My husband doesn’t like his niece - I’m not going to go into the ins and outs of the entire family history but there’s some tension between family members and even though his niece has technically no involvement, I think he’s transferred some of his anger towards her parents onto her for some reason. Anyway, I get on really well with his niece and she’s expecting a baby and I’ve been talking to her, encouraging her and advising her as it’s her first child and her parents live abroad so she really needs support and is basically googling everything as she really doesn’t have a clue. I told her I wanted to visit her (she lives in another city, easily reachable) but I’m not sure how it’s going to go down with my husband. He doesn’t like it when I talk to her and even said he doesn’t want me to talk to her when he’s around😳 and he made it clear he doesn’t want any involvement with her or for me to see her. He knows how I feel about it and I told him not to drag me into his pointless, baseless feud, he’s entitled to feel however he wants but I’m not getting involved! So I’m thinking of visiting her soon but at the same time I don’t want to make it a secret - I’m not doing anything wrong but why does it feel like I am? If I do visit her, he’ll end up finding out anyway and he’s super close with his sister (niece’s mum) and she’d end up telling him when they have their little chinwags). I don’t want him to start a problem with me because I’m literally doing nothing wrong!!! Arrrrrghhhh