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Just because you can legally walk the road does not mean you should.

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walkthisway0 · 28/09/2025 15:59

Firstly I am in Ireland, but google makes me think it is the same in the UK.

Around where I live there are plenty of very busy, narrow, country roads that are 80km (50mph). Filled with many cars, tractors, lorries etc.

Some people walk these roads or run on them. I know legally they are allowed to but I think it is pure madness. There is one person who is often out walking with a baby in a pram. I have had to stop and wait to pass as there is a stream of traffic coming the other way. But I have also nearly been hit by a lorry who coming around a bend met her and over took as he would never have stopped in time.

I don't go around corners at 80km but I proceed as 'expecting something to be there' but it's still a shock to find a lorry on your side!

There is also a person who regularly runs towards the traffic (as recommended) in roughly the middle of the lane and does not move closer to the side.

I pass other people who are aware of the traffic around themselves and adjust. When my car was broken I walked into town a few times and would step in when a car came.

AIBU to think that while yes you are legally allowed to do this, no it is not a good idea?

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Snugglemonkey · 29/09/2025 16:54

Morningsleepin · 29/09/2025 12:14

Isn't it about time people campaigned for pavements? I remember having to walk three miles along a road like that in the dark and it was terrifying

Around here there's no room for pavements. There are lots of roads that are single track.

ParmaVioletTea · 29/09/2025 17:04

walkthisway0 · 28/09/2025 16:12

I absolutely could be wrong but there are few that walk the road I am thinking of and other similar ones. It certainly looks like out for exercise/ leisure.

There is the local link bus around here, it only comes once a week though. And all the major shops deliver here too. My friend recently moved temporarily to one of the roads I am thinking of. She said not in a million years would she walk the road. She doesn't drive but get her DH to drop her into town or I collect her.

You are completely unreasonable Very Very unreasonable.

You're basically saying that unless a person has a car, they shouldn't leave the house on foot unless it's the once-a-week bus.

People are more important than cars.

moresoup · 29/09/2025 17:12

It's weird that people cannot comprehend that all these little country roads once only had pedestrians (and horses ) on them.

Cars are the imposters not the pedestrians.

It was so lovely duringcovid when so many people went out walking and cycling because there were so many fewer cars on the roads.

If you must drive somewhere, at least drive in a way that recognises the need to create a safe environment for cyclists and pedestrians. The more people who walk and cycle the better for the planet and our health

Sleepingone · 29/09/2025 17:15

Abhannmor · 29/09/2025 16:00

No ,you behave yourself. Bloody lunatic.

I’m a good and careful driver. PP is imagining things about me, and being condescending with it, because I’m wary of pedestrians around blind bends on narrow country roads.

I lost a family member in a road traffic accident. I’m not a lunatic, maybe just more aware than most of how dangerous cars can be and how lives can be destroyed in a split second.

warmapplepies · 29/09/2025 17:37

It's weird that people cannot comprehend that all these little country roads once only had pedestrians (and horses ) on them. Cars are the imposters not the pedestrians.

Of course people comprehend that.

But times change - yes, pedestrians are still allowed on the roads but that doesn’t mean it’s not dangerous and that they’re not putting themselves in danger.

Throwmoneyatit · 29/09/2025 18:16

FourIsNewSix · 29/09/2025 14:09

The analogy doesn't work

A car broken down is not moving. Isn't it part of the traffic code, that when a car breaks down, you have to try to get it on the side?

A pedestrian, cyclist or a horse rider is using the road to move. They are slower, but they are using the road for moving. The can chose to move out if it is reasonable to do, but they don't have to if it means going to bushes/falling from the verge, stepping in the pool of mud.
If you meet a tractor, you just wait and overtake when safe. This is the same.

It is actually safer for the slower moving participants to be closer to the middle, as it makes it more visual for the drivers, that they can't try to overtake within the line, that they have to wait for proper overtaking opportunity the same way they would for a tractor.

Yes, the whole situation is less safe for the pedestrians &co, but they are not hazard for the drivers. Other drivers are hazard for everyone.

If you read the Highway Code for pedestrians when walking along a road with no pavement, they should take as much care as a driver would in a car. They should be swapping sides of the roads at corners to enable drivers to see them. They should be well lit and visible. They should be walking in single file.

Everything you have said goes against the highway code.

I'm talking about hazards. We should be all responsible for ourselves being a hazard. When you complete your hazard perception test, pedestrians are classed as hazards. Cars are a hazard, people are hazards.

If you read my posts, I have never stated that people shouldn't use the road, I have said that everyone should be taking more responsibility for themselves.

Throwmoneyatit · 29/09/2025 18:56

Periperi2025 · 29/09/2025 14:16

Why would two cars potentially crash on a narrow road because a pedestrian doesn't step on a grass verge?

