truth or not

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Recently I found pictures of another woman that he worked with on my husbands phone ( he use to travel for work), which led me to find comments on facebook between the 2 of them. Whenever he could help her he did and never told me anything about this person. Am I being unreasonable to think there was something else going on. He said they were just friends but why didn't he tell me about her. He said he Loves me and always has but why do this? He doesn't travel anymore and has had no contact with this person. Am I being unreasonable to keep my guard up? Can I trust him again?

The fact his relationship with this woman was kept secret from you really suggests that it was more than friendship.
It sounds like an emotional.affair at the very least, and if his working away involved being with this woman then it could very well have been physical as well.
The secrecy alone would destroy my trust in him.
I'm really sorry this has happened to you OP. Did you have any suspicions when he was working away that there was something going on in his life that he wasn't being open about?

No suspicions at all. My trust has been broken 1,000%. I felt the exact same thing. He said he knew I would get upset if I knew he was friends HOWEVER, I knew all about his female friends until now. We are trying to work this out but when there is no trust,
it is very hard to tell what is real and what is not.