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Wise or protective women role models in literature, films and television.

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RainbowsAndPuddings · 05/10/2025 00:28

A friend of mine is having therapy. One of the tasks she's been set is to come up with names of one wise figure and one protective figure. These can be real life people, or from literature, television or films.

She and I have been discussing this and have found that it's really hard to think of women who fit this category, especially in books, television and film. And she can't think of any man who she could identify with who would fit these roles.

Are we being unreasonable to think there aren't many women portrayed in this manner? We thought we'd ask Mumsnet for suggestions.

OP posts:
WalkingTheMiddlePath · 09/10/2025 23:59

Wise- lady Violet, the Dowager from Downton Abbey
protective - Miss Baxter, ditto

BakingHotInSunnyClimate · 10/10/2025 00:13

Nanny McPhee…

Allthesnowallthetime · 11/10/2025 14:29

Mma Ramotswe

Imanautumn · 11/10/2025 15:04

Mrs Weasley
Miss Honey

Mylittlebobble · 11/10/2025 15:07

Thought of another one: the mother in The Bloody Chamber by Angela Carter.

Fimofriend · 11/10/2025 15:14

Wise: Gro Harlem Brundtland, Lene Hau, Margaret Attwood, Jane Goodall.

Protective: Irena Sendler, Florence Nightingale, and Elizabeth Blackwell

Valeriekat · 11/10/2025 19:46

Mrs March in Little Women?

BitOutOfPractice · 11/10/2025 19:48

In literature: mame in little women.

in real life, me!!

Ellmau · 11/10/2025 19:56

Protectors: Buffy the Vampire Slayer
Eve in The Librarians (fantasy TV show from the 2010s)

Athena/Minerva was the ancient goddess of wisdom

Tezza1 · 11/10/2025 20:17

Crazybooklady · 05/10/2025 00:55

Merritt Wever & Toni Collette in Unbelievable

That is a very compelling series. Both actors put in incredible persormances, as does Kaitlyn Dever who deserves more recognition for such good performances from someone so young. The first thing I saw her in was Justified and I was gobsmacked.

Sorry, nothing to do with the original query.

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