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The wait for NHS test results is cruel and anxiety inducing

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Summortime · 20/10/2025 11:19

I had a routine NHS mammogram a week ago. Was told up to three weeks wait for the result. I cannot believe this is considered acceptable. In USA for example you can get the result within the next couple of days. My American colleague was shocked that here in the UK we are just expected to wait.

My anxiety is sky high. I appreciate this is a problem I need to get help with but if results were given in days rather than weeks my anxiety would not be so bad. It is the waiting that’s the worst.

How in a so called first world country is a long wait for test results considered acceptable?

OP posts:
MissDoubleU · 20/10/2025 12:51

If you’re talking about a routine mammogram I think you’re being ridiculous. Yes, it’s going to cause some anxiety but it should be manageable. My DH is currently on a 6 week waiting list for a decision to be made on the next step after having a confirmed cancerous tumour removed with spread to lymph nodes. The doctors have said it makes the most sense to start chemo, but they want even more doctors to agree and they aren’t meeting for another week.

Waiting times are fucking awful and hard but right now you have no reason to let the anxiety override. Plenty of people are waiting much longer for treatment or further results when they know something is definitely wrong/they have cancer.

HappyNewTaxYear · 20/10/2025 12:51

@RosesAndHellebores And what would you do with the information on this NHS passport?

It seems as if you and your family have leaned heavily (if not exclusively) on it at times. But you think this is ok because you’ve been a higher rate taxpayer?

BerryTwister · 20/10/2025 12:52

Horserider5678 · 20/10/2025 12:40

Rubbish, most pat in far more than they get out of it! By the time I retire I will have paid over £240,000 in NI contributions! My biggest cost to the NHS was having a baby which is around £20,000 if I had to pay and £7000 for gall bladder removal and probably another £4000 for smears mammogram med etc. On top of that maybe a GP appointment once a year, so I’ve definitely put in more than I’ve used the NHS for!

@Horserider5678 I believe NI also covers the state pension, and other state benefits which, of course, you may not need. So it’s a sort of insurance, and like all insurance premiums, you may end up paying way more than you ever get back. The same would apply to private health insurance.

Lovewine1975 · 20/10/2025 12:52

To be honest you should be grateful you get this free routine mammogram, these save lives by catching breast cancer early. This is exactly what happened to me in June, and since then I have had a lumpectomy and about to start chemo. I am so grateful to the NHS that they provide this service, so waiting a couple weeks really isn't the end of the world.

FrodisCapering · 20/10/2025 12:54

LadeOde · 20/10/2025 11:23

Does your American colleague also get her mammogram for free? you do understand you're getting it all done on the National Health Service? I'm not sure you're appreciating the no of mammograms they have to do all at once as opposed to your odd checkup done privately in the US.

Another argument for private healthcare, isn't it?
This is really a third-rate system.

Lactosan83 · 20/10/2025 12:55

Lovewine1975 · 20/10/2025 12:52

To be honest you should be grateful you get this free routine mammogram, these save lives by catching breast cancer early. This is exactly what happened to me in June, and since then I have had a lumpectomy and about to start chemo. I am so grateful to the NHS that they provide this service, so waiting a couple weeks really isn't the end of the world.

Again, because you're comparing "having NHS" to "not having NHS at all".
While you should be wanting and pushing for better NHS.
Logical fallacy.

Preventive (public) mammograms are a standard in most of Europe. And results come within less than a week in all 5 countries where I worked so far.

Think about that - why don't women in UK deserve that too?

Kirbert2 · 20/10/2025 12:56

MissDoubleU · 20/10/2025 12:51

If you’re talking about a routine mammogram I think you’re being ridiculous. Yes, it’s going to cause some anxiety but it should be manageable. My DH is currently on a 6 week waiting list for a decision to be made on the next step after having a confirmed cancerous tumour removed with spread to lymph nodes. The doctors have said it makes the most sense to start chemo, but they want even more doctors to agree and they aren’t meeting for another week.

Waiting times are fucking awful and hard but right now you have no reason to let the anxiety override. Plenty of people are waiting much longer for treatment or further results when they know something is definitely wrong/they have cancer.

Now that is an unacceptable wait time. Not starting chemo ASAP is unacceptable.

When my son was diagnosed with cancer last year, he immediately started steroids on the Friday and then by the Monday had also started his first round of chemotherapy.

