Meet the Other Phone. A phone that grows with your child.

Meet the Other Phone.
A phone that grows with your child.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

DS plans to leave his central London flat totally empty for a year

234 replies

Tedsabear · 24/09/2025 16:25

Hi all, so my DS’s dad passed away a couple of years ago, between his pension, life insurance and home DS and as able to sell his home and buy a flat in central London. He spent over 1 million on this (his dad wasn’t super wealthy or anything he just owned a property in a nice area of London and it was paid off mortgage wise). His girlfriend is Portuguese and also owns property in Lisbon.
They are mid 20s.

They have decided to spend the next year as digital nomads as they are able to work remotely. I told DS he should rent out his flat and his girlfriend should do the same. One from a security perspective and two as extra income. He has said no he doesn’t like the idea of someone staying in his space, he’s said I can go and check on it once a month or “whatever” if I like. He said his girlfriend will be doing the same anyway.

AIBU to think he’s being ridiculous?

OP posts:
Ponderingwindow · 24/09/2025 17:50

Renting is risky. Tenants can do all sorts of damage. They can refuse to leave.

In addition to hiring someone to check on the home occasionally, technology exists to monitor empty homes and will send alerts if anything happens. It is popular with people who own holiday homes or split times between 2 houses seasonally.

Treacletoots · 24/09/2025 17:50

Given the soon to become laws meaning Section 21 evictions Will be banned, I think he's actually making the right call if he wants to be sure of actually getting his home back after the year.

If he rents he will have to provide gas and electric safety certificates, ensure the property meets all relevant guidelines, pay tax on the income, website it meets EPC guidelines for renting and arrange any repairs for the tenants on good time.

Oh and that's assuming the tenants don't trash the house and pay their rent, and leave when you ask them. Sure. It's a great idea.

Yamamm · 24/09/2025 17:51

If they’re in Europe and well off surely they’ll be popping back for various events and staying there anyway. Concerts and friends etc.

LlynTegid · 24/09/2025 17:51

I think he needs to sort out insurance or have someone visit more often than once a month.

Other than that, assuming his work allows him to work outside the UK, then he would have my support. The renters rights changes being passed into law for very good reasons do make him renting out for a fixed period more difficult.

BlueMum16 · 24/09/2025 17:52

Tedsabear · 24/09/2025 17:21

I’m not actually sure, he doesn’t talk to me about most of it, our relationship has been strained since his dad passed sway.

So he doesn't talk to you about it, you were not involved in any decisions, why do you think now you get a say?

Leave him too it.

Sounds like he's living his best life

Waterbaby41 · 24/09/2025 17:52

Tedsabear · 24/09/2025 17:20

He’s in a very nice part of central London, he prioritised location and accessibility to the places he often goes. I wasn’t involved in his decision making but I’d guess that’s why most 24 year olds shouldn’t just be given over 1 million unregulated.

Why so judgemental? Your son has bought a flat and now will be leaving it empty until he returns. His property, his choice , his risk. Not sure why you are so concerned?

Tedsabear · 24/09/2025 17:52

Yamamm · 24/09/2025 17:51

If they’re in Europe and well off surely they’ll be popping back for various events and staying there anyway. Concerts and friends etc.

They don’t plan to be in Europe, they have Georgia, Morocco/Tunisia, Colombia and Chile on their list.

OP posts:
Sheiswaiting · 24/09/2025 17:53

Tedsabear · 24/09/2025 17:21

I’m not actually sure, he doesn’t talk to me about most of it, our relationship has been strained since his dad passed sway.

it is possible then that he’s just saying this to you either to antagonise you or just to get you to back off

BunnyLake · 24/09/2025 17:54

DDivaStar · 24/09/2025 16:30

Err its not hers to rent, ridiculous suggestion and illegal ! what happens if he decides to return early or the tenants damage it, against regulations abd many other issues I'm sure.

I don’t think they were being serious 😁

saraclara · 24/09/2025 17:54

Insurance for an unoccupied property requires that it's visited once a week/once a fortnight. Insurers are terrified of water leaks that no-one is in the property to notice. So he'll need to arrange that.

But having been, briefly, an accidental landlord, I would never EVER rent out a property. The changes that the government is bringing in will make it even harder for someone like your son to go back to his home after a year away.

The property that I have to handle has to be sold to pay the deceased owner's debt. It's taken a very long time to get the tenants out, and it could have taken another six months had they stayed put and waited for the bailiffs. It's cost me £1,000 already, to clear the house and scrap heap garden, clean the place and change all the locks. Oh, and they left with rent arrears.

Why anyone would want to let out their own home, I will never know.

ReadingSoManyThreads · 24/09/2025 17:54

No, I don't think he's being ridiculous, and I speak as a Landlord myself. I wouldn't want someone in my space either, if I intended to live in the property again. Some tenants often don't look after properties very well. It's also very hard to evict tenants, so there would be no guarantee of him getting them out for his return. Eviction can cost thousands. As he has no mortgage on it, I think it's fair enough that he doesn't want people in his space, using his furniture etc. Also, he'll then not need to pay for storage for his other personal items.

