at training for one of the trades. Instead I am retired and look back at my almost 50 years of boring office work with regret.

Go for it OP.

Reluctantstepmumof2 · 28/10/2025 20:51

What about plumber? Emergency call outs pay £££££££££

confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 21:21

Reluctantstepmumof2 · 28/10/2025 20:51

What about plumber? Emergency call outs pay £££££££££

Sadly I missed the deadline. I am applying for next Sep but will need something in the meantime. Looking at a painter decorator course of some sort in the meantime! 😞

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19lottie82 · 28/10/2025 21:25

confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 14:18

Thank you! I always worried about my age applying for apprenticeships.

I won’t lie to you, it can be a disadvantage as employers have to pay you more, BUT some will see this as worth it as older candidates tend to be more focused and reliable than teenagers.

confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 22:00

19lottie82 · 28/10/2025 21:25

I won’t lie to you, it can be a disadvantage as employers have to pay you more, BUT some will see this as worth it as older candidates tend to be more focused and reliable than teenagers.

Yup! Might explore a locksmith course in case as well. Thank you.

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Screenager · 28/10/2025 22:05

Bobbingtons · 28/10/2025 12:47

Id say go for it. About 20 years ago I was getting fed up of my career in IT and was very much in a slump and considered having it all in and retaining as a plumber. For me circumstances changed and I got some good career opportunities, but I still look back occasionally and regret not taking the plunge.

Lol

SpeakingDog · 28/10/2025 22:13

A few years ago on Mumsnet, everyone was recommending training for a job in cyber security

Might be worth looking at the courses ?

RafaFan · 28/10/2025 22:14

SimplyReadHead · 28/10/2025 17:13

All the plasterers I know end up with horrible neck, back and shoulder problems. They often have to retire early due to tendinitis or similar.

It might be worth considering a less physical role if you’re not naturally strong or fit.

my friend is a female tiler and is booked out for over a year - it’s a similar skill but can be less heavy.

best of luck whatever you choose - I retrained at 47 and love my new life.

My husband has been a carpenter for nearly 40 years and has many issues with his knees and shoulders due to the heavy lifting involved over so many years. I have had a desk job for 20 years and have many issues with my neck, shoulders and wrist due to the continual computer use. Any kind of repetitive work can mess you up in different ways sadly.

LavenderRagdoll · 28/10/2025 22:24

You will have to be physically fit.

If you’re plastering a ceiling for example, you need to do it in one go. Ok if it’s not a big area of course, but if not, you could be in trouble with it going off.

confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 22:35

SpeakingDog · 28/10/2025 22:13

A few years ago on Mumsnet, everyone was recommending training for a job in cyber security

Might be worth looking at the courses ?

Ooh I'll check it out then thank you!

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drspouse · 28/10/2025 22:39

confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 12:59

The plumbing and electrician course fees in comparison are too high and I am not very technical and terrible with maths. That's why I thought plastering might be a bit easier on me.

Have you thought of painting and decorating? Because it's in finished houses, you may be going in to decorate for women on their own, and you as a female may appeal a lot more than a male decorator. Similarly less in the way of technical knowledge required.
Edit - missed your post of just above. Sounds like you have!

confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 22:43

drspouse · 28/10/2025 22:39

Have you thought of painting and decorating? Because it's in finished houses, you may be going in to decorate for women on their own, and you as a female may appeal a lot more than a male decorator. Similarly less in the way of technical knowledge required.
Edit - missed your post of just above. Sounds like you have!

Edited

Yup! Trying to find good courses, but don't know how to get full time jobs or get in with a company after the course. That's my main worry. But I am looking into that, the locksmith option and cyber security. Thank you!

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crackofdoom · 28/10/2025 23:24

confusedlady10 · 28/10/2025 22:43

Yup! Trying to find good courses, but don't know how to get full time jobs or get in with a company after the course. That's my main worry. But I am looking into that, the locksmith option and cyber security. Thank you!

Edited

In my area (South West) they were recently advertising for temporary painters and decorators for commercial work- "experience not essential". I nearly went for it (have quite a lot of painting experience, although not decorating as such), but I landed my absolute dream side job instead.

But that does suggest it's not the most difficult of trades to break into. Doing it on a self employed basis might be preferable.

Rounder888 · 29/10/2025 05:58

Love this! Trades are great and we defo need more woman in trades! However my brother is a plasterer and he says he finds it mind numbingly boring and is moving into gym/fitness region instead. He’s also very fit and finds plastering very tough on the body, so keep that in mind! I know a female painter and decorator and she loves it, so might be another one to consider ☺️

therole · 29/10/2025 08:05

Another vote for painter & decorator. It’s physically sustainable if you’re good on ladders.

Also, you can start doing jobs now IMO. Start doing friends’ and family’s places and get your business going via recommendations. Check if you need insurance, but I’d be surprised you need to be qualified to start charging a decent daily rate. Just saying

ETA how technical are you? Alcove shelves is another one that could be a nice little specialty?

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