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To think processed and pre cooked food is way too common in this country?

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HotPotLove · 24/10/2025 10:11

Before you all start yelling at me, I know that there are of course millions of households that eat a healthy diet, cook from scratch all the time, carefully choose ingredients etc etc. But my feeling as a foreigner (have been living in the UK for almost a decade though) is that ultra processed food, pre cooked and ready meals etc are very much normalised here and part of most people every day life. It’s pretty obvious just by looking at the supermaket aisles really.
Curious to know if people are generally trying to stay away from these and make healthier choices or whether it is generally so embedded into our lives that we are not even noticing?
Second disclaimer is that I am not pointing any fingers, infact I often buy these myself but what makes me think about this is that I would have never bought these types of meals when living back in my own country (also less available than here overall)

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Bedofroses85 · 25/10/2025 22:55

PrissyGalore · 24/10/2025 11:13

It is a culture problem. In countries like Italy, it’s normal for people of all classes to be interested in food and have access to good raw ingredients. Here, it’s definitely seen as a more middle class thing. Also, some people don’t have the confidence and background in cooking from raw-so after a day at work, they buy a ready meal. In Italy, the average supermarket produce section looks like something you see in Fortnum and Mason. But we don’t have the climate to grow such good food cheaply, nor the interest.

I agree with you in that people associate preparing a meal with meat and sauce. One of my favourite meals after work used to be pasta with olive oil, cherry tomatoes, mozzarella and basil-only the pasta needed cooking. However, ready meals do exist-certainly in France, the supermarket is full of them.

Something else I have noticed is that basic food is not cheaper in the rest of Europe. Vegetables, pasta, pulses, etc is as if not more expensive than in the UK. The difference is that many Europeans are happy to pay more for eating well, whereas in the Uk more people budget when doing their food shop and end up choosing cheaper ingredients and low quality meat. I acknowledge the cost of living crisis and food poverty affect many people in the UK. However I also believe that eating cheaply is also a choice for others who could afford to eat better.

Denim4ever · 25/10/2025 22:57

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/10/2025 10:20

A tomato sauce takes a lot of good quality tomatoes and herbs and at least a couple of hours of gas or electricity.

A tomato sauce using canned/tinned tomatoes, dried herbs, something green and a few mushrooms is easy peasy and does not take hours. Carbonara slightly more skill, creamy esque pasta using Philadelphia or equiv less skill. The latter means you need to use up soft cheese for your sarnies, no probs. There are also numerous pasta sauce options using fresh or jarred ingredients. Fresh tomatoes tossed through with a bit of veg, quick and simple

Hons123 · 25/10/2025 23:10

Bambamhoohoo · 24/10/2025 10:50

I have had a number of international friends in my circle form uni who have being saying this for 20 years 😂

unfortunately, in my view the problem isn’t “this country” it’s just a nuanced view that the italys, swedens, portugals etc are just behind where the uk is.

believe me, 30 years ago we were looking at the Americans and laughing at how ridiculous the fast food and obesity was.

I visited France for the first time in years recently and was shocked at how downhill their food and produce has gone and how Tesco like it now is

the real issue is…. Capitalism

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Totally agree - capitalism on the part of the seller and entitlement on the part of us. Somehow we think we are entitled to eat meat, fish, cheese whenever we feel like it. Or good bread. And because we feel entitled to it, capitalism provides - I remember a loaf of white at 24 pence in the early 1990s. And at the same time - Borodinsky bread from Selfridges, from the Village Bakery by Andrew Whitley. And yes, there is no difference between Tesco vegetable section and Le Grand Epicerie's this summer, I could not believe it.

Hons123 · 25/10/2025 23:16

To be honest, I have seen some of the 'healthy' and especially 'hygienic' things people cook at home and I shall take ready meals any day, thank you. And of course you are right, we must not forget that healthy and wonderful meat, vegetables, pulses and everything else people cook at home are grown on a different, pure and pesticide-and anything-free planet, whilst awful ready meals are produced from deep-fried scrapings of whatever, and they are full of hormones and pesticides, unlike the home-made wonders.

FullLondonEye · 25/10/2025 23:34

TenGreatFatSquirrels · 25/10/2025 21:14

I also don’t understand why people are saying we’re on the ‘third generation’ of people who didn’t learn to cook at school. I’m 30 and we had food tech until year 9 and learnt all through primary and up until then. I was at a bog standard comp too..

@HotPotLovepasta with oil, cheese and less than a single portion of vegetables (botanical fruit even) is not particularly healthy at all. Especially if the pasta is white and not whole meal (so the good stuff has all been stripped out). You’re basically eating starch, saturated fat and half a portion of vegetables.

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I’m 50 and we had occasional, one-off cooking lessons at school but it certainly wasn’t part of scheduled lessons.

School meals consisted of two very rubbery slices of bread filled with barely enough to be visible tuna and half a slice of cucumber followed by chocolate toothpaste cake. Looking back I’m horrified at our 80s school meals. It was a fucking disgrace.

