If you spell out what disability benefits pay for, to the masses, you will get an even bigger outcry, because a large proportion of them cannot imagine anything outside their own experience.
So when I say:
'I can't regulate my own temperature, I often need the heating on, or my AirCon on when other people would not need that'
They think 'well she can just put a jumper on, or open a window, thats outrageous, how dare she have aircon in her house when I can't afford aircon'..
For many people, spending over 2K on an air con unit* for the bedroom seems an outrageous luxury, for me, its the difference between being able to function, sleep well, work, and being plunged into an autonomic crash, where I spend a few weeks cycling through sweating buckets, dehydrating, shivering so hard it hurts, barely functional, and there is no fix for that, just 'ride it out', however long that might take.
I've just bought two pairs of trousers and a bra, I have little change from £200, because I am buying specialist sensory, wheelchair user adapted, easy-on clothing from specialist stores, I am not able to pop to a charity shop or hop on Vinted.
For someone who can charity shop, nip to Primark etc, thats a huge amount of money on clothing.
This is why we have a government, to make big decisions and find out the details and act on them, rather than asking the whole nation what they think - look at what happened last time we did that, we're still suffering the repercussions of that now, because so many people were given a vote on something they did not understand the implications of.
Also - what I need to function, work, live - surely, thats my business. Should I really have to spell out the ins and outs of my life and health to others to justify what I have and what I spend?