I didn't want to derail another thread on a serious subject (domestic abuse) but someone' s advice on that conversation amounted to "you'll get loads of helpful advice in this book. Google "Title of Book free PDF"
So, rather than pay for something that someone has used their talent and expertise to write, you should just get a pirated copy for nothing, should you? Not buy it, or borrow it from the library. Just nick it?
It's exactly the same as buying dodgy Amazon Fire sticks in a pub or online to get pirated Sky or Netflix subscriptions.
It's just stealing. It's not OK.