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to post this spelling correction? LOSE to mean the loss of something

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Horsie · 01/10/2025 23:43

I'm on a public-service mission to correct one of the world's most common misspellings. I've seen it thousands and thousands of times online. I think it must be the most misspelt word in the world. Saw it twice today just on Mumsnet.

No shade AT ALL. I literally want to help people look better in writing.

Here goes:

To lose something is spelt LOSE and not loose. Loose only ever means not tight, or to let something go, like a horse. I turned my horse loose. I hope I never lose him.

I'm losing the will to live.
I always lose competitions.
That person is a loser.

My jeans are loose.
My ring goes loosely over my knuckle.
I'm a loser wearing loose jeans.
I always lose my ring in the pool because it becomes loose.

I never realised how commonly this word was misspelt until the internet. I suppose because "lose" does sound like a double "O" with its oooo sound (as opposed to rhyming with hose). That's probably where the confusion comes in, and the wrong spelling is being perpetuated millions and millions of times because of the internet.

I wish someone like JK Rowling with a huge reach would tweet the correct spellings, as a public service. No one likes to look bad in writing.

So there you have it, folks. Write it down a hundred times.

Lose
Lose
Lose
Lose

LOOSE

OP posts:
XenoBitch · 02/10/2025 00:41

Horsie · 02/10/2025 00:40

Sorry you're offended. I think I'm helping people look better in writing.

OK if you are marking academic essays. Not so much on MN.

Horsie · 02/10/2025 00:43

Cinaferna · 02/10/2025 00:40

It's become far more common because thicker-than-pigshit phone spellchecks autocorrect lose used properly to loose, as if the former is a mistake and the latter is accurate. And people who trust spellcheck more than their own literacy skills assume it must be right.

Omg yes, auto-correct is the very devil. It has a LOT to answer for. I remember in the early days of Word when it changed my school essay about Emily Bronte to being about Omelette Roulette. And it's no better today.

I've always kept quiet, but now I'm going to help people look better in writing.

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 00:45

XenoBitch · 02/10/2025 00:41

OK if you are marking academic essays. Not so much on MN.

But the same people writing on MN also write job applications, maybe write letters to their MP, or write tweets, or write things at work that their boss wants to read, etc etc. It's too bad that the internet has perpetuated this misspelling. We must fight it!

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 00:48

vare · 02/10/2025 00:00

There is a prominent poster on X who always makes this mistake and it seems petty to correct her on it when she’s making serious points, but I agree it’s irritating.

Whenever I spot these kinds of mistakes/typos, I read them in my head as such and it’s a huge distraction.

Someone should tell her. I'm sure she'd rather know than keep making the mistake in front of lots of followers. It's mean not to tell her.

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Abitofalark · 02/10/2025 00:49

People don't care. Equally distracting and annoying is when people throw in an obscure combination of letters rather than words in the middle of a sentence. They don't care either.

FirstCuppa · 02/10/2025 00:53

@Cinaferna This is me and why I always now get confused! I do think it wasn't a word I struggled with before! Bloody spellcheck used to have my back.

Horsie · 02/10/2025 00:54

FirstCuppa · 02/10/2025 00:36

I'm guilty of this. I'm fairly sure I am undiagnosed dyslexic because there are certain words I always have to look up because the vowels get jumbled - I'm over 40 - and I just can't seem to keep them in my brain. Some I have tricks for but others just never stay. I know this is one where I hesitate but then always do the sounding ooo's as you say and assume I've got it wrong and un-correct it! Sorry!

I get the jumble thing. I think it's late peri.

I wish I could come up with some clever rhyme for lose/loose to help people remember. I heard one once to help people remember which/witch, but I can't remember it.

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 00:56

FirstCuppa · 02/10/2025 00:53

@Cinaferna This is me and why I always now get confused! I do think it wasn't a word I struggled with before! Bloody spellcheck used to have my back.

Edited

I've found myself tempted to write "loose" when I mean "lose," I think because of the zillions of times I've seen it on the internet.

We must fight it!

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FirstCuppa · 02/10/2025 00:57

Horsie · 02/10/2025 00:54

I get the jumble thing. I think it's late peri.

I wish I could come up with some clever rhyme for lose/loose to help people remember. I heard one once to help people remember which/witch, but I can't remember it.

The loose noose or something?
It could be peri (I did Eng A Level so didn't affect me that much) but I always have to do rest-AU-rant for eg. I won't list the rest or I'll be here for hours googling them!

Horsie · 02/10/2025 00:57

FirstCuppa · 02/10/2025 00:53

@Cinaferna This is me and why I always now get confused! I do think it wasn't a word I struggled with before! Bloody spellcheck used to have my back.

