My ex husband used to live 5 mins away so we used to share the pick ups and drop off for my son who’s 7. He then decided to move 20 mins away a few months ago as it benefited him and his wife, he wanted me to share the pick ups and drops off bare in mind my son goes to his dads Tuesday and Thursday after school and just Saturday during the day. He would pick him and I’d collect him in the evening. At the start of the summer holidays his car was stolen and ofcourse he hasn’t got any courtesy car cover, which meant he had no car and as he works from home I guess it didn’t affect him. I agreed to cover the drop offs for my little one until he got his new car. It’s been 8 weeks 🙃 I’m still waiting for him to get a new car ! When I ask him about his car it’s alwys some excuse. Now as schools are back on it affects my sons daily routine and quiet frankly I don’t really feel like driving after the school run for 40 mins to drop him to his dads and then again 40 mins to pick him up to get him home for bedtime at 8 especially when he hasn’t fed even him his dinner properly and today apparently my ex husband just didn’t know where the time went and sent his dinner in a to go box when I went to collect him at 7!!!!!
Am I being unreasonable to stop the weekly visits and just take him Saturdays? I feel like my ex husband is taking advantage of the situation and if I say anything to him he isn’t very nice, I used to have a restraining order against him for 2 years which stopped in 2023.