Sexual talk on a first date

[Sunshine386]

Recently I went on a first date with a bloke from a paid dating app, both our profiles indicate we're looking for a long term relationship, in our 30s.

On the date he mentioned several times he is a "sexual person". When I asked if he does sport/goes to the gym he says no because he gets exercise though sex.

He didn't try anything with me, we just had a drink and food.

I am not a prude and think sex is important in a relationship but I found myself feeling uncomfortable with this line of talk on a first date, or generally at all before anything sexual has happened. What do you think?

Gross. He’s thinking about sex all day long and I bet it’s not the loving type.

Thank you, next.

Unless sex is the only thing you are interested in he's not for you!

The most important thing is now how much or how little sex or how soon you want it, but that you match with your partner.
If you don't think about sex a lot and consider it very very important then he's not the person for you.

Yeah, No. Just No.

If you’re not up for (probably rough and prolonged) sex as a condition of every single meeting with him from now on, and for him to also continue to be getting it elsewhere I’d not see him again, OP.

Sex is my exercise? WTF. Will be his first excuse to cheat if he feels he doesn’t get enough..