Hi,
Just pondering this and wanted some well rounded opinions. I’m not intending to raise this with the ex (at the moment anyway) due to high conflict reactions.
A few years ago, my ExH “left” his employed job. He then went self employed and reduced the monthly CS amount. No problem, I understand and I managed the shortfall.
The amount has then not changed for a number of years. He’s had these years to build up this business yet not given himself any kind of salary increase if the payments are true to his earnings. For context, he doesn’t contribute towards eg school uniform, shoes, it’s the basic CS payments.
Do you think I’d be unreasonable to question this and to think that you’d expect it to have increased even by a bit over those years?
Also for context, whenever there has been reason to reschedule his time with the children it’s always a struggle to rearrange with him as he is “very busy with work” which implies it’s going great.
Thank you for reading