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The wait for NHS test results is cruel and anxiety inducing

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Summortime · 20/10/2025 11:19

I had a routine NHS mammogram a week ago. Was told up to three weeks wait for the result. I cannot believe this is considered acceptable. In USA for example you can get the result within the next couple of days. My American colleague was shocked that here in the UK we are just expected to wait.

My anxiety is sky high. I appreciate this is a problem I need to get help with but if results were given in days rather than weeks my anxiety would not be so bad. It is the waiting that’s the worst.

How in a so called first world country is a long wait for test results considered acceptable?

OP posts:
Garamousalata · 20/10/2025 16:12

I have to wait up to six weeks for my tumour marker blood results to come back. It’s not great but what can you do?

Lactosan83 · 20/10/2025 16:13

Vinvertebrate · 20/10/2025 15:16

I don't ignore the flaws but I'm also not going to ignore the fact that the only reason why my child is still with me today is thanks to the NHS.

I'm really pleased that your DC is now well, but ascribing that the "the NHS" is a bit odd. It falsely implies that your DC's outcome would have been different in other first world countries - yep, even the dreaded USA!. It's nonsense - decent healthcare and skilled clinicians likely saved your DC, the NHS is just the delivery model and I am not aware (having lived in FR, CH and the ME) of any country that does not provide free healthcare to children in life-threatening situations.

FWIW all of the above countries offered routine, preventative and emergency healthcare that was a country mile better, quicker, cleaner, more modern and patient-focused, than the NHS, in my experience. I am genuinely baffled by Brits' insistence on a Trabant-style healthcare system in which delays and obfuscation are consistently implicated in poor outcomes. I find people's reverence - and the aggressive way they defend poor practice - really "two minutes hate"-ish and dystopian.

All of this. To the point.

sunandfizz · 20/10/2025 16:18

When I had my routine mammogram, the radiologist asked (before the mammogram was taken) if I'd ever had one before and, if so, where was it and when because they will routinely send for those images and compare.

As I was leaving, she said to me I would hear within 2-3 weeks. However, I heard her say to the lady before me that she would hear within 2 weeks.

Are there any radiologists on here who would know if it's 2-3 weeks if they have to compare to previous mammograms from other hospitals - otherwise it's 2 weeks?

Also, can a radiologist instantly see if there is a cause for concern and are these scans 'triaged' ahead of those of no concern? I'd be interested to know. I just had an 'all ok' letter after 17 days.

EatMoreChocolate44 · 20/10/2025 16:21

I understand where you are coming from OP. I have awful health anxiety and any kind of wait is stressful however I'm still really grateful for our NHS. We are lucky to have it. I just wish the government would invest more and sort it out. I'd happily pay more in taxes for something that is crucial.

Lactosan83 · 20/10/2025 16:22

It is so revealing that the only posters who compare NHS with any other system and conclude that NHS is better use USA.

All other countries and health systems that are mentioned on this thread are to the conclusion that healthcare there is better than one offered by NHS.

But still, we focus on USA....

Imagine going through life convinced you have it great as long as you are not worse off than your weird cousin, ignoring the standard provided in the rest of the world. Amazing.

maxiemouslady · 20/10/2025 16:24

Summortime · 20/10/2025 11:28

Lade I don’t get my mammograms for free, like most working people national insurance is automatically deducted from my payslip. A huge amount of my pay is deducted every month! I’ve been working for 30 years!

Cool, so your payslip has a deduction for mammogram on it? That’s pretty advanced stuff, I’ve not heard of businesses giving their employees such a detailed breakdown of where their deductions go before. Interesting stuff really, I’d love to know how they the data from the NHS.

Annoyeddd · 20/10/2025 16:24

I have had mammogram results back within the week (negative ones).
The days scans are often sent to Australia and read overnight (their daytime) and results returned next morning and if there is a problem they are reexamined and the person contacted (before I get accused of being woke men get breast cancer too).
There is a reciprocal agreement from Australian scanners

CoffeeCantata · 20/10/2025 16:28

Northquit · 20/10/2025 15:49

@CoffeeCantata

We apparently have
The "one stop diagnostic centre" in Royton is officially called the Oldham Community Diagnostic Centre (CDC), located at Salmon Fields, Royton, OL2 6JG. It is an out-of-hospital facility that offers a range of diagnostic tests, including imaging (X-rays, MRIs), heart and lung tests, and blood tests. Patients must be referred by a GP or other healthcare professional to use the centre, which aims to provide quicker diagnoses in a more convenient location than a hospital.

I think our mammogram service has a good turnaround of less than a fortnight.

That’s good to hear. I know I’m not party to the ins and outs of the NHS, but I’ve always been both frustrated and baffled (in terms of cost/efficiency etc) about the proliferation of appointments you have to go through for treatment. Why is that less costly?

En route to this appointment I thought ‘I hope that if I need a biopsy they’ll just do it there and then - please just stick that needle in!’ And they sort of did ( a scan). I dreaded being told that I’d get a letter for another appointment for it.

