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GSCE English tutors

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Puddypuds · 11/09/2025 20:31

AIBU to think that a GCSE English tutor would be massively beneficial to my 15 year old and not the torture he seems to think I'm going to inflict on him. He's currently getting a 3 and hates every minute of his English lessons. I am driving myself barmy trying to find a tutor and spoke to someone today who sounds great and understands 15 year old boys. He is expensive but I am prepared to pay to help him get through his exams. Does anyone have any experience of tutors and if they were worthwhile. I completely understand every scenario/child is different but I am just trying to do my best for him.

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littlebilliie · 11/09/2025 20:34

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ResusciAnnie · 11/09/2025 20:39

Does he get any 1:1 time at school? If not, he might find it’s just what he needs. Definitely worth a shot OP. My DS is only in year 6 but absolutely loves having his tutor session, he tailors it to what DS needs and it’s a chance for DS to raise anything he’s no sure of etc.

tinofthetop · 11/09/2025 20:58

You can help him yourself for free if he will let you. Honestly, once you know what they are looking for it makes it easier to gain marks. All past papers are online, just make sure you are looking at the right exam board. Walk him through a paper. Have the paper open, if you can print off the passage so they can highlight or box off lines say 2-10 or whatever it asks for on the question paper it would be better. Then after just one question look at the mark scheme to see what they were looking for. Do that for every question, one by one. The mark scheme is very clear on what they are looking for. You can go one step further and read the examiner's report which tells you what students did well and where they performed poorly.

There are also Youtube videos, Mr Bruff is very popular as is Mr Salles who was our favourite.

As he will also write a narrative usually based on a picture or a title, prepare that ahead of time. You can google how to describe weather or a person's features, so even though he doesn't know what the topic is he will still have great descriptive words and punctuation he can use. Mr Salles also recommends this approach. Many children struggle to come up with a story off the top of their head. Mine went in with generic stories that matched a title of The Choice, The Mistake. You can look at all the past titles. The children are 15/16 they are not looking for the next best selling short story. In primary we call it "magpie" to basically steal better words to use in English work.

And talk to him, talk about the extracts used, what does he think is going on in them. He might not get it at first but this is where you can talk about inferring things, like using the word "trudged" instead of walk, why that word? How would someone trudge? Writing is deliberately chosen words, edited in a certain way, what are they trying to say to you? I would also tell him that if he passes it now he never has to do this again and that can help motivate him too.

TheLivelyViper · 11/09/2025 21:18

tinofthetop · 11/09/2025 20:58

You can help him yourself for free if he will let you. Honestly, once you know what they are looking for it makes it easier to gain marks. All past papers are online, just make sure you are looking at the right exam board. Walk him through a paper. Have the paper open, if you can print off the passage so they can highlight or box off lines say 2-10 or whatever it asks for on the question paper it would be better. Then after just one question look at the mark scheme to see what they were looking for. Do that for every question, one by one. The mark scheme is very clear on what they are looking for. You can go one step further and read the examiner's report which tells you what students did well and where they performed poorly.

There are also Youtube videos, Mr Bruff is very popular as is Mr Salles who was our favourite.

As he will also write a narrative usually based on a picture or a title, prepare that ahead of time. You can google how to describe weather or a person's features, so even though he doesn't know what the topic is he will still have great descriptive words and punctuation he can use. Mr Salles also recommends this approach. Many children struggle to come up with a story off the top of their head. Mine went in with generic stories that matched a title of The Choice, The Mistake. You can look at all the past titles. The children are 15/16 they are not looking for the next best selling short story. In primary we call it "magpie" to basically steal better words to use in English work.

And talk to him, talk about the extracts used, what does he think is going on in them. He might not get it at first but this is where you can talk about inferring things, like using the word "trudged" instead of walk, why that word? How would someone trudge? Writing is deliberately chosen words, edited in a certain way, what are they trying to say to you? I would also tell him that if he passes it now he never has to do this again and that can help motivate him too.

I would say for the story, don't learn a story or script, it's okay to have a few descriptions for the weather or some things about facial description, but if you repeat the same general plot line, you aren't completing the task (costing AO1 marks) because you won't be reacting to the picture and the quote/prompt given to you, scripts are not recommended by the exam boards and they emphasise this every year. Many on SM etc share story ideas, the exam boards don't like this and also can always tell, learning a few phrases or things you might want to say (as in vocab) about the weather, or clothes or facial descriptions etc is fine, but you need to be adapting and reacting to the content of the prompt and picture.

