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To still feel dreadful after c section one month later?

26 replies

Pandapoop88 · 25/10/2025 18:30

Have had two sections prior to this one and recovered much quicker I think. This time have some tenderness still which I think is just due to the surgeon removing one of my previous incision scars to leave me with just one. But other than that I feel like a shadow of myself, feel exhausted, and like I’m just existing day to day. I can’t lift a thing, reach for anything or walk round the supermarket without being exhausted.

I have no appetite most of the time yet am ravenous at times but can’t be bothered to get anything due to lack of energy. When I do eat nothing tastes good, I don’t get enjoyment from food. Sometimes feel sick, stomach churn-y, painful bowel motions which have bled sometimes from due to a fissure.

My mood is fine so don’t think any symptoms are down to that. I can’t be bothered to do anything I enjoy even though I’d like to because I haven’t the energy. I feel like a month on I should feel much better but I don’t know what is wrong with me and feel like I’ll be fobbed off by doctors. I had a tough pregnancy with hyperemesis, vitamin deficiencies (which I had infusions and injections for) and PVG but I genuinely feel worse now than I did t any point in the last trimester.

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FuzzyWolf · 25/10/2025 18:32

I would get checked out and make sure everything is ok. I’ve had four c sections and my third one was the most straightforward recovery of them all.

jonahpops · 25/10/2025 18:34

Please check your hospital notes as to how much blood you lost during your c-section. Low iron levels could well be a likely cause of your symptoms, especially if they were on the low side during pregnancy. Low iron is very common and can be easily rectified with tablets. I hope you feel better soon!

PumpkinPie2016 · 25/10/2025 18:35

I would go back to the doctor- ask to see a different one if necessary.

It sounds like it was a tough pregnancy and you could be deficient in something.

I had an emergency c-section and it did take a couple of months to feel more normal but since you have had 2 previously, you will know how you felt and how this time is different. Plus, I am assuming yours was planned.

Pandapoop88 · 25/10/2025 18:41

jonahpops · 25/10/2025 18:34

Please check your hospital notes as to how much blood you lost during your c-section. Low iron levels could well be a likely cause of your symptoms, especially if they were on the low side during pregnancy. Low iron is very common and can be easily rectified with tablets. I hope you feel better soon!

I made sure to ask at the time and hadn’t lost a lot. They said my iron was good due to having had the infusion before birth and b12 injections but I am thinking I must be anaemic with the way I feel so will ask for another test thanks

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Weetwood · 25/10/2025 18:41

I had a wound infection in one of my c sectIons. It was a week or two until it was properly checked after I first mentioned it. I felt really dreadful, generally unwell, 3 weeks post partum and knew it felt different from before. I remember emptying the dishwasher taking about 40 minutes and all my strength and being the major achievement of the day.
I’d get someone to check for an infection, all the best with your recovery!

Pandapoop88 · 25/10/2025 18:42

PumpkinPie2016 · 25/10/2025 18:35

I would go back to the doctor- ask to see a different one if necessary.

It sounds like it was a tough pregnancy and you could be deficient in something.

I had an emergency c-section and it did take a couple of months to feel more normal but since you have had 2 previously, you will know how you felt and how this time is different. Plus, I am assuming yours was planned.

Yes it was planned. All 3 of mine were. When you say it took 2 months to feel normal what were you feeling like at 1 month in?

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Pandapoop88 · 25/10/2025 18:44

Weetwood · 25/10/2025 18:41

I had a wound infection in one of my c sectIons. It was a week or two until it was properly checked after I first mentioned it. I felt really dreadful, generally unwell, 3 weeks post partum and knew it felt different from before. I remember emptying the dishwasher taking about 40 minutes and all my strength and being the major achievement of the day.
I’d get someone to check for an infection, all the best with your recovery!

Sorry to hear you went through that. I have had my wound checked several times because I’ve been anxious over ensuring I don’t get any adhesions or anything and they have confirmed every time that it is healing well and I have no signs of infections etc. I also had a vaginal swab taken and a urine test.

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JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 25/10/2025 18:44

I also had an infection in my c-section that wasn’t picked up until 4 weeks after the birth. I’d go and get yourself checked over as there’s clearly something going on.

Devilsmommy · 25/10/2025 18:45

Don't know about c sections but get your thyroid checked. Pregnancy causes havoc on the body and alot of women have thyroid issues post birth.