Of course the NHS can’t be the same as private healthcare but as with state v private education there are surely a few things to be learned?

Sleepysunrise · 20/10/2025 16:30

sunandfizz · 20/10/2025 16:18

When I had my routine mammogram, the radiologist asked (before the mammogram was taken) if I'd ever had one before and, if so, where was it and when because they will routinely send for those images and compare.

As I was leaving, she said to me I would hear within 2-3 weeks. However, I heard her say to the lady before me that she would hear within 2 weeks.

Are there any radiologists on here who would know if it's 2-3 weeks if they have to compare to previous mammograms from other hospitals - otherwise it's 2 weeks?

Also, can a radiologist instantly see if there is a cause for concern and are these scans 'triaged' ahead of those of no concern? I'd be interested to know. I just had an 'all ok' letter after 17 days.

Its a mammographer that takes your mammogram at routine screening, not a Radiologist. The Radiologist will read the mammogram.
We ask if you have been screeened before as a previous mammogram is useful for comparison.
There may be a slight delay while we wait to receive the transfer, but the images are digital so this is unusual.
When your mammograms are read by 2 separate Radiologists, any that have clinical concern are sent to arbitration where they are looked at again and then a recall or discharge decision is made.
Any patient who needs a recall is usually recalled within 14 days as this is another KPI that needs to be met.

bridgetreilly · 20/10/2025 16:33

Yeah, it’s not normal to have skyhigh anxiety about the results of a routine mammogram. If they actually have reason to think it’s cancer, they prioritise.

BishyBarnyBee · 20/10/2025 16:36

If you are this anxious about a routine scan, you need to work on your anxiety, not blame the NHS. Objectively, you are in no different position to where you were before the scan. The vast majority of routine screening will show no cause for concern. We all need to learn how to not catastrophise while we wait for results. Many of us on here will have had tests for specific concerns and waited for the results. It's not ideal but honestly, it is possible to decide not to meet trouble half way.

Uricon2 · 20/10/2025 16:42

Horserider5678 · 20/10/2025 12:40

Rubbish, most pat in far more than they get out of it! By the time I retire I will have paid over £240,000 in NI contributions! My biggest cost to the NHS was having a baby which is around £20,000 if I had to pay and £7000 for gall bladder removal and probably another £4000 for smears mammogram med etc. On top of that maybe a GP appointment once a year, so I’ve definitely put in more than I’ve used the NHS for!

Up to now. As you get older, after the time you'll be paying NI, unless you're very lucky (or very unlucky) your cost to the NHS is likely to increase greatly. No, the system isn't perfect and it isn't "free" but I'd still rather take my chances with it than the US model.

sunandfizz · 20/10/2025 16:45

I do think they have different thresholds for concern though. For instance, I'm in London and if you ring the GP about anything it's usually about 2 weeks to get a GP appt. However, when I had menstrual bleediing earlier this year, I couldn't remember if my last period had been within 12 months (so was not sure if I was classed as post-menopause or still peri). I phoned the GP at about midday, they got me in at 4pm! She said she would put me on a '2 week pathway.' I wasn't too worried at that time as I wasn't sure what this meant. This was Friday afternoon. At 9am Monday I had a call regarding what they called my "urgent cancer referral." I was terrified. But I was in the gynae clinic at 9am on the Wednesday. The lady who did the internal ultrasound was lovely, she talked me through the whole thing. It turned out I'm still in perimenopause and everything looked absolutely fine. But they did not hang about! This is why I suspect they may also triage routine mammograms and if there is any concern, people are called back a lot sooner.

Vinvertebrate · 20/10/2025 16:58

Kirbert2 · 20/10/2025 16:09

It started out life threatening and turned into a 10 month hospital stay with a cancer diagnosis, multiple surgeries and then obviously everything that comes with a cancer diagnosis such as chemotherapy.

I feel incredibly grateful that I didn't have to worry about insurance etc that some of the American parents in my online cancer parents groups were often worrying about.

But the point still stands: there is no developed country which would allow any child to die of treatable cancer. Not one. And in the vast majority of those countries (read: all but the USA), insurance would not be a relevant factor either.

Unless people really believe that in France, Germany, Austria, Switzerland and any other of our close European neighbours, "uninsured" patients are left with untreated infectious disease, or lying in the road after a car accident, because these benighted countries don't have "our" <cringe> NHS? Now that really would be an example of misguided British exceptionalism...

sunandfizz · 20/10/2025 17:01

Thanks for explaining @Sleepysunrise

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MyKnickers · 20/10/2025 17:06

Vinvertebrate · 20/10/2025 16:58

But the point still stands: there is no developed country which would allow any child to die of treatable cancer. Not one. And in the vast majority of those countries (read: all but the USA), insurance would not be a relevant factor either.

