my daughters dad and I were together for a few years before I had my daughter. I helped him raise his 2 older children and when they stayed with us done the school run a few times. Now that I have my daughter I feel like he doesn’t help as much I’ve been ill this past week and I asked him to do the school run and he said he would do the school run but I would still have to get up and get her ready in the morning and I said that beats the whole point as I’m already up not resting. So it lead to an argument but I feel like if I need help with something he should just do it. He is self employed and works flexible so he can definitely help her just chosen not to. Sorry to rant I’m just really contemplating this relationship because I feel like he never pulls his weight when I really need him.