NapoleonsToe · 20/10/2025 12:56

Lundier · 20/10/2025 11:39

I actually compared with my BFF who lives in New York how much tax we pay and it came out to basically the same, and then she pays out thousands for health insurance on top. They have lower top line taxes but then they have all these state and city taxes and it all adds up.

Even though she's a professor who gets her health insurance through work, there's co-pays for everything. And it's a lot! She had to pay $1200 for glasses last month. 😱

I have unfortunately experienced US emergency care and I don't think the US is a system to yearn for. The French system, maybe, but not the US. The ER was like the NHS in the 80s; I was there one night and I woke up to a bill of almost $30,000.

I'm currently in hospital in the French system. First time as an inpatient. The difference is stark and very sad. I think we've become so used to a broken healthcare system in the UK that we no longer see how badly it's failing.

Bumdrops · 20/10/2025 12:56

OP
you are clearly very anxious
you are struggling to tolerate uncertainty
our health is all about uncertainty
we can’t expect routine health screening to go faster - the system is under so much pressure -
yes y pay nat. Insurance
you would be paying a whole lot more if you were paying USA / private healthcare -
so like people have said - be grateful !!

find something to distract yourself -
or you are going to have a very uncomfortable few weeks wait !!!

NorthernDancer · 20/10/2025 12:58

Don't get prostate cancer. There's a six month wait for diagnosis in our area.

LemonTT · 20/10/2025 13:00

Horserider5678 · 20/10/2025 12:40

Rubbish, most pat in far more than they get out of it! By the time I retire I will have paid over £240,000 in NI contributions! My biggest cost to the NHS was having a baby which is around £20,000 if I had to pay and £7000 for gall bladder removal and probably another £4000 for smears mammogram med etc. On top of that maybe a GP appointment once a year, so I’ve definitely put in more than I’ve used the NHS for!

You had the assurance that there is an A&E service you could get and who would treat you no questions asked. That you could pick up the phone and call an ambulance if you needed it. That if you got cancer you would get treatment without bankrupting yourself. £240k would pay for a couple of hospital stays for you and your family on the US.

Compared to you I have paid in more and taken out far less. But I appreciate knowing that there is a service I can use if I needed it or wanted it.

Meadowfinch · 20/10/2025 13:04

RosesAndHellebores · 20/10/2025 12:46

Do you have research based evidence for this please?

I have worked since 1981, mostly as a higher rate tax payer. I've had three NHS births - the first was mismanaged resulting in a prolapsed bladder for which the NHS refused to refer and put right, the second (excellent care) but the baby died which was expected, the third was fine because I'd learnt how to advocate.

Prior to children, I was diagnosed with rampant and serious graves disease, which my NHS GP had dismissed - three times. Sorted privately.

I have had a bad break repaired on the NHS and physio afterwards.

My osteoporosis care is via NHS rheumatology.

The NHS refused to refer my children for grommets.

The NHS, CAMHS, refused my daughter aupporpt when she was cutting. Overdosing and restricting food. She got better because with a combination of BUPA and private money there was £8k to spend on her. She is now a teacher, paying tax, and would not be doing that if left to the NHS.

Whilst I think three weeks is OK for a aroutine mammogram, the NHS is absolutely NOT free and is barely fit for purpose.

Similarly my mother has had one child, one heart op, is 89 and has certainly paid in more than she has taken out.

I'd like to see an NHHs passport that starts at birth and logs what each individual puts in and what they take out.

Because the mean salary in the UK is £31,600, and NI paid on that is £2,284. Over 50 working years that's £114,000 which doesn't cover the cost of a state pension, never mind NHS treatment.

To be a net contributor in any year, you have to earn somewhere north of £50k which means the majority of people cost more than they contribute.

ManteesRock · 20/10/2025 13:06

Next time do like your American friend has no choice but to do and pay to go private - you'll wait 2/3 days for the result but you'll be at least £3k out of pocket!

Lundier · 20/10/2025 13:07

NapoleonsToe · 20/10/2025 12:56

I'm currently in hospital in the French system. First time as an inpatient. The difference is stark and very sad. I think we've become so used to a broken healthcare system in the UK that we no longer see how badly it's failing.

I agree the French system is wildly better. They do have copayments and an insurance model, but not the sort of Hunger Games approach of the US. I wish we could get out from under the shadow of the nightmarish US healthcare system and look instead at how our nearer neighbours handle things.

France spends a little bit more than us, about 1% more, and the mutuelle on top is maybe another £50 a month. So for most people it's like a water bill, not a mortgage. And the difference in care is amazing.

