New mums-netter here, looking for advice on my friendship dilemma.
I basically have a mum friend who I’m good friends with. She is friendly with another mum at school who is in prison for preparing and dealing Class A drugs, where her children were present. This is something I really don’t agree with and I’d rather not be associated with. I didn’t have my friend down as the type to associate with things/people like this either.
I didn't think they were that close until this happened. But, since all this has happened, their friendship seems to have gotten even closer. My friend has supported this mum through it all and has even visited and calls her in prison. The mum is due to be released in a couple of months.
My question is, how do I navigate things with my friend when she is probably going to be supporting her on release too. I really value our friendship but, I don’t really want to be making small talk at the gates with this other mum or sitting with her during school events etc.
Do I stick to what I feel is right and take step back? Or AIBU and “snooty” and should give this other mum a second chance?