The only person to blame on that situation is the car driver who is driving too fast to react to a hazard in the road (in the form of a legitimate road user) and/or is too inpatient to wait for a safe opportunity to pass the hazard.

It's actually scary that you presumably have a driving licence.

What do you do when both sides of the road have walls or ditches (as is frequently the case where i live), are you expecting the pedestrians to scramble on top of the wall or jump in a muddy ditch for you?!

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I do, thank you! I even have a HGV license. No points, never managed to run anyone down. I drive hundreds and hundreds of miles each week for work. I drive hundreds of miles at weekends with my lorry. I have seen it all. The entitlement, the lack of patience, people taking risks needlessly, pedestrians thinking they would win against cars. I've seen near misses. I drive past RTCs every weekly.

There's no need to be dramatic. Where on earth did I say hedge hopping and swimming in ditches?! Common courtesy to step into the side, for your own sake and everyone elses sake.

And why wouldn't two cars potentially crash? There is ALWAYS the possibility of crashes, they happen every day. Why wouldn't you want to take responsibility for your own life? Why would you want to rely on a person driving a lump of metal? You don't know if they're well enough to be behind that wheel, could be drunk or on drugs, on the phone, sneezing, changing the radio, distracted by a crying baby, you just don't know. I certainly take responsibility for my own life and if I heard a car, I would stop and make sure I'm as far away from the road as possible.

Which is why I have said from the beginning of this thread, the responsibility should come from everyone using the road, not just drivers of vehicles.

Jux · 29/09/2025 18:57

I have a mobility scooter and would dearly love to visit my friend in a nearby village - but the roads don't have pavements. I am aware of how ridiculously fast people drive along those windy roads and that there are often ditches or llittle rivers which one could step over easily, but my scooter can't. So, I don't go to see her.

I remember when I was younger being able to just walk along, squeeze into the hedgerows if a car came (always walk on the side with the traffic is coming towards you) but I'm not sure I trust modern drivers unless they're locals - and how can I tell?

I'll see her new house one day.

Periperi2025 · 29/09/2025 19:05

Jux · 29/09/2025 18:57

I have a mobility scooter and would dearly love to visit my friend in a nearby village - but the roads don't have pavements. I am aware of how ridiculously fast people drive along those windy roads and that there are often ditches or llittle rivers which one could step over easily, but my scooter can't. So, I don't go to see her.

I remember when I was younger being able to just walk along, squeeze into the hedgerows if a car came (always walk on the side with the traffic is coming towards you) but I'm not sure I trust modern drivers unless they're locals - and how can I tell?

I'll see her new house one day.

You've just reminded me of the old guy on a mobility scooter and his blind friend who used to do a daily loop of the road past my house and the back lanes every day in all but the worst weather. Rural roads should be treated as the shared space they are - footpath, road, bridelway, cycle path - and safe enough for all!

Periperi2025 · 29/09/2025 19:20

Throwmoneyatit · 29/09/2025 18:56

I do, thank you! I even have a HGV license. No points, never managed to run anyone down. I drive hundreds and hundreds of miles each week for work. I drive hundreds of miles at weekends with my lorry. I have seen it all. The entitlement, the lack of patience, people taking risks needlessly, pedestrians thinking they would win against cars. I've seen near misses. I drive past RTCs every weekly.

There's no need to be dramatic. Where on earth did I say hedge hopping and swimming in ditches?! Common courtesy to step into the side, for your own sake and everyone elses sake.

And why wouldn't two cars potentially crash? There is ALWAYS the possibility of crashes, they happen every day. Why wouldn't you want to take responsibility for your own life? Why would you want to rely on a person driving a lump of metal? You don't know if they're well enough to be behind that wheel, could be drunk or on drugs, on the phone, sneezing, changing the radio, distracted by a crying baby, you just don't know. I certainly take responsibility for my own life and if I heard a car, I would stop and make sure I'm as far away from the road as possible.

Which is why I have said from the beginning of this thread, the responsibility should come from everyone using the road, not just drivers of vehicles.

You said
Entitlement comes to letting two cars potentially crash on a narrow road instead of stepping on the grass verge because as a pedestrian, you're more entitled.
That clearly implies that you think pedastrians are directly responsible for a drivers lack of hazard perception.

Why would you want to rely on a person driving a lump of metal? You don't know if they're well enough to be behind that wheel, could be drunk or on drugs, on the phone, sneezing, changing the radio, distracted by a crying baby, you just don't know

Because you would literally never walk down an actual pavement or travel in a car if you considered this all the time, we all take these risks every single day, we shouldn't have to also contend with the arrogance and entilement of drivers thinking they are above other road users.

Oh and i raise you HGV licence, I'm a paramedic, i've seen drug driving HGV drivers and had a parent whose wife and child just died tell me he "just didn't see it (other vehicle)" and that he "was just distracted", and i've been to way to many collapses at the wheel.

As a professional driver you should be striving to improve road safety not making excuses for poor drivers.

Throwmoneyatit · 29/09/2025 19:27

Periperi2025 · 29/09/2025 19:20

You said
Entitlement comes to letting two cars potentially crash on a narrow road instead of stepping on the grass verge because as a pedestrian, you're more entitled.
That clearly implies that you think pedastrians are directly responsible for a drivers lack of hazard perception.

Why would you want to rely on a person driving a lump of metal? You don't know if they're well enough to be behind that wheel, could be drunk or on drugs, on the phone, sneezing, changing the radio, distracted by a crying baby, you just don't know

Because you would literally never walk down an actual pavement or travel in a car if you considered this all the time, we all take these risks every single day, we shouldn't have to also contend with the arrogance and entilement of drivers thinking they are above other road users.

Oh and i raise you HGV licence, I'm a paramedic, i've seen drug driving HGV drivers and had a parent whose wife and child just died tell me he "just didn't see it (other vehicle)" and that he "was just distracted", and i've been to way to many collapses at the wheel.

As a professional driver you should be striving to improve road safety not making excuses for poor drivers.

Everyone should be more responsible for themselves.

You're arguing against me when we agree on the same things.

I just think people should step into the side on a narrow country road. As a paramedic, wouldn't you want people to be responsible for their own safety too?

It's not a game. We want the same outcome.

Pharazon · 29/09/2025 19:30

Gwenhwyfar · 28/09/2025 16:59

You mean like public footpaths going through fields? They don't normally go the same route as the roads and are also not safe at night as won't be lit.

And don't exist in Ireland where the OP is.

DdraigGoch · 29/09/2025 20:30

warmapplepies · 28/09/2025 17:09

Exactly, here in Cumbria all the rural lanes are NSL. Even dropping the limit down to 40 would help, I think, but it'll never happen.

NSL implies "drive according to the road, up to a limit of 50/60/70 depending upon the road and vehicle". A 40 limit implies that it is indeed safe to do 40 in normal conditions. That's why they don't just sign "60" on NSL roads. In the old days of course the sign meant "end of restrictions" and you would just do whatever speed it was safe to do, but it turned out that people cannot be trusted.

warmapplepies · 29/09/2025 20:32

DdraigGoch · 29/09/2025 20:30

NSL implies "drive according to the road, up to a limit of 50/60/70 depending upon the road and vehicle". A 40 limit implies that it is indeed safe to do 40 in normal conditions. That's why they don't just sign "60" on NSL roads. In the old days of course the sign meant "end of restrictions" and you would just do whatever speed it was safe to do, but it turned out that people cannot be trusted.

A limit of 40 would still be safer than one of 60 on most narrow country roads, though.

DdraigGoch · 29/09/2025 20:32

Isobel201 · 28/09/2025 17:37

This is why pedestrians then should walk on the right hand side of the road, and choose safe times to walk such as daytime and not at night. It can't be avoided sometimes.

If pedestrians cannot walk home at night, how are people supposed to get home? Sunset can be as early as 15:30 in Scotland.

DdraigGoch · 29/09/2025 21:44

warmapplepies · 29/09/2025 20:32

A limit of 40 would still be safer than one of 60 on most narrow country roads, though.

That's not how it works though. Stick a 40 sign up and people do 40, regardless of the conditions because the sign said 40 and therefore it must be safe to do 40.

NSL encourages a bit more thinking about the conditions. The sign doesn't explicitly say 60, so you aren't going to have the number 60 in mind. So in the absence of an apparent instruction as to what speed you should do, you end up thinking more and slowing down as appropriate.

The only alternative I can see is to more heavily restrict roads in a blanket fashion - obviously it's not practical or advisable to have a restriction change every time a bend becomes a straight so you'd just sign the entire road to match the slowest point - probably 20mph.

warmapplepies · 29/09/2025 22:40

DdraigGoch · 29/09/2025 21:44

That's not how it works though. Stick a 40 sign up and people do 40, regardless of the conditions because the sign said 40 and therefore it must be safe to do 40.

NSL encourages a bit more thinking about the conditions. The sign doesn't explicitly say 60, so you aren't going to have the number 60 in mind. So in the absence of an apparent instruction as to what speed you should do, you end up thinking more and slowing down as appropriate.

The only alternative I can see is to more heavily restrict roads in a blanket fashion - obviously it's not practical or advisable to have a restriction change every time a bend becomes a straight so you'd just sign the entire road to match the slowest point - probably 20mph.

That’s not my experience of country/rural driving at all I have to say.

walkthisway0 · 30/09/2025 10:08

I've been thinking so looked it up, in a lot of England (didn't check the rest of the UK) you are legally allowed to walk on a lot A roads, unless there is a sign saying you can't. It doesn't mean you should. Or at the very least if you do you should be taking extreme precautions. The roads I put up pictures of are the main roads between towns around where I live and as such are often streams of traffic in both directions.

Just because you can legally walk the road does not mean you should.
Just because you can legally walk the road does not mean you should.
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BadActingParsley · 30/09/2025 10:40

From the Highway Codehttps://www.highwaycodeuk.co.uk/rules-for-pedestrians.html

General guidance (1 to 6)
1
Pavements and footways (including any path along the side of a road) should be used if provided. Where possible, avoid being next to the kerb with your back to the traffic. If you have to step into the road, look both ways first. Always remain aware of your environment and avoid unnecessary distractions. Always show due care and consideration for others.

2
If there is no pavement, keep to the right-hand side of the road so that you can see oncoming traffic. You should take extra care and

be prepared to walk in single file, especially on narrow roads or in poor light
keep close to the side of the road.
It may be safer to cross the road well before a sharp right-hand bend so that oncoming traffic has a better chance of seeing you. Cross back after the bend.

3
Help other road users to see you. Wear or carry something light-coloured, bright or fluorescent in poor daylight conditions. When it is dark, use reflective materials (e.g. armbands, sashes, waistcoats, jackets, footwear), which can be seen by drivers using headlights up to three times as far away as non-reflective materials.

Help yourself to be seen
4
Young children should not be out alone on the pavement or road (see Rule 7). When taking children out, keep between them and the traffic and hold their hands firmly. Strap very young children into push-chairs or use reins. When pushing a young child in a buggy, do not push the buggy into the road when checking to see if it is clear to cross, particularly from between parked vehicles.

5
Organised walks or parades involving large groups of people walking along a road should use a pavement if available; if one is not, they should keep to the left. Look-outs should be positioned at the front and back of the group, and they should wear fluorescent clothes in daylight and reflective clothes in the dark. At night, the look-out in front should show a white light and the one at the back a red light. People on the outside of large groups should also carry lights and wear reflective clothing.

6
Motorways. Pedestrians MUST NOT be on motorways or slip roads except in an emergency (see Rule 271 and Rule 275).
Laws RTRA sect 17, MT(E&W)R 1982 as amended, reg 15(1)(b) & MT(S)R reg 13

Rules for pedestrians - Crossing the road (7 to 17)

The advice given below on crossing the road is for all pedestrians

https://www.highwaycodeuk.co.uk/rules-for-pedestrians-crossing-the-road.html

FlyingHigher · 01/10/2025 10:36

I think there should be a speed limit of 20mph on rural roads and country lanes that have no white lines in the middle (ie those that are too narrow to have a dividing line).

Such roads should be treated as being essentially bridleways/footpaths on which cars are permitted but where pedestrians, horses and cyclists have priority. On such roads, motor vehicles should not be permitted to overtake or pass other road users, including pedestrians, cyclists and horse riders, except at passing places or lay-bys. If a vehicle approaches a pedestrian, horse rider or cyclist coming in the opposite direction, the vehicle should stop and wait for the other person to go past them before continuing.

I think if the above rules were implemented, a great deal more people would be out walking or cycling and we'd all be a lot safer, fitter and happier.

Personally, I think that pedestrians should not be allowed to walk on major A roads, especially dual carriageways. Those types of roads should have the same status as motorways, imo.

warmapplepies · 01/10/2025 11:19

FlyingHigher · 01/10/2025 10:36

I think there should be a speed limit of 20mph on rural roads and country lanes that have no white lines in the middle (ie those that are too narrow to have a dividing line).

Such roads should be treated as being essentially bridleways/footpaths on which cars are permitted but where pedestrians, horses and cyclists have priority. On such roads, motor vehicles should not be permitted to overtake or pass other road users, including pedestrians, cyclists and horse riders, except at passing places or lay-bys. If a vehicle approaches a pedestrian, horse rider or cyclist coming in the opposite direction, the vehicle should stop and wait for the other person to go past them before continuing.

I think if the above rules were implemented, a great deal more people would be out walking or cycling and we'd all be a lot safer, fitter and happier.

Personally, I think that pedestrians should not be allowed to walk on major A roads, especially dual carriageways. Those types of roads should have the same status as motorways, imo.

How do you think that work in rural areas when those roads are the only way of getting anywhere?

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