Pandapoop88 · 25/10/2025 18:45

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 25/10/2025 18:44

I also had an infection in my c-section that wasn’t picked up until 4 weeks after the birth. I’d go and get yourself checked over as there’s clearly something going on.

What symptoms did you have please and how did they find the infection?

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Pandapoop88 · 25/10/2025 18:46

Devilsmommy · 25/10/2025 18:45

Don't know about c sections but get your thyroid checked. Pregnancy causes havoc on the body and alot of women have thyroid issues post birth.

Thank you I wasn’t aware of that so will ask about it

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Weetwood · 25/10/2025 18:48

my wound looked ok the first time it was checked but I knew it felt different from before. Later when it actually also looked infected I was told that pink/purpley red is ok but orangey-red not. But yes, you might have some other issue.

Pandapoop88 · 25/10/2025 18:51

Weetwood · 25/10/2025 18:48

my wound looked ok the first time it was checked but I knew it felt different from before. Later when it actually also looked infected I was told that pink/purpley red is ok but orangey-red not. But yes, you might have some other issue.

Ah ok thanks. I have a tiny little bit that is still dark purple but the rest has faded to just a bit pink, no orange or red so hopefully I don’t have an infection.

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coxesorangepippin · 25/10/2025 18:51

I'd go back to the hospital

I had two sections and never felt like that

Just go back and get checked

HippeePrincess · 25/10/2025 18:55

Is this not how everyone feels with a newborn? I’m certain I did especially number 3 I was exhausted you couldn’t pay me to do it again. No c section.

Pandapoop88 · 25/10/2025 19:58

HippeePrincess · 25/10/2025 18:55

Is this not how everyone feels with a newborn? I’m certain I did especially number 3 I was exhausted you couldn’t pay me to do it again. No c section.

No it’s not how everyone feels

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Weetwood · 25/10/2025 20:45

If you feel ill, do please get a medical opinion and not just be reassured by my comment though.

Pandapoop88 · 25/10/2025 20:48

Weetwood · 25/10/2025 20:45

If you feel ill, do please get a medical opinion and not just be reassured by my comment though.

Thank you I will do, did it take you long to recover, any after effects?

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Weetwood · 25/10/2025 20:54

Once I got the antibiotics I started to get better. Took a bit of time but I had a one year old as well, so generally a tiring time!

JustGotToKeepOnKeepingOn · 25/10/2025 23:52

@Pandapoop88i was really sore and tired. My tummy was rock hard. Then it went very red and the redness crept up to my tummy button. It felt like a Chinese burn. I couldn’t get comfortable and was only comfortable lying down. My insides felt like they were stuck together so when I stood up it pulled. It was a horrible feeling. It took a month of antibiotics to sort out and it was 5 months before I could stand up straight pain free.

Dagda · 26/10/2025 00:00

No I don’t think this is normal. I would definitely go and get checked out. I had a very difficult recovery from a c-section. First an infection and then many issues with my back oddly maybe from the pregnancy itself and I felt like crap for a long time but not in the same way.

the other time I was back to myself in 3 weeks.

Pandapoop88 · 26/10/2025 12:50

Thanks to those who replied last night. I’ve been admitted with suspected severe anaemia. Have requested they test for the other things posters mentioned as well and an infection has been ruled out. Hopefully I will get to the bottom of what’s causing me to feel unwell and feel on the mend soon.

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Christwosheds · 26/10/2025 12:53

Hope you feel better soon OP. Maybe you lost more blood than they realised during the surgery ?
They do normally cut out the previous scar with a c-section, so I don’t know what happened with your second that you were left with two scars.

Pandapoop88 · 26/10/2025 13:01

Christwosheds · 26/10/2025 12:53

Hope you feel better soon OP. Maybe you lost more blood than they realised during the surgery ?
They do normally cut out the previous scar with a c-section, so I don’t know what happened with your second that you were left with two scars.

Thank you.

Do they? I never realised that, although I did think they would go through the same one each time.

It’s possible I guess. I had dropped quite a bit in my pre- and post- section iron levels but apparently was still above the threshold for prescribing iron. I suspect I’ve dropped significantly since then.

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Weetwood · 26/10/2025 14:07

That’s good they found something treatable and hopefully you’ll be feeling much better soon!