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To find door to door salespeople very stressful

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Myboyonlybreakshisfavouritetoys · 24/09/2025 18:32

I think I'm just too much of a people pleaser or too British but I find saying no to people trying to sell me stuff SO awkward. Today it was Hello Fresh. I don't want a Hello Fresh box as I'm not a big recipe follower but I swear I almost signed up out of social politeness. I ended up having to basically shut the door on him saying "thanks I have to go now" as I couldn't find a polite way to say no . I'm also aware it's maybe not a super fun job and people work on commission so I feel bad saying no!
Is it just me -am I just really socially awkward?!

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Ella31 · 24/09/2025 22:45

Ring doorbell has been a game changer but if I'm caught on the hop, I always use ive a baby asleep here and I close the door. Once a guy put his foot to block the door and that was horrible but I forcibly closed it. Only time someone was aggressive

Redheadedstepchild · 24/09/2025 23:17

Aardman animations. An early film before they did Wallace and Gromit. (Run time 5 minutes, 9 seconds.) The door to door salesman.

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hadjustaboutenough · 24/09/2025 23:23

It's probably not a fun job, but lots of jobs aren't fun. I'm not parting with my money just because someone's job is unenjoyable. I resent people interrupting my day, tbh, and I'm just focused on getting them to go away without resorting to impoliteness—but really, if I'm not going to buy (and I'm not), I'm actually doing them a favour if I stop them from wasting their time giving me a sales pitch.

Endofyear · 25/09/2025 04:57

Yes they're annoying but I'm afraid you have to toughen up! Just smile and say 'I'm not interested thank you' and shut the door.

Iwishthiswasnottrue · 25/09/2025 05:32

Don't answer the door unless you are expecting a visitor.

Thepossibility · 25/09/2025 05:53

I bought one of the no cold callers signs off Amazon after a particularly pushy solar salesman. Amazing investment, for the peace and quiet it's given.

spoonbillstretford · 25/09/2025 05:55

"Thanks, I'm not interested" and closing the door is polite enough.

frogyoda · 25/09/2025 06:00

I ised to work in a similar job during university- i had to cold call people to do surveys. So i have empathy for people calling door to door even though i find them very annoying.

I just very firmly - but in a friendly tone say ‘thank you, but no’ before they have a chamce to talk. If they try to start their speech then i say ‘definitely no, but thank you’ and then they go.

Dont give an excuse, like you are busy, as that could mean they try to call to you later. Dont give them any reason to start engaging with you.

DinoLil · 25/09/2025 06:56

Get a sticker for your door that says 'no cold callers'. Works for me, even the Jehovah Witnesses don't knock!

oncemoreuntothebeachdearfriends · 25/09/2025 07:10

I don't speak, I just shut the door.

MellowMint · 25/09/2025 07:24

Unless im expecting someone I never open the door… problem solved :)

Bananalanacake · 25/09/2025 11:44

I say, 'i am not allowed to answer the door to anyone except the landlord, you need to go to my letting agent and ask them to call the landlord for permission ' guess what, they never bother.

Owly11 · 25/09/2025 11:48

I just say ‘I never buy anything at the door. Sorry.’ And close the door.

Mumofsoontobe3 · 27/09/2025 18:07

Sunflower459 · 24/09/2025 20:55

😂Bet your cat flicked him the v as he left. These people are shameless, honestly.

I felt really awkward and embarrassed! If they had a cat they'd know they were expensive 🤣 I thought I'd need to pick my jaw off the floor, I mean who does that?!? You are absolutely bang on with them being shameless!

ACynicalDad · 27/09/2025 18:09

Wish there was an equivalent to the telephone preference service for door to door salesman, political canvassers and fundraisers (I’m a fundraiser!)

Greenwriter76 · 27/09/2025 18:14

I hate them and don’t generally answer the door to anyone I’m not expecting. If I want something I seek it out, I don’t need random stuff pushed at me.
A good way to get rid of them if you can’t outrightly say you’re not interested is to tell them now is not a good time but I’ll have a look at your website. Thanks and bye lol.

AffIt · 27/09/2025 18:22

Ruggerlass · 24/09/2025 19:07

When they ask if I’m the lady of the house I reply “not unless my husband has just been made a Lord”. It throws them off their script.

I also do this, although I say 'not unless my wife has recently been made a peer of the realm' (I don't have a wife - I'm a straight unmarried woman with a male OH of 22 years - but I like to see the look on their faces).

socialdilemmawhattodo · 27/09/2025 18:34

I have one line if I mistakenly open the door to these people, said as I am closing the door. "So sorry I dont buy from the door. Thank you." The only people to abuse me after that have been the fake Nottingham chuggers. I then reopen the door and give them a barrelful of abuse. I am not being called a fucking cunt on my own doorstep by anyone.

merryhouse · 27/09/2025 21:52

"We're not interested thank you" big smile, close door.

Never apologise, never explain

myusernamewastakenbyme · 27/09/2025 22:09

My son when he was living with me in his mid 20's got collared at the door by the air ambulance charity and signed up to a direct debit...hes bought his own his now and moved out so i dread to think what he will get signed up to.

2Rebecca · 27/09/2025 22:12

“Sorry Ian in the middle of something. Bye”

GiddyCrab · 27/09/2025 22:53

A ring doorbell is the answer. If you don't like/know the person at the door simply don't answer.

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