Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think this woman is mad?

4 replies

DobryWieczor · 22/10/2025 14:03

Partly it’s a property one and partly I’m sitting here baffled wondering what her thought process is.

I am a (reluctant) director of the management company for a block of flats, in which I also live. The agents are a bit useless and my co-director is a bit grumpy, so often the agency comes to me with queries. We had a leak earlier in the month, determined to be a stopcock in one of the flats. Agent has been corresponding with the owner trying to get her to fix it as it’s leaking into the flat below. So far, so simple.

Yet the owner is now saying it should be covered by her service charge because it’s connected to the mains. But… that’s how pipes work? All (well, most) pipes are connected to the mains. Both our lease and the water regulators are very clear that if it’s on your property and the piece of piping concerned only supplies you, it’s yours to fix. This has been explained over and over, by both me and the agents, and she doesn’t seem to get it and won’t fix it. Meanwhile, it is causing a nice little rainstorm in the basement flat.

I want to scream. How can anyone think pipes aren’t connected?

YABU - no it’s not obvious that it’s her responsibility
YANBU - she’s being dense, how does she think pipes work?

OP posts:
GarlicPound · 22/10/2025 14:08

Great example of things that are better for tenants 😄 But, yes, of course she's a raging loon and a fuckwit. Would a nice big damages bill from the people below help her focus?

Also, hasn't she got insurance??

YouMightLikeCats · 22/10/2025 14:12

Simple - if she's saying that the management co are liable because her pipes are connected to the mains, then to avoid their liability the management co will disconnect her pipes from the mains ...
Honestly you're not mad, she is responsible for her own pipes in her own property!

Her name doesn't begin with M, does it? I had a mad neighbour like that once.

DobryWieczor · 22/10/2025 14:42

GarlicPound · 22/10/2025 14:08

Great example of things that are better for tenants 😄 But, yes, of course she's a raging loon and a fuckwit. Would a nice big damages bill from the people below help her focus?

Also, hasn't she got insurance??

I’m not even sure it’d be worth claiming if she just fixed it! This kind of repair looks like it’s about £300 in time and materials. Obviously not yet clear how much the damage to downstairs will be so it might be but you would think she does have insurance, yes

OP posts:
DobryWieczor · 22/10/2025 14:43

@YouMightLikeCats she starts with a G!

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread