Hello
My sister in law decided to come and stay with us from another country beginning of this month. Initially, I thought she was staying for a week max but it turned out she's staying for a month as she's planning to find a temp job and make some money. The reason for this is that she just left a toxic job from where she was and wanted to try for new job here in the UK.
To begin with, I'm such a private and introverted person and I don't like talking a lot, appreciate my peace and want to left alone most of the time even when it's me and hubby. What annoys me is that she said she's due to start a part time job next month so why would she want to come here and find a job? Her reason is since she was given a settle status by immigration she has to come and work here in order to "preserve " her status. To be honest, this is not true because when me and my husband searched for this rule online she doesn't really have to work here, she can just come here as visitor and her permit will be fine as long as she doesn't stay out from the country for 5 years. We explained this to her but she won't listen and still insist to find a job.
She just sits around the house doing nothing, wakes up late like 10.30 in the morning, demands we go out and eat and all sorts when reality me or my husband have to pay for it. I just feel so uncomfortable in my own house like I can't even relax and can't talk to my hubby the way I want to.
Am I being nasty or I've got the right to be annoyed with the whole situation? Not sure how many of you allow family members to stay at your home. Thanks 🙏🏽