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Gifted!!!!! What is the fascination with this made up word??!!

48 replies

Lanzarotelady · 14/10/2025 08:29

I have been gifted??!!

No you've been given!

Where has it come from and why?

Drives me insane.

OP posts:
Koolandorthegang · 14/10/2025 08:30

Me too

NebulousWhistler · 14/10/2025 08:30

One word: “Influencers”

VictoriaEra · 14/10/2025 08:31

Agree. I was given a gift.

Lanzarotelady · 14/10/2025 08:31

NebulousWhistler · 14/10/2025 08:30

One word: “Influencers”

Of course!

OP posts:
TheatricalLife · 14/10/2025 08:32

I hate gifted. I also hate curated (as in the company has carefully "curated" a subscription box).

DominosForDinner · 14/10/2025 08:32

Yeah I think it comes from online games and platforms where you can give people a little “gift”

Isittimeformynapyet · 14/10/2025 08:34

Yup, I hate it too.

Station19 · 14/10/2025 08:34

Glad I’m not the only one who can’t stand it. As PP says - its popularity originates from social media influencers and it has subsequently infiltrated everyday language. Having said that, I never hear it in real life - only on the internet.

Isittimeformynapyet · 14/10/2025 08:36

DominosForDinner · 14/10/2025 08:32

Yeah I think it comes from online games and platforms where you can give people a little “gift”

Yes, the verb in that sentence is "give".

You can give someone a cup of tea but it doesn't mean mean you've "cup of tead" them.

Fibrous · 14/10/2025 08:36

Agree! Annoys the crap out of me, too.

BallerinaRadio · 14/10/2025 08:37

Well if it was a gift it at least makes sense. I'm not sure it's worth getting this annoyed over

Lilington · 14/10/2025 08:39

Yes!
I fucking hate it.
Along with super instead of very.
And bloody elevate.

elQuintoConyo · 14/10/2025 08:39

Awful. As is 'spendy' for expensive.

But I'm all for expanding vocabulary, even if I don't like the new words (I'm currently on the 'shagging' thread - that's a eye-opener!).

Isittimeformynapyet · 14/10/2025 08:39

BallerinaRadio · 14/10/2025 08:37

Well if it was a gift it at least makes sense. I'm not sure it's worth getting this annoyed over

It's a shit word for shit people.

I am INCANDESCENT with rage.

Greggsit · 14/10/2025 08:40

All words are made up.

Myblueclematis · 14/10/2025 08:40

I grind my teeth every time I see this word written down. None of my friends have ever used it thankfully.

I file it along with the phrase "reach out" or "reached out". Just say contact or contacted for heaven's sake! 😡

BallerinaRadio · 14/10/2025 08:40

Isittimeformynapyet · 14/10/2025 08:39

It's a shit word for shit people.

I am INCANDESCENT with rage.

No need to get the Indyrage over it

BallerinaRadio · 14/10/2025 08:40

Myblueclematis · 14/10/2025 08:40

I grind my teeth every time I see this word written down. None of my friends have ever used it thankfully.

I file it along with the phrase "reach out" or "reached out". Just say contact or contacted for heaven's sake! 😡

Ok vocab police

Hadalifeonce · 14/10/2025 08:43

It is quite an old word. Essentially, all words are made up, then they drop into everyday use.

FrodoBiggins · 14/10/2025 08:51

It's not any more "made up" than any other word, and it's not new it's just more popular.

Per the Oxford English Dictionary:

"The earliest known use of the verb gift is in the late 1500s.

OED's earliest evidence for gift is from before 1600, in Wife in Morel's Skin.

It is also recorded as a noun from the Middle English period (1150—1500)."

So I guess it's newer than the noun form but still pretty old!

I'm pretty sure Latin has a distinct word for "to give something as a gift" as opposed to just "to give" although that's a guess based on the fact Italian does (regalare v dare). It's a slightly different meaning and I like having lots of words and better specificity so I like it.

So yeah weird thing to be mad about. If you hear it too much maybe you're on the socials too often though as I can't say it crops up lots irl.

TheAutumnCrow · 14/10/2025 08:53

elQuintoConyo · 14/10/2025 08:39

Awful. As is 'spendy' for expensive.

But I'm all for expanding vocabulary, even if I don't like the new words (I'm currently on the 'shagging' thread - that's a eye-opener!).

Shagging is surely a fine word.

‘Shop the collection’ on the other hand is an offence against humanity. And as for the ‘shop the coat’ I saw the other day … just fuck off.

And yes, ‘gifted’ is very infra dig.

Bikergran · 14/10/2025 08:55

Americans. Goes along with burglarized and other such wordmangling abominations.

BriefEncountersOfTheThirdKind · 14/10/2025 08:57

All words are made up and assimilated into the lexicon

You can be given something that isn't a gift, you aren't just gifted everything that is given

People can also be "gifted" with talents or knowledge...

latetothefisting · 14/10/2025 08:57

Surely all words are "made up" though?
Just some more recently than others!

rolloverbeethoven · 14/10/2025 08:59

Language changes all the time though, doesn't it, otherwise we'd all be speaking in Shakespearean and biting our thumbs at people we don't like.