Unless people really believe that in France, Germany, Austria, Switzerland and any other of our close European neighbours, "uninsured" patients are left with untreated infectious disease, or lying in the road after a car accident, because these benighted countries don't have "our" <cringe> NHS? Now that really would be an example of misguided British exceptionalism...

Exactly. Much prefer the systems they have in the EU.

Kirbert2 · 20/10/2025 17:08

Vinvertebrate · 20/10/2025 16:58

But the point still stands: there is no developed country which would allow any child to die of treatable cancer. Not one. And in the vast majority of those countries (read: all but the USA), insurance would not be a relevant factor either.

Unless people really believe that in France, Germany, Austria, Switzerland and any other of our close European neighbours, "uninsured" patients are left with untreated infectious disease, or lying in the road after a car accident, because these benighted countries don't have "our" <cringe> NHS? Now that really would be an example of misguided British exceptionalism...

I never said there was though. I was just pointing out that it wasn't just a few weeks in hospital when it was life threatening, he was there for a very long time and needed a lot of treatments and surgeries and scans.

The parent cancer group I'm in is majority American so obviously I can't compare to any other system because it is either American or the handful of us who use the NHS.

Comeonbabylightmyfire · 20/10/2025 17:13

Summortime · 20/10/2025 12:28

Mumsnet seems to be in the minority. When you actually talk to people not hiding behind a keyboard who seem to hero worship the “free” NHS, the consensus is that people’s mental health in this country is destroyed by our healthcare system.

The desperation trying to get an appointment, having to fill out a form and wait for someone to decide if you’re worthy of a telephone appointment often with a paramedic not even a doctor. Then being told to wait from 8 am to 6 pm for a phone call. If you miss it through no fault of your own (my phone rang for one second then they hung up) you have to start the process again.

Heaven forbid you do need diagnostic tests you’re put on a waiting list for months or a 2WW, having researched the 2WW I can’t find any similar practice in other first world countries. You then have to wait patiently for the results and consider yourself grateful you were even given a test despite paying into the system. If you dare to complain you are told to “go private”.

I have a family member who had a breakdown after being referred for cancer tests. Except they kept cancelling her colonoscopy. Somehow she was meant to just carry on going to work and looking after her young family. When she complained to PALS in desperation she was told sorry not enough staff. And that’s what we’re meant to be grateful for?

I am always curious about what people who have similar views think that the solution is?

You are right, the NHS isn’t perfect but it’s not about whether someone is ‘worthy’. I understand that you are frustrated and possibly scared but do you really think that people are purposely kept waiting?

TenGreatFatSquirrels · 20/10/2025 17:17

The results don’t change the longer they take OP. I know it’s frustrating but the workers cant magic up extra people to process the results. Write your your MP if you want to.

You are able to pay for private if you’d prefer.

CatHugger · 20/10/2025 17:19

YANBU. The weeks I spent waiting to find out whether the tumour I had was cancerous or benign were some of the worst of my life. It's cruel to let people worry for weeks. And the NHS isn't free! I pay in thousands a month in NI.

Lactosan83 · 20/10/2025 17:29

Kirbert2 · 20/10/2025 17:08

I never said there was though. I was just pointing out that it wasn't just a few weeks in hospital when it was life threatening, he was there for a very long time and needed a lot of treatments and surgeries and scans.

The parent cancer group I'm in is majority American so obviously I can't compare to any other system because it is either American or the handful of us who use the NHS.

Then a lot of your gratefulness (for NHS - not for the fact that your child is now healthy, of course) really does arise out of fallacy of only comparing with USA.

We all really deserve so much better.

Kirbert2 · 20/10/2025 17:35

Lactosan83 · 20/10/2025 17:29

Then a lot of your gratefulness (for NHS - not for the fact that your child is now healthy, of course) really does arise out of fallacy of only comparing with USA.

We all really deserve so much better.

That's probably true to be fair considering it's always the alternative health system that enters my mind first, even knowing that obviously others are out there but as I said, that's because I interact with a lot of American parents through my cancer group.

Out of curiosity, since I know you've said you have experienced several systems. What would the ideal system look like if it was up to you?

ticklyfeet · 20/10/2025 17:38

I will admit to not reading anything other than the OP. Apologies to anyone who may have already said something similar to this.
I have voted YANBU. As you suffer from anxiety I think it’s reasonable for you to be anxious while waiting for the results. It would be entirely different for someone who didn’t suffer from anxiety.

Is this your first time having a routine mammogram? You know its the way your mind processes events like this rather than the likely outcome of the tests.

Hang on in there, the results will come soon enough. Wishing you well. x

Peridoteage · 20/10/2025 17:39

Americans also pay tax and social security.

They then have to pay for medical insurance on top of this.

And if you are poor you might have very poor coverage. Requests for treatment might be denied, you might not be able to access more expensive drugs, you might have to pay a huge amount every month for insulin or asthma inhalers.

My colleague has really good cover provides by our employer and it cost him £5k in co-pay to have his baby.