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Christmas traditions that you do and don't do

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Honkwiching · 24/09/2025 17:49

Obviously I'm unreasonable for saying the C word so early, but idc - anyone who doesn't want to chat Christmas can leave a snarky comment below for Krampus to enjoy and then hide the thread.

For everyone else, what are Christmas traditions that you enjoy, and are there any popular ones you don't do?

For us, we have some things which are non-negotiable. On the second weekend in December we go and choose our tree, then we decorate it while listening to Christmas music before watching a festive film with sherry and mince pies.

We have a fancy-but-easy Christmas Eve meal (because it's usually the only time it's just our immediate family at home). I make it in advance, usually a pie or similar, so it just needs defrosted and chucked in the oven on the day. We use the posh crockery set I inherited from my great uncle, and the whole room is candlelit.

We give the children a Christmas decoration each on Christmas Eve, usually related to a particular interest for the year. This year my son is getting a ballet slipper and my daughter is getting a rabbit.

We also do a full Christmas meal foodbank shop a couple of weeks before Christmas. I let my kids choose what fun treats to include (along with the necessities / what the foodbank has requested, which I check in advance).

In terms of things we don't do, we're die-hard Elf on the Shelf avoiders. I have ADHD and a million pets so I don't have the time or inclination to create an amusing daily scene for that creepy guy.

We also don't do Christmas Eve boxes or expensive advent calendars. I think my kids enjoy the chocolate calendars as much as anything, and they get enough presents as it is without the Christmas Eve box.

(I've seen people get and give a lot of joy from these things so absolutely no shade, they just aren't things we prioritise).

I want to hear yours!

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Panicatthegarden · 27/09/2025 09:02

Aww I love this thread! I am admittedly a pregnant hormonal mess but it's made me a bit tearful (in a good way!). DS is only 2 so we haven't established that many traditions as a family yet

Things we do

  • Decorate on the first Sunday of December (or at least try to, it doesn't always happen)
  • Films that must be watched at some point in December - the Grinch, Elf, Die Hard (an evening watch for me and DP now). I love all the cheesy Xmas films though! I think I might make a Netflix Christmas watchlist profile this year
  • Eat a mince pie on the 1st December
  • Christmas day dinner is at 3pm or later
  • 1st December box with all our Christmas books in, Christmas mugs, pjs, ect. Stuff that you want to use for the whole of December to get the most use of it. We don't have matching pjs but I am thinking of doing something like getting us all Grinch ones/ red ones so I can just replace as needed rather than buying a full new set each year
  • Chocolate cereal for breakfast on Xmas morning (sometimes I put Bailey's on mine 😂)
  • Second breakfast of smoked salmon or bacon cobs afterwards

Things I fondly remember from childhood I'd like to incorporate as DC get bigger

  • Read the night before Christmas as bedtime story on Xmas eve
  • Go to a family friendly church carol service/ Christingle at some point (this might be one for just me and DC as we tried carols at the Cathedral last year and DP really didn't enjoy it)
  • After Xmas dinner/ early evening we'd always discover one more present that Santa had misplaced! It was always something for me and my sister to share, one year it was a dressing up box and another a pop up Barbie tent
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