My DS is 8, just started Yr3. He’s very respectful, kind and follows the rules. We’ve had a chat tonight about his class and he told me that he chooses to be friends with two children in his class because they don’t have any other friends. This is very admirable. I know both children, one has “annoying habits” - that’s fine, no reason not to be friends. The other is becoming the class bully by all accounts. My son has been close to this child since YrR, so I understand the friendship, but it does concern me. I asked him to think about why others may not like this child, and how he might help, but also to be careful. However, I felt mean saying this to him. I’m not sure I’ve handled it in the right way? WWYD?
YABU - they are still young children and it’s good to be friendly
YANBU - I would also be concerned about friendship with troublemaker/class bully