The best practice for this question is just that, exam pratice, looking and finding pratice questions and giving yourself five minutes to plan and go from there, do a few full out (timing and the whole length and get teacher to mark), but also writing a paragraph or planning detailed points is also useful. Then reading is key, the kids who read have more breath of language, ideas, are more aware of nuanced techniques and how to create coherent flow - get him reading more OP, not diary of the wimpy kid, it doesn't have to be old books, they're are lots of modern texts which he can read. Look at the women's prize for fiction, the prize for fiction in general, Lit in Colour texts which they recommend etc, that will benefit him a lot.

If the tutor seems good, get him to try it, both English Literature and Language are highly valued GCSEs and whilst he may only need a 4, if he can push for higher he should, he never knows when it can be helpful. Even aside from the grade, the skills of English will always be needed, the analysis, nuance, comprehension, forming arguments etc. He may hate it because of his experience in class and also the fact he's not doing well, sometimes with a better 1-1 time, development can increase your joy in a subject.

I'd also say for Lit, it's getting to know the texts inside out, essay plans are the best - scaffold around a past papers question and make a perfect version perhaps on Google docs etc, let that contain everything on structure, language, the specific character, link to themes, context, your thesis (should run across your essay). Then you should focus on learning those points, creating your own ideas as well - not just the generic points everyone will have, have some nuance, have specific ideas, make sure you develop them and develop your 'writers voice', this comes with practing as much as possible. Try and abandon set sentence/paragraph structures, which just repeat over and over with no actual depth of analysis as well, PEEL is quite basic, and whilst it's right about some of the things to include, you don't want it to sound very prescriptive, the more you write, the easier it is to get away from that and develop your coherence without any structures, you'll still hit all, if not more of the same baseline requirements, but it will sound more coherent, have a strong idea and thesis running through, show a deeper analysis of themes across the book etc and tying in context and quotes where needed.

You don't say if he's in Y10 or Y11, which one? Even so I'd say that at the start of Y11, I was at a 5 in English Lit, and my essays flucated around that, anyways worked my arse off, and only lost 4 marks for the total GCSE in the end. So if he's diligent, works well with his tutor, reads more, practices questions (make sure his teachers mark these, they don't mind if you put the work in, they want you to do well), he can progress a lot, it's easier to jump between lower grades as it tends to be bigger picture stuff which they need to change, and if they're consistent, they can make lots of progress and enjoyment can grow sometimes as well. I'd get the tutor and see how it goes, help him to not see himself as useless or just not capable of getting better.

tinofthetop · 11/09/2025 21:52

@TheLivelyViper you are expecting a lot for a child performing at grade 3 level who actively hates English. Also my own child had a reading age of 16 before he left primary, read loads of books both fiction and non fiction as a teen and still struggled to come up with story ideas himself. Giving them starters such as character descriptions gives them something to enable them to start writing rather than deer in headlights and not writing anything. Isn't that the whole point of the photograph on AQA papers? To give children something to write about, they can see it, they can describe it. The same with the extract in English Literature and the poem, it is literally there to provide a prompt.

Looking at past papers and titles and discussing what their story can be about gives them ideas, characters and weather can be inserted into any story. I didn't say only describe a sunny day and then get faced with a photo of a wave from the sea washing over the train tracks.

Look I get some people love English lang and lit and I do but not everyone loves it and they find it hard to grasp and have at least 7 other subjects to balance out too. Yes English skills will always be needed but this is a 15 year old boy. I have 2 sons. They both hated English, loved maths and science because that isn't subjective.

Expecting 15/16 year olds to create "your own ideas as well - not just the generic points everyone will have" is wishful thinking for the vast majority of students. I agree with a lot of what you are saying and it is great you pulled yourself up from a 5, I as a parent, pulled my own child up from the bottom of a 4 to an 8, 3 marks off a 9 in year 11. But he was acing out all other subjects achieving 9s so he had time to spend working on English.

