31 year old, properly single about 3 years post 10 year relationship that ended in tears. Have dated a few people in the last few years, some flings some semi serious (6 months).
today was in the sauna and a guy seemed to be hitting on me. We chatted, asked about jobs, told each other companies and we had very similar jobs.
he seemed to be waiting when I was at the shower, and said “I never caught your name” and then I told him and asked his, he seemed like he might have wanted to chat more. But I felt awls about it being in the shower.
he said in the convo in the sauna, he was going to th party next week at the community sauna we were at ….
I know his name and company and have already stalled on LinkedIn lol.
I don’t know whether I rebuffed so much he didn’t ask, and whether it is psycho to reach out on plinked in? Or to go to the party?
it just feels rare you meet in real life and there’s a vibe and they are attentive????
should I just see what happens and if I bump into him again (he goes regularly apparently and is local)
go the the party
nessge on LinkedIn and apologise for scarpering and say if there was in deed a vibe, it would be nice to grab a drink but no pressure if I read it wrong.