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Nursery decision

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MeadowTea · 25/10/2025 12:28

We are trying to decide between two nurseries. Neither are our favourite, but everywhere else fully booked.

One is 5 minute walk, but mostly young staff. I didn’t like how one staff spoke to the other. Seemed unprofessional. The outside area was tiny and plastic equipment so old. It’s also right near a council block, and I smelt weed when outside. I can only imagine in the summer what it’s like.

The other is 32 minute walk pushing the buggy. It’s very basic, an old nursery so old plastic play equipment in the garden. Also small , but nicer than first. The ladies that run it have been doing it for a very long time, and has a more motherly nurture feel. Both groups has small number of children attending.

I’m put off walking 2 hours a day for second one, but I think environment nicer.

On other hand there were doing nice activities in the rougher nursery down the road so is it daft to walk all the way to another which is similar in a lot of ways in terms of size, equipment etc?

My feel was it wouldn’t surprise me if younger staff were not as patient once parents not around in rougher nursery. I’m really torn which to decide.

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Wherewithout · 25/10/2025 17:00

Neither option sounds great to be honest, but if that’s the only choice then I’d go for the further away one. It’s really important to be happy with the staff you’re trusting to look after your little one.

TappyGilmore · 25/10/2025 17:01

I compared two nurseries that were quite similar in terms of resources and location, although one much larger than the other. I actually had a few good choices but these two ended up on the shortlist.

One had mostly younger staff, and that is the sole reason I ended up going with the other. The “Centre Manager” probably wasn’t even 25. She just struck me as so immature, in the way she was relating to parents and other staff (not sure if I ever did see her interact with a child) and I just couldn’t take to her. Meanwhile at the other place that we did end up going, the manager seemed like an awesome person and was my main reason for choosing it. Funnily enough, the baby room leader was very young, but you definitely couldn’t accuse her of being immature! She had a lovely way about her and seemed to relate to everyone well.

TappyGilmore · 25/10/2025 17:05

You don’t need nursery for work and you’re not completely happy with either choice, I can’t imagine that I’d choose either if it was me. Put your child on the waiting list somewhere better, and use activities, groups etc for socialisation in the meantime.

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