Eastmeetswest1 · 20/10/2025 13:07

I truly am sorry you are worrying about your results. I had mine done just over 2 weeks ago now because I got a text to go. I must admit it was so efficient - in and out in - perhaps 6/7 minutes (probably quicker), that I haven't even thought about when the results will be sent out. I am just grateful for the text and as I would of done nothing about getting a mommogram without it. The delay in getting my results is actually reassuring me as when I went to the GP a few years back and gave a blood test and told I could phone in a couple of days, they phoned within a few hours to come back. Super grateful for everything we are given but appreciate not everyone has the best of experiences.

Hope you get your results soon.

BlackStrayCat · 20/10/2025 13:08

I live in Spain.
Free healthcare.
Routine breast scans from 45. Every two years.
Results in 15 minutes.

RosesAndHellebores · 20/10/2025 13:11

HappyNewTaxYear · 20/10/2025 12:51

@RosesAndHellebores And what would you do with the information on this NHS passport?

It seems as if you and your family have leaned heavily (if not exclusively) on it at times. But you think this is ok because you’ve been a higher rate taxpayer?

That's not what I'm saying and I disagree with the fact that we have leaned on it heavily. Indeed when it's services were clinically needed they were declined: bladder repair after a botched birth, failure to diagnose graves disease, refusal to deal with an ENT referral for the children after 14 and 11 ear infections respectively, failure to provide MH services to my dd, regarding my osteoporosis declining me the most optimal course of treatment because I was a year too young - teriparatide, so I paid for it privately £2500. I haven't used it for much else.

I think it would be useful for everyone to have a view of their individual cost to the state, on a net basis.

Overthebow · 20/10/2025 13:11

Summortime · 20/10/2025 12:33

Oh god the “shut up and pay private” comments 🤦🏻‍♀️

It’s true though isn’t it. People in America pay for their own private health insurance or they work for a company that pays for them. Same in the UK, there’s lots of us who choose to work for companies that pay for private health insurance, others pay private for themselves, others choose to rely on the NHS which is free at point of use. Yes we pay taxes that go towards the NHS but most people won’t pay enough to cover all their costs, and the point of it is that is a universal NHS so basic healthcare is covered for everyone. It’s not perfect but it is there. You do need to pay private if you want things quicker.

welshmum3 · 20/10/2025 13:12

If anything is amiss, you'll hear a lot sooner. I had the results of mine, plus a biopsy within two weeks. The result of the biopsy only took two days. And all was fine. No news is good news?

WearyAuldWumman · 20/10/2025 13:12

Summortime · 20/10/2025 12:33

Oh god the “shut up and pay private” comments 🤦🏻‍♀️

My comment wasn't intended to be 'shut up and pay private'. It was an illustration of what I had to do to get my results quickly, but also an explanation that the service in the States actually isn't better than ours.

In the US you're only getting rapid health care if you can pay for it - and thank goodness we don't have the same set-up for prescriptions here.

RosesAndHellebores · 20/10/2025 13:13

Lundier · 20/10/2025 13:07

I agree the French system is wildly better. They do have copayments and an insurance model, but not the sort of Hunger Games approach of the US. I wish we could get out from under the shadow of the nightmarish US healthcare system and look instead at how our nearer neighbours handle things.

France spends a little bit more than us, about 1% more, and the mutuelle on top is maybe another £50 a month. So for most people it's like a water bill, not a mortgage. And the difference in care is amazing.

💯

We have a home in France and it's beyond comparison. Here it's shot for everyone and nine times out of ten delivered with very little basic courtesy.

MrsCookieCat · 20/10/2025 13:13

@Summortimei am so sorry this is making you anxious and i completely understand why. It’s shit.

I work in NHS screening and if there was anything nasty or unusual found you would generally hear much sooner. These cases get prioritised, the negative ones which is the majority then have to wait to be signed off hence the three week turnaround.

I know it’s super hard but try not to worry, if there’s anything you need to know hopefully you’ll hear soon

Charlotte120221 · 20/10/2025 13:14

National Insurance is just another tax though - notionally it pays for NHS and benefits and pensions but clearly it doesn't cover all of that.

Americans are paying their taxes AND health insurance. Failure to have health insurance can mean you go bankrupt. Our system is in no way comparable. If you like the US system so much then by all means get your own health insurance here.

Neemie · 20/10/2025 13:14

It is only free if you don’t pay any tax. If you do pay a tax you have to cover the cost of everyone who doesn’t pay tax and that is an awful lot of people in the UK. That is why the nhs is not great.