He'll just need to ensure he has insurance that covers him for it being empty. He'll need to remember to turn the water off etc. And it would be useful to give his neighbours your number in case of emergencies.

HelloPossible · 24/09/2025 17:55

I would have at the very least someone checking up on it regularly, there is huge targeted crime in London and a known crime is renting out empty flats.

Honestly I wouldn’t leave for a year and leave a flat empty in central London. Rent it out to someone you know, use trusted house sitters or have family live there/ check on it or don’t go.

TiredofTheirCrap · 24/09/2025 17:57

I'd recommend booking an agent to check on the property every week. Viewber are really good for that sort of thing. Also get the agent to put on the heating, turn on taps etc. It'll cost max £100 a month if he books a weekly visit.

SerendipityJane · 24/09/2025 17:57

FuzzyWolf · 24/09/2025 17:03

It’s not as if it’s a second home. It’s his primary residence that he owns and is abroad for a year.

It's an empty house in a city of (checks notes) over 10,000 homeless people.

I guess crisis is the wrong word, really. More an issue, I guess.

whatasillygoose · 24/09/2025 17:57

If he doesn’t want the property to live in for a year he should sell up and then buy something else wherever he settles next. It’s disgusting to leave a home empty. I hope someone makes use of it in his absence.

viques · 24/09/2025 18:01

A friend recently put their rented out house in East London on the market, the tenants having moved out. All the estate agents advised them to make sure the property was secure, with an alarm fitted, someone sleeping there a couple of nights a week, neighbours ( who are lovely) keeping an eye open, lights on random timers etc. There have been quite a few burglaries ( pipes and wiring if the house is empty) plus random scammers “letting out” houses to unwary tenants and pocketing the deposit and first two months rent. I would not let a property stand empty, for the above reasons, plus the damage that could be caused by un reported water leaks etc.

Doris86 · 24/09/2025 18:03

Longingdreamer · 24/09/2025 16:28

It would probably invalidate his insurance.

What about getting a house sitter if he isn't willing to rent it?

How would that help? He doesn’t want someone else living in his flat.

Franpie · 24/09/2025 18:04

My BIL is a digital nomad with an expensive London flat. He rented it out and it’s been nothing but issues. The last tenant completely trashed the place and disappeared leaving all his belongings in the place, including a half cooked meal on the hob! It has been a nightmare for my DH who has been trying to deal with it all in BIL’s absence.

We are not re-letting it again once this nightmare is cleared up. You can pay for it to be covered by a security firm and visited regularly.

pinkstripeycat · 24/09/2025 18:05

FullOfLemons · 24/09/2025 16:41

Yes, you may get squatters, water leaks etc … but in all likelihood it will be fine.

I don’t understand the insurance comments

If it is a flat then I’d expect the buildings insurance will be arranged by the freeholder and not his concern

Why would he needs contents insurance if empty ?

You do need insurance if a properly isn’t lived in for a minimum of 90 days. You have to turn all heating and water off to an uninhabited house (I’ve done it so I know) due to water leaks, gas leaks, weather damage, other damage, break ins etc

Iamnotalemming · 24/09/2025 18:06

He will probably find that his insurance is invalidated by leaving it empty for longer than a month. He needs to check that if nothing else. What would happen if a neighbour reported a leak - would you be expected to go and check? And any important post - a redirect would be sensible... I doubt I would have thought about these things in my 20s but he should, even if he's not bothered about potential rental income.

LizzieSiddal · 24/09/2025 18:08

didntlikeanyofthesuggestions · 24/09/2025 16:27

While they're away you can rent it out without telling him. You'd make thousands of pounds and he sounds a bit clueless so probably won't cotton on. Everyone's a winner.

The would be illegal as the OP doesn’t own the flat.

goldtrap · 24/09/2025 18:08

How lovely. That's your weekends sorted for the next few months. Enjoy your time in the capital!

I am sure it won't stand totally empty. IMHO (as someone who lives in 'central London') there are always people wanting to come and stay. He should get a keysafe for trusted friends. Or it might be he comes back between nomading stints.

FullOfLemons · 24/09/2025 18:12

Tulipvase · 24/09/2025 17:21

Surely a digital nomad won’t be taking all their belongings with them?

As has been stated, the building insurance normally has a clause that means you can’t be away from the property over a certain amount of time.

When I sold an empty property I had to agree to monthly visits, heating on to a certain temp in the winter and a higher price. After a year, I had to go to a specialist insurer which of course cost me even more.

Yes, but were you selling a house or a flat ?

In a flat the building insurance is placed by the freeholder

This is completely different to a buildings policy for a house which I am well aware will have a restriction on periods unoccupied

There is no requirement to have contents insurance on either a house or flat

SanctusInDistress · 24/09/2025 18:13

He can get a lodger but you can’t end a rental easily anymore. There is a legal difference between the two.

Denim4ever · 24/09/2025 18:16

I think checks should be at least weekly, if possible. Can a neighbour also do this?