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Letting children chalk public pavement

489 replies

RainbowRanger29 · 09/09/2025 11:45

Hi,

So wondering AITA for allowing my young child (age 5) to draw with chalk on the public pavement?

My child was happy out drawing pictures and writing her name with chalk in the front garden with her little friends from the street. They ran out of space in the garden and continued there colourful chalk drawings along the public pavement outside the house.

No one owns the public footpath (its not anyone's actual property) and they drew along outside around 5/6 houses. They drew rainbows and houses and wrote their names and a hopscotch. Nothing offensive but not exactly amazing art (they are only 5!)

One of the neighbours arrived home and appeared visibly annoyed with the chalk, the kids asked if they like their art and they ignored them, went inside, got their hose and washed the chalk away from the public footpath outside of their house only.

The children were still out drawing and got upset that they had washed it away (mummy didn't they like our pictures? Why are they washing it away? Etc)

We live in the UK and it rains an awful lot! It would have washed away anyway later that evening when it rained ... I think it was mean of them to hose it away in front of the kids (surely they could of waited until the kids had stopped playing?)

Or is it me ... should I have not allowed them to chalk the public footpath?

Is it kids being kids enjoying chalking public areas? I used to do this as a kid and it never seemed to upset anyone? Or is it disrespectful to allow children to chalk on public footpaths outside of other people's home?

Interested on everyone's opinions

OP posts:
MasterBeth · 09/09/2025 19:34

Happyher · 09/09/2025 15:30

He was considerate by just washing it off outside his own house without making a fuss

No, he was a miserable cunt.

Ladamesansmerci · 09/09/2025 19:34

Miserable fuckers. It washes away. The same people moaning are probably the people who also moan about kids on iPads. You can't win.

Tinkerbel64 · 09/09/2025 19:44

Obviously these miserable neighbours never had fun when young! This next generation who had so luch fun may be the new artists of our future, leave them alone to have innocent fun drawing & colouring, your neighbours have the the problem no one else did, yes it is a public footpath but it is not owned by them, you or anyone else around you & chalk washes off! I would love seeing & remember the colourful drawings, from my own childhood & my next 3 generations in my life!

Happyher · 09/09/2025 19:48

MasterBeth · 09/09/2025 19:34

No, he was a miserable cunt.

Miserable would be complaining to the child’s parents and washing the whole lot off the pavement. He just wants his own frontage to look clean and tidy without making a fuss

incognitomouse · 09/09/2025 20:12

Burnout50 · 09/09/2025 14:07

Well I love a good rant as much as the next person but this is so totally pointless, I wouldnt even bother.

But you do you... 🙄

I will, ta.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 09/09/2025 20:14

I gasped that the person sprayed the art away

What a fucking twat

Yanbu at all and your kids sound sweet xx

Mummytotheboy · 09/09/2025 20:15

Wouldn't bother me at all. Would make a change from the dog shit splattered all over them!

Autumngirl312 · 09/09/2025 20:17

I had a neighbour like this, they complained when DC would chalk in the street and moan it made the place look a mess. Like you say, it's free, harmless fun that washes away with rain or a bucket of soapy water.

The same people would complain about kids having nothing to do as well

hypnovic · 09/09/2025 20:17

I feel sorry for people this miserable. What a sad life it must be to be annoyed by chalk drawings by children. Wild behaviour

Whatisthisstuff · 09/09/2025 20:21

My kids drew a hopscotch outside our house recently, along with other little drawings. And we watched an older gent jump along it as he went down the road 😁

Letsgoroundagainnow · 09/09/2025 20:23

Autumngirl312 · 09/09/2025 20:17

I had a neighbour like this, they complained when DC would chalk in the street and moan it made the place look a mess. Like you say, it's free, harmless fun that washes away with rain or a bucket of soapy water.

The same people would complain about kids having nothing to do as well

Or being on screens!

Raisetheroof2026 · 09/09/2025 20:23

Anyone that has an issue with it is a genuine twat. Sometimes there are shades of grey. This is not one of those times. Hope this helps.

Chompingatthebeat · 09/09/2025 20:24

Happyher · 09/09/2025 19:48

Miserable would be complaining to the child’s parents and washing the whole lot off the pavement. He just wants his own frontage to look clean and tidy without making a fuss

Not his frontage

Vse500 · 09/09/2025 20:24

Am I missing something? We did this all the time as kids! They used to sell pavement chalks especially!

