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For not paying nearly £20 for a second hand coat?

263 replies

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:09

So, today I went charity shopping for the first time in a while as I needed a winter coat for the last few months of my pregnancy. I found a really lovely one that I wanted, it was a nice colour and the quality wasn't to bad, a few imperfections but overall I was happy, until I went to go look at the price 🙃 £18.50!! I don't know if I am just being cheap but that seemed expensive for anything second hand!

Most of my clothes are second hand and I rarely buy brand new, I am used to paying a few £ for any item of clothing and have gotten many coats in the past for £5 - £10 depending on type of coat. I just can't get over it and may have embarrassed the OH with my rant inside the store 🤣

OP posts:
Poodlelove · 25/10/2025 20:07

If it was a charity I would pay it.

alpenguin · 25/10/2025 20:11

Saw a “replica” north face in a charity shop for £50 yesterday - I explained it was a fake and the just shrugged and said someone will pay for
it. The prices were bonkers £15 -20 for non branded Tshirts and jumpers with holes in for £18.
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GingerKombucha · 25/10/2025 20:25

Really depends on the value and quality of the coat. I paid £200 for a second hand Max Mara camel coat in excellent condition, would have been over £1000 new.

BoldBlueZebra · 25/10/2025 20:32

For reference I paid £22 on Vinted for a cashmere wool blend long coat

HedwigEliza · 25/10/2025 20:39

There’s a local guy on Olio who drives me absolutely mad, listing and re-listing all his cast-offs for ridiculous prices.

No one wants to pay £20 for a twenty year old shirt. He has a winter coat listed for £150 and admits it’s thirty years old! Tatty old kitchen equipment you can buy new for cheaper, and garden ornaments that belong at the dump.

I’m often tempted to ask him why he hasn’t got the message - no one will pay for this tat. He’d be lucky if someone wanted it for free!

TheCheekyCyanHelper · 25/10/2025 20:45

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 25/10/2025 18:41

These replies are ridiculous (well it is MN so what do I expect?).

Of course you don't want to pay that much...you go into a charity shop to get a bargain that you don't have to think about too much. Charity shops have so much stuff donated that I often feel cheeky for donating and they'd make more money if they charged less and had a faster turnover. The charity should extend to the customers.

The last coat I got was a vintage John Lewis wool coat in excellent condition. It was £3.99. In my town, most of the charity shops still have reasonable prices.

That was a reasonable price in a charity shop in the 90s. Its insane that people think charity shops should also slightly raise prices over 30yrs.

Ratafia · 25/10/2025 20:47

Some clothes in charity shops have hardly been worn at all - they may have been mistake purchases, presents that just weren't someone's style, a duplicate, etc. If you love this coat and it's good quality, £18.50 sounds a fantastic price.

Wexone · 25/10/2025 20:55

this just me that people have got so used to cheap cheap clothing. to me that coat wasn't expansive and a bargain. even if yoi only wear it for thos winter which realistically could be till March it will cost you a whole 3.70 a month. if your not gong to wear it next winter then list it on vinted am sure you will get 8 or 10e for it so you will get half your money back nearly. clothing should not be cheap. it takes alot to make it and should and I stress should be off good materials to last. also as well charity shops have to pay rent insurance electric etc so that price has to take that into account. if consumers do not stop wanting cheap cheap clothing soon all we will be left with is shein and temu tat. look up Andrea chong in insta she is very good at educating people to buy better and understanding how clothes cost a certain amount

ScrambledEggs12 · 25/10/2025 20:57

I spent £20 on a second hand maternity coat which I sold afterwards for £20.

RampantIvy · 25/10/2025 20:58

AngelinaFibres · 25/10/2025 18:51

St Michael's Hereford ?

Barnsley Hospice.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 25/10/2025 21:10

GarlicHound · 25/10/2025 16:28

I get what you're saying - but it's not like you're buying antiques or investments. Unless you're running a resale business, you buy clothes to wear and enjoy! A coat that keeps you warm and dry, looks good and makes you feel nice is worth what that is worth to you, no matter the original price new.

I know what you mean but it’s the way I set up my filters on vinted. So my last coat purchase was a monsoon wool coat, new coats from there tend to retail at roughly £140-200 so £20 is my limit. I bought my daughters monsoon coats the kids ones are £50-70 so £10 is my limit.

I don’t want to get swept into loving something unaffordable so I just get vinted to show what’s in budget. There is so much on there and often there are people selling the same item at different price points.

You'd think price would reflect condition but often there are people selling stuff that’s worn once/ still got tags for £5 but the same thing looking decidedly well worn is on for £40!

