Hello not sure if Im wrong but there was an incident that happened when I took my children out and its still bothering so I want to just see what everyone thinks.
Saturday just gone I took my 5 year son and 3 year old daughter to willows farm one of our favourite places to go. Its huge multiple things to do multiple parks we headed straight over to the big peter rabbit park so many things to do in there lots of interactive bits. We get to mr mcgregor garden its got fake vegetables patches and fake vegetables which are gaint and flat my daughter clocks these and goes over to play with them not realising another child was playing with them and the other child starts screaming shouting no no Im playing with them she cant play with me! this child looks to be about 6 or 7 and I just apologise and suggest to my daughter we go play with something else and I'll call her over when the little boy is done. By the way these are willows toys 100% NOT the little boy toys. She goes off happily to play we wait like 15- 20 mins and the kid gets bored and goes off to do something else I wait 2-3 minutes to wait to see if the boy is completely finished he doesnt come back so I call over my daughter tell her she can play with the vegetables she super excited goes running over we are playing nicely for 2-3 minutes and the little boy comes running back and starts snatching the vegetables out of my hands and my daughters hands and starts screaming which alerted his adult she just watched as this boy snatched and screamed pushing my daughter away and then his adult piped up and said we where here first. Now I didnt argue as they had clearly left! as i didnt want to get into one at willows but I was soo angry! My daughter was really upset and I just explained she did nothing wrong some children just don't know how to share. I do think shame on the adult as she should have told her child we need to share you left what you where playing with etc I understand some children have disabilities ect my son is heavily austic non verbal. I would not allow my chidren to behave in that way regardless. Id be really embarrassed and ashamed for letting that child act in that manner. Am I in the wrong? As I said before I said nothing of this to the adult as I didnt want to argue this is what I was thinking.