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To think this will affect a lot of people and it isn't fair

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elliejjtiny · 25/09/2025 12:05

Ds got dla from when he was a baby up until age 10. Then turned down at renewal, despite no changes. Lost at tribunal. Awful experience, made me feel like i was screaming but nobody was listening. I thought PIP would be different but i was scared of being made to feel like that again. He was diagnosed with autism after a 16 year fight. Finally i plucked up the courage to phone DWP. They say i can't apply on his behalf unless i am his appointee. To apply to be his appointee i have to wait 5 weeks for a phone call, then wait for an appointment, where they will assess whether i am "suitable". Ds can't speak to strangers so not sure how they are going to do this. Then they have to make a decision and finally i will get the form to fill in. If my son gets PIP, it will be backdated to the day they send the form out, not the day i phoned dwp. Saving the DWP £500 minimum. Multiply that by every person getting PIP who has an appointee (which is probably most of them) and that's a lot of money.

I know that it's important to make sure that vulnerable people are not being financially abused by their appointees. But with ds not able to speak to them (which i told them) it's pointless anyway. If they backdated it to my original phone call i wouldn't mind.

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BuffetTheDietSlayer · 25/09/2025 12:11

All he has to do to be able to get the form sent out is be able to say yes or no to a couple of questions and then you do the rest of the call.
Or you can use the text relay service so everything is typed out. You could even just pretend to be him when doing the text relay.

elliejjtiny · 25/09/2025 12:22

They've said it can't be a call, it has to be an in person visit.

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BuffetTheDietSlayer · 25/09/2025 12:25

elliejjtiny · 25/09/2025 12:22

They've said it can't be a call, it has to be an in person visit.

No, I meant you could use the text relay instead of becoming an appointee. Use the text service, get the form sent out, fill it in for him and talk for him during the assessment (he just needs to be there with you).

elliejjtiny · 25/09/2025 12:36

Thank you so much, they didn't tell me I could do that.

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