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To have my Sunday lunch at the hospital canteen?

119 replies

Vacmat · 28/09/2025 19:30

I don't work there, am not sick and wasn't visiting, but a friend works there and said they did a decent roast for £6.50. We'd had a busy morning and by late afternoon still needed lunch. Remembered conversation with friend and decided to try it.

It was fine. Nothing gourmet, but on a par with most chain pub roast lunches.

Is it odd to go to the hospital just for a cheap lunch?

OP posts:
FrodoBiggins · 29/09/2025 21:16

Gwenhwyfar · 29/09/2025 19:27

Patients do need visitors though. Hospital is boring/scary otherwise (I presume, never stayed overnight myself).

Yes I agree, see my post above. It's worth the increased risk of spreading disease because there is a benefit for ill people seeing loved ones. Although when the risk is extremely high (eg Covid, very immunocompromised people) even that benefit is not enough to outweigh the risk.

People who don't need to be in hospital, who are not visiting anyone, wandering in, are all risk (to themselves and others) and no benefit.

JMSA · 30/09/2025 00:27

In my eyes, it’s weird.

purpleme12 · 30/09/2025 00:33

I live very near the hospital and have on occasion had a meal there (not when I had an appointment!)
It was a hearty meal but I have to say it's not very relaxing environment! 😂 So I don't think I'll be making a habit of it!

FrodoBiggins · 30/09/2025 00:42

secureyourbook · 29/09/2025 11:54

I’m not sure about that. Most people who are in hospital are in there for more serious things than a virus. In fact, as a visitor I would avoid visiting someone in hospital if I had a virus, so I’d imagine you’re less likely to catch something than a restaurant where people are only too happy to go and spread their germs.

"More serious than a virus"? HIV is a virus, and an airborne virus - Covid - killed about 7 million people.
Even a URTI (a cold) can kill a patient on cancer therapy.
Also you don't necessarily know you have a virus until you might have been spreading it around for a day or two.
All in all, best to stay away from a big building full of people you know are definitely ill unless you have a reason to be there, imo.

VeryQuaintIrene · 30/09/2025 00:49

The Sunday lunch was one of my absolutely favorite things about visiting my mum in her care home, so I think I see where you are coming from, OP!

SouthernNights59 · 30/09/2025 01:37

Not odd at all. I've done it myself, and so have others. It's open to the public so why would it be weird?

smithsgj · 30/09/2025 01:39

In Taiwan they usually have a food court in the basement, with KFC/BK/Starbucks and many local brands. But inpatients aren’t supposed to go, so they have to change out of their hospital uniforms and sneak in. That’s quite inconvenient if they are on a drip or can’t change clothes, but luckily there are plenty of local cafes and restaurants around the hospital to cater for them. So you see quite a lot of folk trundling their wheeled drip trolleys around the streets and the back alleys in the hospital area, looking for beef noodles and hotpot options.

SouthernNights59 · 30/09/2025 01:47

Lanzarotelady · 29/09/2025 09:17

Can't think of anywhere or anything I would rather do than go to a bloody hospital for a Sunday lunch!
I do work in a hospital so that might jade by view, but seriously, a hospital canteen?

Groups of people used to go from church to our local hospital for Sunday lunch. Unfortunately it's no longer open at the weekends or the evenings, but I go for lunch fairly regularly, and I've met friends there for coffee. I've yet to meet anyone in real life who finds it strange.

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 30/09/2025 02:05

It is, perhaps, a little unusual but then I had lunch at a Garden Centre and didn't buy any plants or weedkiller or fence paint. Or gravel.

Cottache · 30/09/2025 02:18

Vacmat · 28/09/2025 19:52

It didn't seem depressing while we were there. There weren't many people. A young man on some sort of drip laughing with his GF, a nurse chatting to her DC on facetime and some other staff scrolling their phones.

I don't think there'd be any more germs than in a busy weekend restaurant?

YANBU to go. However, there is a greater chance of getting ill. Nosocomial infections are common, handwashing isn’t going to help for the number of airborne infections, nhs staff have higher number of sickness days partly because of high exposure and poor airborne infection control, viruses can hang around in the air for ages.

Hoodlumboodlum · 30/09/2025 03:52

Vacmat · 28/09/2025 19:34

More so than a busy restaurant? Most people in hospital aren't contagious?

You don't really hear of MRSA being rife in your local restaurant do you.

Plus hospitals are overheated so germs spread like wildfire.

No way would I go to those germfests unless I had to.

Gwenhwyfar · 03/10/2025 20:15

FrodoBiggins · 30/09/2025 00:42

"More serious than a virus"? HIV is a virus, and an airborne virus - Covid - killed about 7 million people.
Even a URTI (a cold) can kill a patient on cancer therapy.
Also you don't necessarily know you have a virus until you might have been spreading it around for a day or two.
All in all, best to stay away from a big building full of people you know are definitely ill unless you have a reason to be there, imo.

Edited

"HIV is a virus, and an airborne virus"

HIV airborne??? What?? It's pretty difficult to catch from what I understand. We were all told either via sex, blood or being born to a mother with it.

Veescience · 03/10/2025 20:31

Brings to mind the Paul Merton line "more people due in hospitals than snack bars" from a purely scientific viewpoint

CasperGutman · 03/10/2025 20:45

I used to work opposite a hospital and often went there with colleagues to have lunch.

AFAIK they're open to the public and not subsidised, just cheaper than commercial options because they don't have to make a profit and pay below commercial cost for their premises. I'd have thought the more meals they sell the better due to economies of scale.

CasperGutman · 03/10/2025 20:49

Gwenhwyfar · 03/10/2025 20:15

"HIV is a virus, and an airborne virus"

HIV airborne??? What?? It's pretty difficult to catch from what I understand. We were all told either via sex, blood or being born to a mother with it.

You've misunderstood. @FrodoBiggins meant that HIV is one virus, and another virus (an airborne virus called COVID) killed about 7 million people.

Gwenhwyfar · 03/10/2025 20:53

CasperGutman · 03/10/2025 20:49

You've misunderstood. @FrodoBiggins meant that HIV is one virus, and another virus (an airborne virus called COVID) killed about 7 million people.

Ah, OK.

itsgettingweird · 03/10/2025 21:30

You’d pay that just to work at mine 😂

itsgettingweird · 04/10/2025 03:01

Park even 🤦🏼‍♀️

May61 · 04/10/2025 03:59

I certainly wouldn't at our local hospital as it's incredibly grim and filthy, I'd probably come home with mrsa, covid and a few other things to boot! But yours may be different!

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