LaurieFairyCake · 25/10/2025 21:16

I’ve got a 100% wool Aquascutum coat on eBay for about £60. It cost over £400.

and do you know how few coats are 100% wool, none under £150

high quality stuff is insanely expensive now

anyolddinosaur · 26/10/2025 08:48

100% wool coat you can wear maybe 20 years or primark thin and you'll bin in a year or two. Buy cheap, pay twice.

Renamedyetagain · 26/10/2025 09:08

Pointless post. £20 for 2nd hand Shein/primark = no.

£20 for 2nd hand John Lewis/Hobbs/Monsoon/Mint Velvet =bargain.

I just paid £50 in a charity shop for a long length, deep red, wool/cashmere mix coat from Pure. RRP about £400 new.

Plus, it's not just about paying as little as possible. It's raising money for charity..

Soontobe60 · 26/10/2025 09:22

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:39

I think, because I know its only going to be used for a few months it just seemed expensive.

When the shop decided on the price, I don’t think they took your pregnancy into account! Everyone only wears a winter coat for a short time. I mean, I dont wear mind in august.

NecklessMumster · 26/10/2025 17:49

I paid £25 last week in a charity shop for a long Barbour raincoat, I thought it was a bit £££ but it looks nice, is waterproof and £150 ish new

ColdWaterDipper · 26/10/2025 17:52

It depends on the brand for me - I’d happily pay £20 for a decent condition second hand Seasalt or Passenger coat for example, but I would mMy pay that much for a marks and Spencer or Next one.

I do agree with you though that some charity shops have gone mad with their pricing - £3 for a supermarket child’s t-shirt is bonkers!

Blueyrocks · 26/10/2025 17:52

Bagsintheboot · 25/10/2025 16:11

Surely it depends on the brand and the quality.

£18.50 for a second hand polyester Primark coat is a rip off. £18.50 for a second hand woolen Aquascutum is a bargain.

Yes! I got a lovely Aquascutum wool coat second hand for I think £40 - total bargain.

Millertime9 · 26/10/2025 17:52

Wait, you ranted about the price of something in a charity store?
Youre not being unreasonable, no, youre being a horror

Thegladstonebag · 26/10/2025 18:11

CaroleLandis · 25/10/2025 17:43

Can you afford to raise a child if you are scrimping over the boat of a coat?

Rude!!

Namechangerage · 26/10/2025 18:11

HedwigEliza · 25/10/2025 20:39

There’s a local guy on Olio who drives me absolutely mad, listing and re-listing all his cast-offs for ridiculous prices.

No one wants to pay £20 for a twenty year old shirt. He has a winter coat listed for £150 and admits it’s thirty years old! Tatty old kitchen equipment you can buy new for cheaper, and garden ornaments that belong at the dump.

I’m often tempted to ask him why he hasn’t got the message - no one will pay for this tat. He’d be lucky if someone wanted it for free!

£150 is a bit much… but a proper wool winter coat that’s 30 years old is probably way better quality than anything in the shops now! Prices have gone up but the quality has gone down. This mindset of “it’s 30 years old, it’s worthless” is so bad for the environment.

EH1768 · 26/10/2025 18:18

Sbrown32 · 25/10/2025 16:09

So, today I went charity shopping for the first time in a while as I needed a winter coat for the last few months of my pregnancy. I found a really lovely one that I wanted, it was a nice colour and the quality wasn't to bad, a few imperfections but overall I was happy, until I went to go look at the price 🙃 £18.50!! I don't know if I am just being cheap but that seemed expensive for anything second hand!

Most of my clothes are second hand and I rarely buy brand new, I am used to paying a few £ for any item of clothing and have gotten many coats in the past for £5 - £10 depending on type of coat. I just can't get over it and may have embarrassed the OH with my rant inside the store 🤣

Hi find it really odd that people moan about the prices in charity shops. It’s a fundraiser. If you don’t want to pay their price go elsewhere. You don’t say how much you would pay for a new coat, or what the “new” price of this coat would have been. The latter would presumably have been considerably more than £18.
This issue is not new, it’s been on chat rooms in this area for at least 15 years. Pay the price or go elsewhere.

Chinsupmeloves · 26/10/2025 18:20

I paid £12 for a good quality winter coat in the 1990s so doesn't seem too bad if you will wear it for years to come. Vinted is my fave now, an online second shop and so cheap! Xxx

Blablibladirladada · 26/10/2025 18:24

I agree with you. If no branding then it is way too expensive!

You can have a new one for that price on SHEIN or temu…

hcee19 · 26/10/2025 18:27

Sometimes you may have to pay a little more....Fgs, if it bothered you that much don't buy it...

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