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AIBU?

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To think it's inappropriate to constantly kiss and snog on public transport?

43 replies

CarrotCrusader · 02/10/2025 18:19

The couple on the train infront of me have barely stopped snogging the whole way. Slurpy noises included. It's disgusting. They're in their 50s I would guess. AIBU to feel this way?

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Beatingaroundthebush · 02/10/2025 19:24

I'm in Brazil, and PDA is very common here, more so among younger people than people in their 50s. I'm 40+, so I would never kiss and snog in public because I think it makes people feel uncomfortable. Apparently, the lovebirds on your train don't share that view. Maybe shift focus to something else?

KingOfPoundbury · 02/10/2025 19:27

If one has told one's family to temper their behavior in public once, then one has told them until one is blue in the face. One is looking at you Andrew!

nopiesleftinthisvehicle · 02/10/2025 19:32

Italian teenagers watching a glorious Roman sunset? Absolutely 😍
50 somethings on public transport on a grey October teatime?
Reminds me of Deidre and Barlow 🤢
Hope no children were watching.

LlynTegid · 02/10/2025 19:34

Public displays of affection such as that are usually by people who have struggled with forming relationships as not viewed as attractive by many.

I agree it is in poor taste.

Jasnah · 02/10/2025 19:48

LlynTegid · 02/10/2025 19:34

Public displays of affection such as that are usually by people who have struggled with forming relationships as not viewed as attractive by many.

I agree it is in poor taste.

Or they're done by people who dgaf

HRTQueen · 02/10/2025 19:55

A young couple I would think how cute young love is so intoxicating

in their 50’s I would think can’t you wait until you get home or to your hotel it’s a bit grim

QuietlyFrench · 02/10/2025 20:03

Yeah, it sounds pretty vile but you know what, the world is a shitty place at times, so perhaps it’s nice to see a bit of love and affection.

Alongthetowpath · 02/10/2025 20:06

I think DH and I encountered your couple the other day, right in the middle of the pavement.
We had to step into the road to get round them as they were taking up the whole pavement and ignoring our approach.
We rolled our eyes quite a bit. But tbh if they had been sufficiently polite to have moved aside for us I probably would have just thought their ardour was quite sweet.

Fiftyandme · 02/10/2025 20:09

Not my circus, not my monkey’s. I’ve got plenty of other stuff to be concerned about

176509user · 02/10/2025 20:12

No big deal in my opinion. Nobody’s business but their’s.
Isn't there enough misery in the world ?
Wouldn't bother me one bit.

CoffeeCantata · 02/10/2025 20:32

Jasnah · 02/10/2025 19:01

Let people be disgustingly happy. We don't have enough love in this world.

You’re confusing sexual love and love of your fellow human. They are different. It’s the latter we need more of really.

In Greek they are ‘eros’ and ‘agape’.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 02/10/2025 20:34

Must be a new relationship.

applesandpumpkins · 02/10/2025 20:35

There's so much bad news and misery in the world right now, nice to hear of people enjoyng themselves I say. YABU

Zanatdy · 02/10/2025 20:36

Gross. Couple stood snogging for ages at entrance to Farringdon station at 8.45am this morning, super busy but just so not necessary. A peck yes. This was not a peck. Nice they are in love / lust, but we don’t want to see it thanks

Katemax82 · 02/10/2025 20:38

A young couple were doing this in the canteen at Sainsbury's when I worked there. An older member of staff said loudly "for fucks sake get a room!"
They left soon after

CoffeeCantata · 02/10/2025 21:45

applesandpumpkins · 02/10/2025 20:35

There's so much bad news and misery in the world right now, nice to hear of people enjoyng themselves I say. YABU

I don’t get how having to witness other people’s steamy snogging with sound effects makes you happy.

Would you enjoy watching animals mating? But animals don’t make such a meal of it.

Sparklesandspandexgallore · 02/10/2025 21:49

I think there are far worse things people do,
I would find it mildly irritating if they did it throughout the journey. A few kisses- totally fine.
I also would not mind if someone was applying make-up.

CoffeeCantata · 02/10/2025 21:57

LlynTegid · 02/10/2025 19:34

Public displays of affection such as that are usually by people who have struggled with forming relationships as not viewed as attractive by many.

I agree it is in poor taste.

I think you’re rIght. It’s exhibitionism. Most people would prefer privacy for more than a brief kiss.

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