Vse500 · 09/09/2025 20:25

Pricelessadvice · 09/09/2025 16:45

It’s called having respect for other people. By all means, chalk your own driveway and outside your house, but the street isn’t your child’s personal canvas.

I was allowed to chalk on our driveway as a child. My mum would not have allowed me to chalk the road, because it’s a shared public space and not mine to scrawl over.

Anyway, I’m happy to be considered a misery arse. Frankly, I call it having respect for people other than yourself.

You’re a misery arse.

caringcarer · 09/09/2025 20:28

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 09/09/2025 11:50

I’d only let my kids do it in front of my house, not anyone else’s. Other people don’t have to put up with things so your kids don’t get upset.

This. Personally I wouldn't care but many would.

SliceofTosst · 09/09/2025 20:33

Miserable gits. I'd be happy to see kids playing outside enjoying themselves. It's only chalk ffs. It's not permanent as they so nastily proved by chucking water on it.

Honestly, how can you be so shitty seeing kids enjoying playing outside innocently.

BuildbyNumbere · 09/09/2025 21:02

Harmless and yes a non issue but the neighbour has an equal right to wash it away 🤷🏻‍♀️ not much you can do.

MasterBeth · 09/09/2025 21:12

Happyher · 09/09/2025 19:48

Miserable would be complaining to the child’s parents and washing the whole lot off the pavement. He just wants his own frontage to look clean and tidy without making a fuss

No, miserable is washing away a young child's harmless chalk drawing for no reason because it's been drawn on the public pavement outside their house that (presumably) they can't even see from inside..

cha04 · 09/09/2025 21:14

akkakk · 09/09/2025 11:49

that which is art to you and your child might be graffiti to someone else...

personally I have little issue with chalk on pavements as it washes away, but technically they do belong to someone (the council - and therefore arguably all the public), and doing it outside the houses of others is probably best avoided...

they might need to learn to draw a bit smaller rather than visually taking over the whole area - no need to do more than your drive and if you must the pavement outside your house...

Get a grip, it’s literally going to rain every day for the next 6 months! They are little children not teenagers writing rude things!

ilovepixie · 09/09/2025 21:18

Children have been drawing hop scotch on pavements since chalk was invented!
When I was a child my elderly Aunt moved close by. She didn’t have any friends in our area, and was a bit lonely. I trying to be helpful wrote ‘if you want a good time phone Cis’ followed by her phone number. She got so many phone calls from strange men and a visit from the police she had to change her number!

Roseshavethorns100 · 09/09/2025 21:26

Chompingatthebeat · 09/09/2025 15:15

All sorts of vehicles park outside my house, given its a public highway, some even have garish writing and images on them!

"Gharish scrawl".
It's art.
Whether you're a mother or not It's just children harmlessly drawing with chalk.
Goodness me there are some miserable people out there.

Roseshavethorns100 · 09/09/2025 21:29

wldpwr · 09/09/2025 14:08

How ridiculous. Some people seem to pride themselves on being joyless. This is up there with a man who took issue with my kids collecting conkers outside his house (on the verge, NOT in his front garden). He even got his lawn mower out and started shredding the conkers with it so the kids couldn't have them. I wonder if he broke his lawn mower? We'd recently watched Peter Rabbit so he's known forever as "Mr MacGregor" in our family.

We had a neighbour like that, he used to tell us to f off down our own end, silly old fool thought he owned the footpath and road outside his house😂

Studyunder · 09/09/2025 21:32

I love a chalked pavement! It’s a reminder to everyone of the joy available in the little things, especially for innocent children.
There will always be a grumpy sod but that’s their own problem - ignore.

Wicked123 · 09/09/2025 21:35

akkakk · 09/09/2025 11:49

that which is art to you and your child might be graffiti to someone else...

personally I have little issue with chalk on pavements as it washes away, but technically they do belong to someone (the council - and therefore arguably all the public), and doing it outside the houses of others is probably best avoided...

they might need to learn to draw a bit smaller rather than visually taking over the whole area - no need to do more than your drive and if you must the pavement outside your house...

Oh for goodness sake, get a life

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