I’ve just been asked by her mum (my SIL) to temporarily have my 17yo step-niece to stay. She needs a safe place as father who has alcohol issues has become erratic. She is a quiet, goth-type animal lover who I think needs a gentle hand and some female support. I’m actually v flattered that she’s asked and am hoping I can attempt to be the supportive female role model that I needed at her age.
I don’t have children of my own, so the parenting thing is pretty much alien to me. I live on my own, with my dog, am self employed but travel a bit (so she’d be on her own some nights).
Any advice from seasoned teen parents/carers on how I can make this a positive and empowering experience for us both? But still take care of boundaries/house rules etc.