DH is a school cook. I have a speech disorder. DD1 was ill yesterday and I had a pre booked medical appointment, which he refused to take a couple of hours off for to look after DD. I phoned first thing to ask them to rearrange the appointment and they told me they couldn't understand me and could my daughter speak for me (I reiterated that she's ONE). I asked my mother to phone from her work and explain, and ask them to rearrange because DD would not get up unless it was to breastfeed. She told me that they would not rearrange the appointment so she told them I'd be late and they said that was fine. I got ill DD up and into the pushchair, waited for a bus as I thought it would be quicker than walking across the city, arrived half an hour late to be told that they needed to rearrange the appointment because I was half an hour late. I'm frustrated with them because both I and my mum had asked for this on the phone, and frustrated with DH because he wouldn't consider taking three hours off work to look after our ill child.
Last night I told him that I was frustrated that he wouldn't take time off, he implied that I was unreasonable to ask him to ("so you want 700 kids to go hungry?"). He then stormed off to sleep on the sofa. I haven't seen him since because he leaves early for work and didn't say goodbye.
I feel like he is unreasonable to be in such a strop over this, but is it me? Am I the unreasonable one?