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A few nice presents or lots of cheap tat?

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notanotherborimgname · 15/10/2025 10:31

For children 7 and 8?
I usually get loads of cheapy presents from b&m and home bargains so they have loads under the tree but not a lot of value and most of it is eaten/used up or broken within a couple of months which is fine because I don’t want tat clogging up the rooms for long.

I am thinking of spending the same amount but just buying a few nice things but I think they’ll be disappointed if there’s not lots of things to open and won’t really appreciate the difference in value.

YABU - buy lots of tat it’s Christmas
YANBU - buy a few nice things for the same money,
even though it won’t look as much.

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butwhatthen · 15/10/2025 10:37

In between. Buy a couple of nice presents and then a couple of cheaper things to bulk it up.

Pancakeflipper · 15/10/2025 10:38

A mix of both? One or 2 decent presents and then a big stocking of 'tat'?

sleepandcoffee · 15/10/2025 10:38

Absolutely just get a few nice things , if you want to bulk up the present pile then get things they need - bath stuff , clothing , backpack , books from vinted are great

Troublein · 15/10/2025 10:39

I'd go for less things but nicer stuff.

You have another ten years plus of putting presents under the tree and every year the things they want/like/are suitable for their age will get more expensive and make a smaller pile.
It will get more expensive each year to make their gifts take up much space even with tat, so start slimming it down now.

Maybe still get a couple of the cheaper things like a selection box or an annual as well, but mainly better stuff.

stargirl1701 · 15/10/2025 10:43

We do the much hated poem but don’t really have a budget. We might need one though…DD1 turned 13 this year so might ask for more expensive items.

Werp · 15/10/2025 10:46

Nice stuff plus cheap, fun but useful consumables and a small amount of tat, best of both worlds.

Irenesortof · 15/10/2025 11:20

notanotherborimgname · 15/10/2025 10:31

For children 7 and 8?
I usually get loads of cheapy presents from b&m and home bargains so they have loads under the tree but not a lot of value and most of it is eaten/used up or broken within a couple of months which is fine because I don’t want tat clogging up the rooms for long.

I am thinking of spending the same amount but just buying a few nice things but I think they’ll be disappointed if there’s not lots of things to open and won’t really appreciate the difference in value.

YABU - buy lots of tat it’s Christmas
YANBU - buy a few nice things for the same money,
even though it won’t look as much.

Please don't keep buying a lot of tat that ends up in landfill. Your children's generation will suffer for it even more than ours, if these habits don't change. You could give them a couple of nice, long-lasting presents and explain why buying junk is bad for the planet.

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