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AIBU?

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AIBU to think the hospital is wrong?

179 replies

mmmmkakshch · 06/10/2025 08:50

I had an appointment today at 8 30 am for a scan ive been waiting for for quite a while. It was at 8 30 am. I arrived at the hospital at 8 13 am. There was a giant queue waiting for the receptionist. It appeared they were down staff. I waited for over 30 minutes to get to the front to be told I was late and the appointment was now cancelled and id have to get a new referral via the gp. Ive been waiting over 4 months for this scan. I explained that i arrived in plenty of time and she said there was nothing she could do.
I dont really think im being unreasonable

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TheDenimPoet · 06/10/2025 17:57

Greggsit · 06/10/2025 09:04

To be honest, I wouldn't consider 15 minutes early to be in plenty of time. Any hospital appointment I've had has said to be there at least 30 minutes early to register, confirm details etc. There's often forms to be filled in e.g. for radiology to confirm any medications/contraindications/pregnancy etc.

Wouldn't you? Why not? What do you do then, camp out the night before?

Wigwambam65 · 06/10/2025 18:18

Kateluvscats1 · 06/10/2025 13:03

I work in this area, I know how the system works.

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You know how the systems works where you work. It wouldn’t help at my trust. Secretaries do not make scan appointments and in fact are not supposed to make ANY appointments. We have appointments teams who deal with everything appointment related.

I suspect if the OP called the scanning department and explained they would maybe reorganise in the circumstances but generally the clinician who originally requested the scan would have to request again. Obviously this should never have happened in the first place - I am imagining a last minute sick call and a very inexperienced receptionist being left to sort it out. I would still complain to the appropriate department just so that it is flagged reducing the chances of it happening again.

Just noticed your update OP - good result

SleepyLemur · 06/10/2025 19:37

Yes this is really not your fault. I would complain to PALS and also ask your GP to raise it (unless there have been better ideas on here). Hope you are seen soon and it is nothing serious.

TheGreatWesternShrew · 06/10/2025 19:40

GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 06/10/2025 10:25

Whenever I have been to hospital in the last few years there have also been monitors to book yourself in as well as receptionist. Is that really not the case here? It’s pretty appalling what happened to you but I said unusual not to also computer monitors to use also.

They got those in my dermatology department about five years ago. They’ve had signs on them saying out of order - proceed to reception for 4 years.

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