If you read all this thank you 😊
I'm 32f likely on the spectrum myself,
My kids were 3 and 9m when me and their dad separated. We were married and together 12 year so It hit me hard. We had to move in with my parents and it took a while to get back on track.
Now I've been seeing a lovely guy long distance for 2.5 years and I've come off anti depressants, I love my kids and want nothing more than a good life for them.
My daughters 7 and their both in school now so I want to go back to work full time as I've been a part time nursery teacher for years.
Basically every school days the same, she doesn't want to go to school and refuses to wear clothing (sensory). She screams, cries, gets very angry or just runs and hides. She has many difficulties with daily life but when I finally get her to school she manages well enough and the teachers are good with her. Some days they collect her from home if needed.
She also struggles at home especially when her little brother is around as she gets jealous and misbehaves, she wants me all the time to help manage her emotions and it is exhausting. They see their dad on the weekends but he struggles with her too.
She should be such a happy little girl and I want nothing more but she just struggles too much with sensory overload.
Anybody have experience with complete school refusal? It's been 3 years since starting school with zero improvement and I'm at a loss, I'm desperate to go back to work full time but I'll struggle as my mornings are a nightmare. My parents are close by, but they're not in the best health and help as best they can.
Anyone been through similar? Ty x