I just feel like he doesn’t listen when I speak, or seem interested really in anything I say. If anything is wrong and I want to talk to him about it- or if I’m not feeling well, he just sighs and just can’t be arsed.
of course sometimes we talk, but he generally mopes around a fair amount and he just doesn’t listen. He’s always walking off mid convo to do something or not paying any attention to what I say.
today I got something I was excited about and I was telling him about it and he just couldn’t be arsed. I kept saying, you’re not listening - can you listen and he kept just seeming really bored and couldn’t be asked. He’s always moping in his dressing gown. Then later on in he asked some questions that showed he’d not listened or retained anything I had said. It’s always like this. Also with any plans, he never remembers or listens etc. I have to repeat stuff a million times.
I complained and he said that I do talk a lot.. fair enough, we had a laugh about it I guess. But what actually upset me the most today is that I was watching a film I used to love as a little girl with my kids, I was showing it to them. I watch it every year and just love it. There aren’t many things I have like this from my childhood. I’m not a someone who remembers a lot of things or goes down memory lane a lot, except this film. My H saw we were watching and I was cuddled up with my kids and was like ‘ oh great, now it’s going to be the three of you obsessed with this dumb film’.
I just thought- you just don’t give a shit about me do you ? You just don’t really love me or who I am ? You literally couldn’t care less. All you want is a hole to stick your dick in. I didn’t say that of course but if I do say something similar, he’ll just say I’m dramatic and taking things too far.
is he just a bloke and I’m being being precious? Or am I just having a bad day.