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Customer demands to charge her phone at supermarket

280 replies

Jdot · 10/09/2025 06:54

She came into the supermarket wanted to pay for her shopping on Apple Pay but her phone is dead. I saw her talking on the phone in the store.

Supermarkets and other places that people pay for products and services - restaurants, retailers, leisure places etc are NOT responsible for people’s mobile batteries and them not carrying their physical cards on them.

OP posts:
ladyofshertonabbas · 10/09/2025 13:10

I would see it as:
-politely asking- yes, sure you can charge your phone for a bit.
-rudely asking- nope!

kellygoeswest · 10/09/2025 14:07

This happened to me at a Tesco Express recently after I was returning from a long work event. I didn't have a ton of shopping (literally just loo roll and a few bits) and the cashier had his phone on charge at the counter, he literally just offered to plug mine in so I could use the contactless quickly.

I didn't expect it at all and I probably wouldn't have asked him to do it, but I was really grateful after a long day!

AngelicKaty · 10/09/2025 14:26

Queen0fTheNorth · 10/09/2025 12:40

I know she's weighed up the risk because we've talked about it. She carries the card with her in case a phone payment doesn't work (which has happened to her), not in case her phone is stolen.

I completely understand why she carries the card - that's not the issue as our exchange already demonstrates. I don't understand why she carries it in her phone cover, which is an unnecessary risk to take and one that's easy to reduce.

SerendipityJane · 10/09/2025 14:41

A friend of mine pays for everything via her phone but she keeps her bank card in the phone cover just in case she needs it. That seems sensible to me.

By exactly the same token it seems the height of dimness. Because when you've lost your phone....

Queen0fTheNorth · 10/09/2025 14:58

AngelicKaty · 10/09/2025 14:26

I completely understand why she carries the card - that's not the issue as our exchange already demonstrates. I don't understand why she carries it in her phone cover, which is an unnecessary risk to take and one that's easy to reduce.

Christ you've got a real bee in your bonnet about this Katy. To each their own.

Tryingtokeepgoing · 10/09/2025 15:09

RedRiverShore5 · 10/09/2025 10:44

I think you will find you are supposed to notify your bank if your phone is stolen

Oh yes, but that’s not the same as cancelling the cards. They just de-authorise the DPAN associating the cards with the device in my experience. And, with Apple at least, you can remotely suspend cards any way and wipe the device if you want to.

RedRiverShore5 · 10/09/2025 17:43

Tryingtokeepgoing · 10/09/2025 15:09

Oh yes, but that’s not the same as cancelling the cards. They just de-authorise the DPAN associating the cards with the device in my experience. And, with Apple at least, you can remotely suspend cards any way and wipe the device if you want to.

You may have led people to believe you don't have to notify the bank at all

Serencwtch · 10/09/2025 18:52

Jaws2025 · 10/09/2025 09:45

Re the PAT testing - how do coffee places get around this then, customers often charge laptops phones etc there, they aren't told not to?

They may have risk assessed it & provide safer charging options eg USB port but I would have thought many are breaching their insurance conditions & fire safety assessments.

The biggest cause of fire in the company where I work is now battery charging, so a bigger risk to life & property than cigarettes or arson.

Crazycatladywithnocats · 10/09/2025 19:01

Charge it where exactly? She could have plugged it in her car and boosted it on her way home. That’s the trouble with so much reliance on phones, not having a card to pay for her shopping with.

Thunderpants88 · 10/09/2025 20:21

@Jdot you are being extremely frustrating by refusing to answer the blatant questions being asked so you YABU

WalkDontWalk · 10/09/2025 20:30

Jdot · 10/09/2025 07:12

She was rude. Self entitlement achieves nothing

Neither, incidentally, does the word 'self' in that sentence.

MyrtlethePurpleTurtle · 10/09/2025 22:58

Serencwtch · 10/09/2025 09:26

It's not to do with cost, it's to do with electrical safety.
The biggest cause of fire in retail shops is now charging devices.

Anything that needs to be charged has to be risk assessed & the charger tested.