Edited

Spellcheck is the very devil. My phone always wants to "correct" I've to O've. WTAF!

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FirstCuppa · 02/10/2025 00:58

It's stopped changing i to I too which really irritates me!

bumblingbovine49 · 02/10/2025 01:01

I always notice the loose/ lose thing and it bugs me too. I would never mention it to an individual who has it wrong but I think it is actually important to use the right words and an instructional post like the op appeals to me so thanks for the post.

I would add another one that really bugs me - bare instead of bear

So many people use - I can't bare it, or bare with me when they should bear.

Bare = naked or uncovered
Bear = to hold up or carry a weight, to endure

BaskervilleOldFace · 02/10/2025 01:02

Absolutely with you 100 per cent on this OP. It drives me mad every time I see it, which is often.

WhamFantastic · 02/10/2025 01:02

I’m with you OP as I’m a pedant but I’m also terrible at spelling!
When my kids were little we had a phonics book called Goose on the Loose and now I don’t mix loose and lose up.

Bearwithi · 02/10/2025 01:05

It annoys the fuck out of me because when I read it, initially in my head I hear it as loose, because that's what it fucking says! And yes I do judge someone for their spelling, sorry I can't help it, but that's just me, I do particularly hate the loose/lose one though because it's everywhere.

TooBigForMyBoots · 02/10/2025 01:05

Thank you for this @Horsie.Thanks I dont know why people are being pissy, you weren't rude.

YADNBU.

Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:07

Bobbie12345678 · 02/10/2025 00:03

This.
I once heard the phrase, ‘grammar is a social construct from the more educated (and often wealthy) designed to make the less educated feel bad’. It really struck home.

BTW, I don't agree with this at all. Grammar helps you communicate - that's it's whole purpose. When you write (or speak) something that you want people to read and take notice of, and you write it to the best of your ability, you are using grammar to express yourself with as much clarity as possible. It's not a matter of who is the most educated. (Well, it shouldn't be.) It's about making sense and being really clear. The aim is to be understood by who you're writing/speaking to. That's the purpose of grammar, not one-upmanship.

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cowslick · 02/10/2025 01:09

These words are not actually misspelt; 'loose' and 'lose' are (mostly) correctly spelt. It's the incorrect use of a word.

Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:11

cowslick · 02/10/2025 01:09

These words are not actually misspelt; 'loose' and 'lose' are (mostly) correctly spelt. It's the incorrect use of a word.

The context makes loose incorrect though, when used to mean in the sense of losing things.

Interestingly, I don't think I've ever seen lose used to mean not tight.

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:13

WhamFantastic · 02/10/2025 01:02

I’m with you OP as I’m a pedant but I’m also terrible at spelling!
When my kids were little we had a phonics book called Goose on the Loose and now I don’t mix loose and lose up.

I really don't think I'm being a pedant. It's a misspelling, and it's wrong, full stop. It's not like arguing about the placement of a comma.

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:17

bumblingbovine49 · 02/10/2025 01:01

I always notice the loose/ lose thing and it bugs me too. I would never mention it to an individual who has it wrong but I think it is actually important to use the right words and an instructional post like the op appeals to me so thanks for the post.

I would add another one that really bugs me - bare instead of bear

So many people use - I can't bare it, or bare with me when they should bear.

Bare = naked or uncovered
Bear = to hold up or carry a weight, to endure

My American teddy bear from NY looked at me really oddly when I told him that he has the right to bear arms since he's a Yank. He said why on earth would he want bare arms, given that he'd have to shave them constantly and he'd be cold, etc. 😂

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:19

FirstCuppa · 02/10/2025 01:01

I think this might work!

Haha, that's funny!

Also v. inconvenient because now I'm dying for some Wine Gums!

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Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:20

TooBigForMyBoots · 02/10/2025 01:05

Thank you for this @Horsie.Thanks I dont know why people are being pissy, you weren't rude.

YADNBU.

Ahhh, thank you for my flowers! Yeah, there's some right negative Nancies on here.

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Bobbie12345678 · 02/10/2025 01:38

Horsie · 02/10/2025 01:07

BTW, I don't agree with this at all. Grammar helps you communicate - that's it's whole purpose. When you write (or speak) something that you want people to read and take notice of, and you write it to the best of your ability, you are using grammar to express yourself with as much clarity as possible. It's not a matter of who is the most educated. (Well, it shouldn't be.) It's about making sense and being really clear. The aim is to be understood by who you're writing/speaking to. That's the purpose of grammar, not one-upmanship.

Edited

But having had the level of education to learn the grammar is privileged.

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