Hi,
Just wanting some feedback please.
I'll try and give as much info as I can, I'll apologise now if I'm slow at responding, I have a 9 week old baby(DD2) who seems constantly attached to my boobs, so may take some time in replying!
So as the headline suggests, i didn't order my bf food.
I ordered him food at first, along with ordering for myself and DD1. The app was messing up and I had to cancel and get a refund. Bf says he isn't hungry so not to bother getting him anything.
I go on a different app to order different food. Asked bf more than once, while ordering, and telling him where I am ordering from, if he would like anything. Again, keeps saying no.
So I order for myself and my DD. Food arrives, he comes into the kitchen and has a look and says "oh, you didn't order me anything" and walks off in a huff. I'm holding the baby while trying to eat, he will usually take her from me, but this time didn't. He just sits in the living room watching videos on his phone
I then speak to him and tell him that he can't be upset that I didn't order anything for him when he told me more than once, that he didn't want anything. I haven't just got money to throw away on the off chance he would want it and that if he wanted food, he should have said at the time. It took less than 30mins for food to arrive.
He started saying that I should have ordered him some food as he would have if it were me and just basically making me feel like I'd done something wrong.
I said to him that it feels like he's playing games with me and gaslighting me.
Am I being unreasonable in saying and feeling that way? Or do you think he is just playing games and making me feel like I'm in the wrong?
Thank you