TheLivelyViper · 11/09/2025 23:06

tinofthetop · 11/09/2025 21:52

@TheLivelyViper you are expecting a lot for a child performing at grade 3 level who actively hates English. Also my own child had a reading age of 16 before he left primary, read loads of books both fiction and non fiction as a teen and still struggled to come up with story ideas himself. Giving them starters such as character descriptions gives them something to enable them to start writing rather than deer in headlights and not writing anything. Isn't that the whole point of the photograph on AQA papers? To give children something to write about, they can see it, they can describe it. The same with the extract in English Literature and the poem, it is literally there to provide a prompt.

Looking at past papers and titles and discussing what their story can be about gives them ideas, characters and weather can be inserted into any story. I didn't say only describe a sunny day and then get faced with a photo of a wave from the sea washing over the train tracks.

Look I get some people love English lang and lit and I do but not everyone loves it and they find it hard to grasp and have at least 7 other subjects to balance out too. Yes English skills will always be needed but this is a 15 year old boy. I have 2 sons. They both hated English, loved maths and science because that isn't subjective.

Expecting 15/16 year olds to create "your own ideas as well - not just the generic points everyone will have" is wishful thinking for the vast majority of students. I agree with a lot of what you are saying and it is great you pulled yourself up from a 5, I as a parent, pulled my own child up from the bottom of a 4 to an 8, 3 marks off a 9 in year 11. But he was acing out all other subjects achieving 9s so he had time to spend working on English.

That's very fair, but I'm sure you know the idea of aim for an A and you don't get it you still do very well perhaps a C or a D, if you aim for a very low grade at the start like a D and don't make it then it's a lot worse. He may not be able to do it, but if he can do some of it, it will have a bigger difference than if he makes small changes because that's all he's aiming for. Having high expectations gets better standards of work, pushing students to believe they can do x gets them to want to. For a lot of what I did, most of it was wanting to prove my teacher right, maybe it didn't make sense for my English teacher to say multiple times a week from the start if the year I'd get a 9 but you know what having low expectations won't get you there at all, and part of her doing that was just to push standards up. That's a women who repeatdly got classes of students with 1s,2s,3s to all 8s and 9s, and working further on in education myself but also taking words from here, it's starts with that belief you give students that they can and should do better.

If a child is acing all other GCSEs (I'm making an assumption here so could be wrong), I'm guessing they are doing at least one essay based subject, if they can get to an 8 or 9 in that, then they have the basis to make some good progress in English, so I'd be focusing on getting them to emulate the skills they have from some of those subjects into English as many are similar. Yes I agree that looking at ideas is fine, have a few weather things you like, but I wanted to stress it to OP as often people go to far with that content, happens to many students and its so clear it's pre-thought and they suffer in marks for it. So wanted to stress to OP to not go out of lines on that, have a few ideas on weather or facial description but keep it to a minimum, don't let him take too much from online.

The poem for Section B, as in the ones you learn, that is there to prompt around quotes but the other poem you pick and write in the comparison, so when you know more quotes from the poem not in front of you, when you know, analyse, have a good argument for the poem you can't see and use the benefit of the one in front of you, you do better, and you show that you know your poems, they can tell if you're only able to do the main aspects for the one you can see in the exam and credit as such. Again the extract gives a prompt but again students who concentrate on that and don't show a wider knowledge of the rest of the text, who don't show they can have a wider thesis, will be credited less, you must talk about the extract but you also need to build off it, so yes it's there to prompt but not too much. It evens the filed by making the question more accessible, and it works well as a structure.

Creating your own ideas isn't all by yourself though, its just developing a point, rather than sticking to e.g LM is evil and manipulative. Look for ideas, look at some basic literary theory (maybe get AI to summarise, watch videos) - think about the ideas yourself, use your own opinions. Though some of this is down to from Y9/10, teaching becoming so scripted for English, they teach the ideas often, they don't let students develop these thoughts or have long discussions, so to be fair, lots struggle because they've necer been able to practice it at all. That's due to lots of things but particularly knowing that x answer isn't going to get you a 9 but say these ideas and you'll survive. Starting like that from Y9 doesn't improce English skills nor does it induce interest, plus it means they take the joy and creativity out of the subject, so I'd say a focus on grades has also caused a similar issue. Some of those skills are rarely practiced earlier on so they have them long-term. I take your points though, not everyone has to like it, I'm not bothered by that, I'm bothered by poor investment into reading which is getting worse now for younger children, some have never had a physical book, I'm bothered by constantly over teaching Shakespeare and no other playwrights and the over teaching of the canon and then wondering why kids are alienated by English. But that's a different conversation.

