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1 out of 4 children can’t swim when going into year 7.

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Quiethelper · 17/10/2025 08:27

As the title says really. I was shocked to read over 1 out 4 children can’t swim 25m when going into year 7.

Secondary schools in our area don’t do lessons. Surly this needs to be addressed for the ones who couldn’t save themselves if they fell into water.

I would fully support and be happy for budget to be allocated for children to have essential swimming skills.

I feel really sad about this statistic.

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Porkychops · 17/10/2025 12:07

I was talking about this very issue the other day as 2 younger adults I know told me that they altered trying to learn now, hadn't done it at school, had no pool nearby as children. I think it illustrates the demise of public services and health really. As kids we often went on our own once we could swim, kept is fit and it was a social thing. I agree that most swimmer would struggle jn.an open water crisis but at least if you can swing. You can enjoy swimming on holiday and things like that.

Kirbert2 · 17/10/2025 12:08

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 17/10/2025 12:03

This is not a school issue. Parents should take their children to the local swimming pool regularly from a young age.
What the hell do you do with children on holiday if they can't swim.

How can a parent teach their child how to swim if they are unable to swim themselves? Or if they are a single parent to 2 children and their local leisure centre requires 1:1 with non swimmers and under 8's? That's also if they still have a local leisure centre as many closed during covid and many aren't affordable if they didn't close.

Not all children go on holiday.

Bluestitching · 17/10/2025 12:08

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 17/10/2025 11:54

Back in the dark ages when I was a child, every child learned to swim at school. Once you could swim a length (25m) you received a free pass for the local swimming baths. Every year you were retested with the distance gradually increasing. My siblings and I had free passes until we were 16. This is the kind of initiative that needs funding but like everything else now it depends on the child's parental income and motivation.

And whether or not the child is disabled. Or the parent is disabled. Or whether the parent is a single parent with no time and isn’t allowed 3 kids in the pool with them.

ImFineItsAllFine · 17/10/2025 12:09

eqpi4t2hbsnktd · 17/10/2025 12:03

This is not a school issue. Parents should take their children to the local swimming pool regularly from a young age.
What the hell do you do with children on holiday if they can't swim.

Go on a different type of holiday?

My parents couldn't swim. We went on holiday every year, just not beach resport/pool holidays.

Lucy5678 · 17/10/2025 12:10

cadburyegg · 17/10/2025 12:02

I agree. I am paying £100 a month for swimming lessons (for 2 children). That is simply unaffordable for a lot of people. It would be much better if they would learn to swim through school. My eldest is in year 6 and never had a single swimming lesson through school. I’d much rather they learn how to swim than do PE quite frankly. When are they ever going to need to run a relay race?

But the relay race can be taught on site, as a whole class, by their class teacher, for free, within the timings of a typical PE lesson. It’s not remotely comparable to the cost, time or extra adults involved in taking a class for swimming lessons.

Dinosaurland · 17/10/2025 12:10

I haven't read every comment on this thread but I'm surprised it's so high and not lower/ less able to swim. We prioritise swimming lessons for our kids. It's £300 for both for 10 lessons @ 30mins so £15 a lesson they are by a private firm and not council led. They've been going since 4 months. It's a life skill that ultimately if you think it is necessary you do all you can. Yes it's a big chunk of our money but at 2.5yr old my little girl was absolutely able to save herself. Doesn't mean I'd let her get in a pool alone. Or encourage river swimming. The lessons in the pool are irrelevant, it's water safety children should be taught, respect the water should be our objective. Just because you can swim in a pool doesn't mean you can swim in the sea. Totally different ball game.
You don't learn that from lessons you learn that from being told.

HelpMeUnpickThis · 17/10/2025 12:11

Unpaidviewer · 17/10/2025 11:44

I dont think that poster is being obtuse. As a non swimmer I wouldnt go canoeing. I'm sure the company you went with has rules about non swimmers too. Most people who cannot swim are wary of the water and avoid it.

@Unpaidviewer All 4 of us can swim. Please read to comprehend not to just post an argument. I mentioned that we are all swimmers.

