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AIBU to think a manager investigating a complaint about their own department is a conflict of interest (especially in a charity)?

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quirinus · 16/10/2025 11:47

AIBU to think a manager investigating a complaint about their own department is a conflict of interest, especially in a charity? I recently made a complaint to a charity and part of my complaint involved a potential conflict of interest concerning a staff member in one department.

When I submitted my complaint, I was told it would be investigated by a senior member of staff and then they would feed back to the CEO, who would respond to me. When I got the response from the CEO, I found out that the person who had actually investigated my complaint was the manager in charge of the very department I’d complained about. They are also a Trustee.

Not only that, but they’d completely misunderstood (and therefore dismissed) the conflict of interest issue I’d raised about staff in their team. I queried whether it was appropriate for the department manager to investigate a complaint about their own department, given they have a duty of loyalty to their staff and would naturally want to show their department is being run properly.

I was told it wasn’t a conflict of interest, with no explanation other than “it’s standard practice for a senior manager to investigate a complaint in their department.” This doesn’t sit right with me, especially for a charity, where governance and impartiality should be taken seriously.

AIBU to think this is a conflict of interest, or at the very least poor practice?

Also, if so, does anyone know if there’s any guidance or rules about this that I could refer to when I follow up?

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Itcantbetrue · 18/01/2026 11:06

Yes which is why if I have seriously complaints I may include a manager but always senior staff as well.
I work in an environment where the nature of the job means a fair few complaints and I've witnessed first hand those managers squashing complaints and managing the complainant doing nothing rather than tackling the actual problem !!

NellieJean · 18/01/2026 11:10

Flev · 16/10/2025 11:59

It's the norm in my organisation (also a charity) for the first stage of a complaint to be dealt with by the manager just above the "issue", as they're the most likely to be able to get simple things fixed quickly. If it cannot be resolved by them and moves to a stage 2 complaint it is then passed to someone at a greater distance from it.

Exactly right.

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