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Anxiety 10yr old?

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Fingerscrossed22 · 10/10/2025 22:41

Posting for traffic- apologies.

At a loss as to how to support or if there is a medical issue ?

My 10 yr old DS developed a sudden crippling stomach pain in January , he was asleep and it woke him (9 at the time)
I rushed to A&E as he was crying and bent over (Thought was appendix) , Dr diagnosed abdominal migraine.

It kept happening, more frequently.
Blood tests and a scan have revealed nothing.
We removed food groups , changed from tap water to bottle.
Nothing has made a difference.
Anxiety was a consideration too.

I'm still on the fence if its medical episodes or/and anxiety.

Ds has a stable, calm life (as much as a 10yr old with older and younger siblings can have !) He gets on with everyone, lovely school, teachers and friends. He is active and enjoys playing sport 2x a week as a hobby.
He gets on great with all in household.

He is getting stomach cramps twice a day- could be anytime.
Though, evening does seem to be a more common time .
He cries and is bent over in pain- lasting approx 20 mins.

The consultant is at a loss as is our GP.

Has anyone experienced similar?

Many thanks

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Endofyear · 10/10/2025 23:12

Does he have any other symptoms of anxiety? I would be wary of doctors suggesting a psychological cause because they haven't got to the bottom of his physical symptoms. Is his consultant a gastroenterologist? Has your son had any problems with bowels/eating/reflux?

Not saying it can't be anxiety, just that any physical cause should be ruled out first. Are they referring him for psychological assessment?

Fingerscrossed22 · 10/10/2025 23:22

@Endofyear , thanks for the reply.
It was a peads consultant.

No other refferal.
We live in a quite rural part of UK, I'd imagine the nearest hospital that has a more specialised department for gastro is about 2.5hrs away at the Bigger hospital.
But will definitely push for that department consultant.

No issues with diet/bowels .
I will be returning to GP on Monday to push further and for a psychological refferal too

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SlightlyHeartbroken · 11/10/2025 06:44

Mesenteric adenitis?

Mrsoftandhisstrangeworld · 11/10/2025 06:48

I would obviously push for more medical assessment. Has celiac been ruled out?

But I would also placebo it. You've got to make it convincing though.

Katandra9 · 11/10/2025 07:52

My 10 year old daughter is the exact same! I could of written this word for word!

I have taken her to so many doctors and specialists and nothing other then some raised lymphnoeds in her tummy have shown - but I have been told they wouldn't cause this reaction.

It's so hard to watch and not be able to do anything to help so my heart is with you

Eenameenadeeka · 11/10/2025 08:33

I'm by no means an expert but it really doesn't sound like anxiety to me, it sounds more like a medical issue. I think thr stomach pain from anxiety is generally more dull and lasts longer, his sounds more intense but for a shorter time.

nortonfolgate · 11/10/2025 15:28

I'm experiencing very similar with my 11 year old, I have suspected for a while that he has cyclical vomiting syndrome as his attacks usually end with intense vomiting - but they come in clusters (days/weeks apart) and the following few attacks are often 'just' the stomach pain on its own.
Excitement is his usual trigger, so before or after parties, trips etc. I have wondered if he is actually feeling anxiety linked to these events but I am leaning more towards CVS.

I've found this article helpful, there is a bit about abdominal migraines, which don't necessarily feature vomiting, perhaps this might be relevant?
rarediseases.org/rare-diseases/cyclic-vomiting-syndrome/

Cyclic Vomiting Syndrome - Symptoms, Causes, Treatment | NORD

Learn about Cyclic Vomiting Syndrome, including symptoms, causes, and treatments. If you or a loved one is affected by this condition, visit NORD to find

https://rarediseases.org/rare-diseases/cyclic-vomiting-syndrome/

Fingerscrossed22 · 14/10/2025 12:45

Thank you for all the replies, sorry to hear some of your children are experiencing same/similar.

Seen the GP again, a further referal and more bloods (Ive specifically asked for Chrons this time too)

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Fingerscrossed22 · 14/10/2025 12:46

Mrsoftandhisstrangeworld · 11/10/2025 06:48

I would obviously push for more medical assessment. Has celiac been ruled out?

But I would also placebo it. You've got to make it convincing though.

Hi, yes that has been ruled out last time a food allergen test too.

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Fingerscrossed22 · 14/10/2025 12:47

nortonfolgate · 11/10/2025 15:28

I'm experiencing very similar with my 11 year old, I have suspected for a while that he has cyclical vomiting syndrome as his attacks usually end with intense vomiting - but they come in clusters (days/weeks apart) and the following few attacks are often 'just' the stomach pain on its own.
Excitement is his usual trigger, so before or after parties, trips etc. I have wondered if he is actually feeling anxiety linked to these events but I am leaning more towards CVS.

I've found this article helpful, there is a bit about abdominal migraines, which don't necessarily feature vomiting, perhaps this might be relevant?
rarediseases.org/rare-diseases/cyclic-vomiting-syndrome/

Ah no that sounds awful.
My Dc has only vomited once, taht was after the very first incident, at the hospital.

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Fingerscrossed22 · 14/10/2025 12:51

SlightlyHeartbroken · 11/10/2025 06:44

Mesenteric adenitis?

Hi,
I've just looked up that, I can't say thats it - He hasn't had a fever or any of the symptoms really barr the stomach pain, which is all over the stomach, mostly centeral.
Ongoing really since Febuary.

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nortonfolgate · 17/10/2025 21:41

Fingerscrossed22 · 14/10/2025 12:47

Ah no that sounds awful.
My Dc has only vomited once, taht was after the very first incident, at the hospital.

Apologies I somehow missed the bit in your OP where you said he'd already had a diagnosis of abdominal migraine!

How is he doing?
To update my DS has been prescribed buscopan and it's had some success but we need to give it a few more weeks really, has your son tried it yet?

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