tinofthetop · 12/09/2025 07:27

@TheLivelyViper I think the main take away should be, predicted grades don't define what you can actually achieve. I completely agree that a child should aim high. There are plenty of free resources outside of the classroom that can help a child to understand not just English but all GCSE subjects, sadly sometimes this is hindered by exam board choice by the school, mine did not do AQA for either English Language or History. Tutoring also helps fill gaps but does cost a lot.

Also that parents are a great help to their children if they know where to look themselves and the child is willing and that is the key point. YouTube has subject teachers going over science content, or explanations of how to do this maths question, full exam paper walkthroughs, grade 9 exemplars and why it is a grade 9. Children don't seem to come home talking about AO2 and level 5. This is something that should be given to parents at the start of year 10.

RavenPie · 12/09/2025 07:40

I have a ds just finished y11 with 5 in Lang and 6 in Lit. He’s always struggled with English and got 4s in y10 and y11 mocks. I got a tutor from MyTutor but the first one I had was not a good fit and I tried another and she was excellent. Ds really, really liked her and never complained about doing the lessons of the work she set him. Although he didn’t get 8/9 he did do very well for him and didn’t scrape through (only 2 marks off a 6 in Lang). I didn’t get her until about February, after y11 mocks so only a short time but I believe it made a difference. There are loads of free online resources but a bit of individual attention and personalised feedback is helpful. It is expensive though, I think I paid £38/week. I would be happy to recommend her.

JarellQuansahsGolfClubs · 12/09/2025 08:49

OP, if he's a good tutor and can connect with your DS, then it has the potential to make a massive difference. The tutor needs to really know his stuff too of course – the requirements of the specification/exam as well as the content. That and the ability to connect are the key things. He should also be able to tutor at the level your son is working at, i.e. not just at grade 9 level.

I'm a tutor and I know I have made a huge difference to students' experience of the subject and their grades over the years. I have had many reluctant learners who have nonetheless enjoyed the sessions and passed when they otherwise wouldn't have done.

The tutor should offer the option of paying just for an initial session before you commit to a block of sessions (or whatever his terms and conditions are). Would your DS agree to try a session in the knowledge that there's no pressure to continue? Hopefully he'll enjoy it so much he wants to carry on.

KpopDemon · 12/09/2025 08:58

This isn’t necessarily about whether a tutor can help, it’s about your ds being in a frame of mind to try to make it work.

I think teens have a tendency to avoid thinking/acting on things that make them feel uncomfortable.My dd who is fine at school but has a medical condition that requires daily physio really hates doing her exercises -I think it makes her think about her weakness, how no one else seems to struggle with being weak, etc. She gets irate when I remind her how important it is to try to stay strong, and storms off in a temper. Teens hate being told what to do.

I would offer your ds this:

You have to get your grade above a 3 or you’ll be resitting English in year 12 and this misery doesn’t go away. You need a 5. Very achievable but won’t happen by magic in last term of y11 so you need to make a plan to get to a 4 by Christmas, 5 by half term - and stay there.

You have choices:

  1. you let me help (my dd would hate that!)
  2. You let me hire a tutor and you ENGAGE
  3. you produce a study plan showing what school, YouTube, printed and online resources you will use to raise your grade yourself - in this case I will supervise your homework AND contact your English teacher to confirm the plan so we can both monitor progress.
  4. discuss a mix of these
Puddypuds · 19/09/2025 06:36

Thank you everyone. So I have hired a tutor who is male which I think has helped. He has met DC in person and has just had a second lesson on teams. He has been fantastic and more importantly DC is grumbling but not refusing. Even the grumbling is fairly muted. So far I think the tutor has "got" my DC almost immediately so fingers crossed. He's going to come here in person and get him to sit a mock exam next week so he knows exactly how he works and reacts to exams. So far I'm feeling positive. To be honest the main issue is the evenings it takes up for both English language and literature to be separated but I'm hoping the dark nights will lend themselves to a more conducive attitude towards working after school. Historically DC's school does not set much in the way of homework at all.
Thanks again all

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