I believe traditional home economics classes should be brought back and include not only cooking but a number of other life skills. Maths classes should include teaching about mortgages, interest rates, taxes etc. The stuff pretty much every student will need to know at some point as opposed to some of the irrelevant projects we did that maybe became useful to one or two members of the class at best. Usually people moan that this is the stuff parents should be teaching but for whatever reason in many cases they’re not and we can’t keep turning out increasingly ill-equipped for life adults, unable to cook basic meals or perform other household tasks with a reasonable amount of confidence or competence.

InterestedDad37 · 26/10/2025 00:34

You're not wrong, but for most people I know, it's not the case. I have a takeaway once a month, and I haven't bought a ready meal for nearly 10 years 😀
I did most of the cooking for my kids when they were growing up (I was a single parent for thelr teenage years) and simply couldn't afford ready meals, and didn't want them anyway

canyouseemyhousefromhere · 26/10/2025 01:04

MrsSkylerWhite · 24/10/2025 10:20

A tomato sauce takes a lot of good quality tomatoes and herbs and at least a couple of hours of gas or electricity.

I make mine with passata (just tomatoes & citric acid) oregano, garlic, basil & pepper. Takes 15 mins. I used to use tinned tomatoes but my DH can’t have the pips because of a medical condition and I got fed up with sieving them. Taught to me by my Italian MIL.

Gilgogirl · 26/10/2025 01:11

HotPotLove · 24/10/2025 10:18

@MrsSkylerWhite well it depends though (on the cost I mean). Cooking from scratch doesn’t always have to involve a big expensive piece of meat or fish. It can just be some pasta and tomato sauce that isn’t all pre packaged or out of a jar for example. Or a soup with beans and veg or a big salad with some eggs, nuts, vegetables etc. These are not time consuming or complex thinga to male, nor expensive. I think many people still think of a “proper” meal as a cut of meat with sauce and sides hence think it’d be more expensive to make from scratch?

Children need proteins, fiber and carbohydrates when young. It’s not hard to do at all

Holidaytimeyay · 26/10/2025 01:28

HotPotLove · 24/10/2025 10:40

As I said in the post I also buy these types of meals. But people have jobs and kids and busy lives in other parts of the world too. I am originally from Italy and have also lived in Spain and France for a few months in the past and I can definitely see that these types of foods/meals are more widespread and embraced here in the UK

I agree, I have family who live in Spain and ready meals were not used very much and it was a much smaller section of the supermarket. Most people cooked from scratch but the lifestyle and values were very different as well.

JungAtHeart · 26/10/2025 02:35

I think it’s a combination of of time and education. I have friends with children who simply don’t know how to cook. If they’re making pasta, it’s a jar of dolmio sauce. Regular dinner is something frozen that’s chucked in the airfryer. I think because I was raised by a Mother who always cooked from scratch (she was a chef) and taught me to cook its second nature to me. But it’s not that easy for a lot of people…

OwlBeThere · 26/10/2025 02:43

HotPotLove · 24/10/2025 10:35

No. You can make a delicious plate of pasta with a handful of fresh cherry tomatoes and a few basil leaves. Olive oil is expensive but you buy it once and lasts for months. Overall it’s cheaper and healthier than a jar or a packet or pre cooked pasta.

if you only have £20 to feed 4 people for 3
days, it doesn’t matter how long a £3 bottle of olive oil lasts, you can’t afford it. You can buy a huge bag of chicken nuggets and a huge bag of oven chips for £3 each and have enough food for a meal every day. It’s long been established that poverty is expensive, so people just want to be able to feed their kids.

sashh · 26/10/2025 04:37

My dad eats a lot of ready meals. He lives alone and often can't be bothered to cook. I can see the point, one of his favourite meals is liver and bacon with mash on the side.

He can buy one from the supermarket or he can get a couple of pans out and cook but it involves more washing up and use of fuel.

When he visits me he claims he 'get's spoiled', what he means is that I cook for him.

He was very much brought up with inners of meat and two veg. I'm trying to get him to eat more of a variety of foods, but it is hard. A pasta with a few tomatoes would be his idea of hell.

luluw41 · 26/10/2025 07:23

I don’t think Italians are as interested in eating cuisine from other countries as Brits are. They seem to be happy with pasta and pizza.
You can buy ready meals in virtually every type of cuisine you can think of. This may add to the appeal?

Partypants83 · 26/10/2025 09:13

No, OP is just stating the bleeding obvious!

HostaCentral · 26/10/2025 09:35

Pasta is great, quick and simple, olio and aglio, food of the gods. But let's not kid ourselves, you can also fry off a chicken breast and dump a load of salad leaves on a plate in 20 mins. Good, basic cooking is not difficult, or time consuming.

MrsLizzieDarcy · 26/10/2025 09:39

I'm type 2 diabetic and have to now cook from scratch as anything ready made is too high in salt/fat/sugar. And it took some time for my taste buds to adjust to not having that "hit" you get from convenience foods. I am so much healthier for it. It worries me sick what DD feeds herself and her kids.

