My partner and I have been together for 10 years. We went to a wedding recently and he was the best man. I'm good friends with the bride and groom. During the wedding, which started at 15:00, my partner was with the wedding party, of course, which is fine. After the ceremony, there was some finger food, and we stayed there for about 1:30h. During this time, pictures were taken, etc, and my partner came to the table to join us for some of the time, after talking to a (male) friend that he hadn't seen in a few years. We then left for the reception. At the reception, which started at 6:00, there was no sitting plan, and I looked for a table, and my partner. I saw a table which would accommodate myself and the children. I assumed my partner was elsewhere with the groom as he had to do his speech. After the speech, he carried on talking enthusiastically to this (male) friend. About 10:00 in the evening, when there were some people already leaving, he came to me and said: "we need to spend some time together". And I said "yes, we do". He went to his friend again, and came back minutes later, danced a bit, disappeared a bit more. Yes, we didn't spend any time together at the reception at this point, besides de couple of drinks that he brought over to my table. Yes, I did mingle a bit, I spoke a bit with the ladies who went to the hen party, the groom's family, my children, the bride's boss who was sitting next to me. But, I also watched other couples dancing together, laughing and spending time together. I understand that he hadn't seen the friend for a while, which lives in the same city as us, by the way. But, am I expecting too much to have some "attention" from my partner in our very good friends wedding?