Ex demanding I bring him DD.

[VenusJupiter]

He is controlling and I left him end of July. He has gone to a solicitor to seek access . I'm guessing he claimed legal aid by saying I'm the abuser.. I went no contact when I left and only replied to him when he said he was coming over to collect DD. I replied detailing why we won't be seeing him because he is abusive.

Anyway... tonight he has called nonstop via WhatsApp and has demanded I bring him DD. I will not.

I have had to go for legal advice. It's truly awful. He really is the worst. I have a marker on my address and was seeing WA from the time I was living with him. He is a grade A narcissist with everything he has said and done.

I guess he is having a melt down because he feels out of control, but this is something you can't reason with . He wants it all his way and blames you for everything that you have to end up apologising. Everything is on his terms.
I guess if he starts coming to my door again it's harassment.
Do you know if non harassment orders require attending court and being a witness. Have enough on with the solicitor and I just want to enjoy my 6 month old x

OP, you don’t know any of us from Adam so you don’t know if you are getting good or bad ‘advice’. Some posters will have good or bad experiences of Family Court and some will have worked within the Court or Children's Services system but it’s obvious some posters can’t even comprehend some posts so relying on responses here might not be the best idea.

If you are able to afford or can get legal advice then I suggest you do. If not then contact WA for any help they can give you.

Having said to be wary of posters’ responses, the things I would very strongly recommend/suggest are not to engage in any direct communications with him (Coparenting App or Solicitor only) and please, please, please do not allow him into your home to see your child.

If on the bc then he has rights but due to the issues contact social services and request access via visitation centre. If his serious about his child he will go through he'll to have access, if his not he will flake.