Kirbert2 · 17/10/2025 12:12

Bluestitching · 17/10/2025 12:08

And whether or not the child is disabled. Or the parent is disabled. Or whether the parent is a single parent with no time and isn’t allowed 3 kids in the pool with them.

Yep.

My child is physically disabled and if he was to learn how to swim (we have no idea if it's possible), he'd need specialist 1-1 (expensive) swimming lessons which again, is often unaffordable.

maybethisyear · 17/10/2025 12:12

I think this may be a representation of uk racial demographics.

The majority of SE Asian and black children cannot swim and some areas have policy to target this like Leicestershire

It's 14% of white children cannot swim.

lessglittermoremud · 17/10/2025 12:15

Neither of my parents could swim so they prioritised us having lessons as children, I am the only one of my siblings who enjoyed it, the others stopped lessons as soon as they had reached 50m.
At primary school we had a little pool that we practiced in, which most primary schools don’t have now.
My DH is a strong swimmer and used to swim competitively as a child/teen. We paid for our children to have lessons, after placing them on a waiting list for ages. One stopped as soon as he had reached 50m as he hated it, the other stopped once the teacher said he had learnt everything they could teach him and the next step was competitive squad swimming and the youngest is having 1:1 lessons as he just wasn’t ’getting it’s in a small group.
At the primary school mine went to they did swimming in a block of 6 weeks, once a week. Most of the children could swim already in the cohort my children were in, which I was quite surprised about. Apparently there were about 8 out of 60 that couldn’t swim at all and then a middle group and then a group of strong swimmers. Not sending them is never an option, which is slightly crazy when some of the children are such strong swimmers because I think the resources should be spent on extra time/lessons for the ones that can’t swim.

sparrowhawkhere · 17/10/2025 12:23

Upstartled · 17/10/2025 08:50

My ds was in swimming lessons when he was six, and then covid hit, and then swimming lessons and school was closed down to save the nhs and the vulnerable.

When they reopened years later, we put him back on the list for swimming lessons. Except by then the list for beginners had expanded to those who had forgotten how to swim, those who were learning how to swim and those who were now of an age to be starting lessons.

My ds is in Y7 now and DH got a phonecall over the summer holidays from the pool about those swimming lessons and he laughed and asked if a place had finally become available and they said, no - they just wanted to know if he still wanted to be on the list?

Fortunately, we've been in a position to pay more money and have ds learn to swim elsewhere. But this is what our country did to our kids in covid and it's just one small bit of the shit-show.

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I’m sorry but that’s an exaggeration. Everything shutdown in March but by August some swimming lessons started again. Yes it might have taken longer for council pools I’m not sure but it wasn’t years later as you have said.

ditsyditherer · 17/10/2025 12:23

This

Upstartled · 17/10/2025 12:24

maybethisyear · 17/10/2025 12:12

I think this may be a representation of uk racial demographics.

The majority of SE Asian and black children cannot swim and some areas have policy to target this like Leicestershire

It's 14% of white children cannot swim.

So if 14% of white children cannot swim and they represent 80% of the population, that must mean that near enough 70% of children who are not white cannot swim. Is that right?

Lucy5678 · 17/10/2025 12:24

HelpMeUnpickThis · 17/10/2025 12:11

@Unpaidviewer All 4 of us can swim. Please read to comprehend not to just post an argument. I mentioned that we are all swimmers.

So you all fell into a current in a river from canoes as swimmers and all presumably survived. Great.

How is that relevant to someone who can’t swim and why they’d be in a current? Why would a non swimmer get in a canoe?Surely if you can’t swim you accept you can’t participate in river based sports?!

If a non swimmer accidentally ends up in a strong river current because they were stupid enough to get in a canoe then I think we just chalk that up to idiocy rather than being something schools need to equip them for.

PuppyMonkey · 17/10/2025 12:24

Another one here who can’t swim. I found swimming lessons deadly dull as a child and the thought of doing them now even duller.

Have somehow managed to survive by, for example, not going canoeing.