"The biggest cause of fire in retail shops is now charging devices"

That is such rubbish - why make things up? If you want to look at the top five cause of fire in retail, maybe take a look at the latest report of the London Fire Brigade specifically on this topic. Nowhere do charging devices feature

LittleBearPad · 11/09/2025 00:38

AngelicKaty · 10/09/2025 11:21

Of course I've set a PIN to access my device (I rather assume everyone does), but this only stops ne'er-do-wells accessing the phone if it's locked. I'm talking about another layer of security i.e. protecting your SIM with a separate PIN so that a criminal who's stolen your phone can't take your SIM out of your locked device and put it into another unlocked device of their own and then start using your phone as if they are you (known as "SIM Swap" fraud). It's great to know that your banking details aren't stored on the SIM, but your contacts, SMS and MMS are and these may reveal information about you that makes it easier for a criminal to impersonate you.

My phone doesn’t have a physical SIM card in it and SMS (not that I really use them) are in iCloud. Your post is like a throwback from the 2000s.

TowersofGable · 11/09/2025 00:41

I agree but you know what, we all fuck up from time to time and as long as she was apologetic / polite about it, I don’t see much of an issue. Better for the store to get her cash than for her to walk out.

AngelicKaty · 11/09/2025 02:35

LittleBearPad · 11/09/2025 00:38

My phone doesn’t have a physical SIM card in it and SMS (not that I really use them) are in iCloud. Your post is like a throwback from the 2000s.

Ah, so you think everyone has the same phone as you then?
Setting a SIM password is current advice because the overwhelming majority of mobiles do have SIM cards - even Apple didn't start phasing them out until three years ago (but still produce handsets with physical SIMs in some regions), so hardly a throwback to the 2000s.
Maybe try not to think the world revolves around you. 🙄

Vaguelyclassical · 11/09/2025 02:44

zaazaazoom · 10/09/2025 07:26

Aldi staff offered to charge my phone for me when it ran out of juice and I couldn't pay. Well worth it for supermarkets. 15 mins of charge (under 1p), they get a trolley worth of profit and my goodwill.
She didn't have to be a dick though!

But does nobody in the UK carry a backup credit or debit card?

Tiredofwhataboutery · 11/09/2025 06:25

Vaguelyclassical · 11/09/2025 02:44

But does nobody in the UK carry a backup credit or debit card?

I do but it’s in the car, the one time this happened to me, they offered to quickly charge it up. It was faster to accept tbh but wouldn’t of been a big deal either way.

YelloDaisy · 11/09/2025 06:47

Funnily it’s the mobile phone that’s attracting risk - you might get mugged for it.

zaazaazoom · 11/09/2025 08:57

Vaguelyclassical · 11/09/2025 02:44

But does nobody in the UK carry a backup credit or debit card?

Usually but i hadn't expected to go shopping but on the way home DH asked me to get some stuff.

SerendipityJane · 11/09/2025 09:41

Vaguelyclassical · 11/09/2025 02:44

But does nobody in the UK carry a backup credit or debit card?

...separate from their phone ?

Vaguelyclassical · 11/09/2025 11:34

SerendipityJane · 11/09/2025 09:41

...separate from their phone ?

Phones run out of juice or are lost or go bung. All this talk of safety; safest thing is always to have other forms of payment to hand.

nevernotmaybe · 11/09/2025 18:07

Oneeyedonkey · 10/09/2025 07:07

Safety implications really.....really
Are women really incapable of getting home from the supermarket without a mobile phone??!!

And just women!

Men are massively more likely to be attacked, mugged, a victim of violent crime at all, and murdered. If it's for safety, at least include those even more likely to need it.

jmh740 · 11/09/2025 18:14

Oneeyedonkey · 10/09/2025 07:07

Safety implications really.....really
Are women really incapable of getting home from the supermarket without a mobile phone??!!

Well said!

jmh740 · 11/09/2025 18:15

SimoneHere · 10/09/2025 07:14

It costs less than a penny to charge a phone. I’m sure the store will have made more than that in profit.

Where would she have got the charger from?

Mh67 · 11/09/2025 18:16

Buddrinker84 · 10/09/2025 07:03

Unless they were really rude, then the safety implications of a woman on her own without phone charge for the journey home would be more concerning for me. A little compassion doesn't hurt and phone batteries get zapped with how much the are used in one day for shopping apps, loyalty cards or the 20 million school platforms. You don't know what that phone call was for.

That's just ridiculous you don't need a phone all the time because you're a woman on your own. I never take my phone to work and I walk there and back