Cyclingmummy1 · 26/10/2025 09:40

Thinking about the biggest family I've known in the last 20 years, they cooked from scratch because 2 chickens was cheaper than chicken pieces for 11.

I think part of it is that many people have a limited palette and stick to bland as it's easy to eat.

Cyclingmummy1 · 26/10/2025 09:43

sashh · 26/10/2025 04:37

My dad eats a lot of ready meals. He lives alone and often can't be bothered to cook. I can see the point, one of his favourite meals is liver and bacon with mash on the side.

He can buy one from the supermarket or he can get a couple of pans out and cook but it involves more washing up and use of fuel.

When he visits me he claims he 'get's spoiled', what he means is that I cook for him.

He was very much brought up with inners of meat and two veg. I'm trying to get him to eat more of a variety of foods, but it is hard. A pasta with a few tomatoes would be his idea of hell.

I could have written this. I'd say DF cooks from scratch 50% of the time.

Though he did have frozen lasagne last week. With a side of cauliflower, carrots and beans 😆

GreyCarpet · 26/10/2025 10:13

Denim4ever · 25/10/2025 22:57

A tomato sauce using canned/tinned tomatoes, dried herbs, something green and a few mushrooms is easy peasy and does not take hours. Carbonara slightly more skill, creamy esque pasta using Philadelphia or equiv less skill. The latter means you need to use up soft cheese for your sarnies, no probs. There are also numerous pasta sauce options using fresh or jarred ingredients. Fresh tomatoes tossed through with a bit of veg, quick and simple

Not wishing to be pedantic but carbonara is one of the easiest meals to make. It requires very little skill.

Part of the problem is the attitude that 'cooking is hard'.

It's not. Some dishes are more complex and require more skill but cooking basic, nutritious, healthy meals is really simple.

TheKeatingFive · 26/10/2025 10:21

I consider myself to be a good cook. And I make a great carbonara (according to my family 😆), but I do consider it tricky.

There's more to it in terms of getting the timing/temperature right than a lot of other dishes.

On the flip side, it is fast. It's a great, quick, midweek meal.

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts · 26/10/2025 10:34

Anxietybummer · 24/10/2025 15:28

Exactly. Pasta is JUST 2 ingredients. Have you seen what goes into you standard supermarket loaf? I can assure you that pasta is absolutely not the same as the vast majority of bread.

The PP gave a simple recipe that is frequently used and its avoids using the chemical laden crap our food is pumped full of. Our food is a disgrace. You can’t buy a tin of black beans in this country that doesn’t have chemicals added to it, just look on the back.

You CAN buy black beans in a can that contains just black beans (and some water), no additive - eg the organic ones made by Suma (which the Co-op stocks). But they're not as cheap as the other brands.
https://www.suma-store.coop/products/suma-wholefoods/suma-organic-black-beans---400g/?utm_source=rss=rss=rssfeed

It's always going to work out cheaper to buy dry beans, soak and cook them - and if you then freeze them, they're easy to use at short notice (but this entails having a freezer). I suspect a lot of people don't do this, as it's never been the norm for them and they weren't ever taught...

...one exception being people whose families migrated to the UK from other places, where it was more normal to grow/store your own legumes, fruit & veg, or buy them in their whole, unprocessed form.

Suma Organic Black Beans - 400g - Suma

A staple of Latin American cookery. Teriffic in tacos brilliant in burritos and champion in chillis.

https://www.suma-store.coop/products/suma-wholefoods/suma-organic-black-beans---400g/

GreyCarpet · 26/10/2025 10:39

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts

Yes, it's like coconut milk. Some have 80+% coconut. Some contain as little as 50+%.

The 50+% one is obviously cheaper. But also contains a lot more crap.

If anyone has a recommendation for a really high quality coconut milk, I'd love to hear it please!

GreyCarpet · 26/10/2025 10:41

TheKeatingFive · 26/10/2025 10:21

I consider myself to be a good cook. And I make a great carbonara (according to my family 😆), but I do consider it tricky.

There's more to it in terms of getting the timing/temperature right than a lot of other dishes.

On the flip side, it is fast. It's a great, quick, midweek meal.

It is but it's also one of the first meals my daughter rlearned to make.

And yes, we do it 'properly'.

Slimtoddy · 26/10/2025 10:51

GreyCarpet · 26/10/2025 10:39

Longtimelurkerfinallyposts

Yes, it's like coconut milk. Some have 80+% coconut. Some contain as little as 50+%.

The 50+% one is obviously cheaper. But also contains a lot more crap.

If anyone has a recommendation for a really high quality coconut milk, I'd love to hear it please!

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I used to get one in my local Asian food store. Can't remember the name but if you have such a store nearby have a look. Have a look at Biona brand too.

Rhaenys · 26/10/2025 12:03

They are normalised but at the same time they’re not something I’m bothered about. I do think that people unnecessarily worry about them.