I go to the beach and paddle occasionally but it’s not my favourite type of place tbh. I prefer walking holidays, and I suppose I could fall off the edge of a cliff doing that - but nobody would suggest I must learn rock climbing as a vital life skill.Grin

Rhea43 · 17/10/2025 12:25

Quiethelper · 17/10/2025 09:19

I just think that it should be free, to a basic standard. Floating, treadwater, raise hand, look for a branch to reach someone if they are in the water - don’t go in. Hopefully skills to swim to the edge - if your in kick off shoes - that kind of thing - I’m no expert. But surly this is essential. More so than some things on the curriculum and not in going just to get them to that level.

I do agree with you, but for a person to be able to be able to do lifesaving skills (treading water, raising a hand, shouting etc) they need to be able to swim to a decent level and have some water confidence first (I say this as a former swimming teacher and open water lifeguard). My own children have been in the water since weeks old and are confident swimmers who are now learning lifesaving, but I enjoy swimming (and can see past the horrors of the local pool’s changing rooms!). We are by open water often though and to me it is so important that the know how to be safe.

I wish it was something that was funded by local authorities as I think it’s a very useful life skill, but, things being as they are, I do think the onus falls to parents and, like anything, some people deem it important but to others it just isn’t.

RandomUsernameHere · 17/10/2025 12:25

I think water safety should definitely be taught in schools, theory as well as practical, so about things like tides and rip currents, not diving where it’s unsafe etc.

HelpMeUnpickThis · 17/10/2025 12:25

Lucy5678 · 17/10/2025 12:24

So you all fell into a current in a river from canoes as swimmers and all presumably survived. Great.

How is that relevant to someone who can’t swim and why they’d be in a current? Why would a non swimmer get in a canoe?Surely if you can’t swim you accept you can’t participate in river based sports?!

If a non swimmer accidentally ends up in a strong river current because they were stupid enough to get in a canoe then I think we just chalk that up to idiocy rather than being something schools need to equip them for.

My point was that accidents happen, in response to PP who said “why would you be in a current”.

Peridoteage · 17/10/2025 12:26

My sister was able to take her children to swimming lessons from babies because she was a SAHM.

Not denying money ia needed, but for time it comes down to priorities, you do not need a sahm for this. DH and i have always worked, our DC can swim well because we gave up our weekends/free time to take them to lessons as well as swimming as a family.

Lucy5678 · 17/10/2025 12:27

HelpMeUnpickThis · 17/10/2025 12:25

My point was that accidents happen, in response to PP who said “why would you be in a current”.

Yeah, but if you stay off water they’re pretty unlikely.

Unpaidviewer · 17/10/2025 12:28

HelpMeUnpickThis · 17/10/2025 12:11

@Unpaidviewer All 4 of us can swim. Please read to comprehend not to just post an argument. I mentioned that we are all swimmers.

What is wrong with you? I know you can swim, there's nothing wrong with my reading comprehension. Thank you.

AnnaMagnani asked why would someone be in a current if they couldn't swim. Your story didnt answer their question and you accused them of being obtuse.

SilkAndSparklesForParties · 17/10/2025 12:31

It's a parental responsibility, not the state's. Along with good manners, driving, cooking, etc.

vivainsomnia · 17/10/2025 12:32

The main reason for drownings is not the inability to swim, it's panicking.

You don't need to know how to swim to avoid draining, in most circumstances, you need to know how to float on your back and not let panic take over.

melodypondisasuperhero · 17/10/2025 12:33

In my experience, swimming lessons are extremely ineffective, likely because they spend most of their time sitting on the side waiting their turn to do a lap.

When I was a kid (not from the UK) I went to a swimming school for 2 weeks in the summer, 30 mins a day in a lake taught by a 15 year old girl. By the end of the 2 weeks I could swim 10 meters or so. My sisters, similar story. DS on the other hand spent 2 years in weekly lessons mostly sitting by the side. 1 year in he could swim on his back. Another year and basically nothing had changed so we pulled him out to teach him ourselves. They don’t learn a whole lot sitting on the side of the pool and actually swimming for 5 minutes a week or so.

BoringBarbie · 17/10/2025 12:34

All children get one term of swimming lessons at school in Year 3 or Year 4.

You're being overly dramatic about this. I can swim but I have never needed to for any kind of life saving purpose and it's highly unlikely I ever will.