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PMDD - what has helped?

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PremiumMode · 07/09/2025 21:41

Ever since I can remember, I've suffered with PMS that was diagnosed as PMDD.

I feel like I'm a slave to my hormones. I'm not in charge - my whole personality and outlook changes depending on where I am in my cycle.

Some months are better than others.

I don't drink alcohol or caffeine, I'm a healthy weight, I run, hike, get outside every day, have very little stress in my life really, my BMI is 22, I take multi vitamins.

Basically everything I can do naturally. Yet still, every month, I want to die. And have horrendous perceived rejection, I withdraw from the world, my anxiety goes through the roof.

It's not getting better, I'm 40 soon.

Please, does anyone have any advice?

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Sallysushine · 07/09/2025 21:53

Mirena coil. Changed my life from a PMDD perspective and no longer having periods. Mine were heavy too. I was SO sceptical but I have 0 regrets. I'm 36, BMI around 22 too

Ramblingaway · 07/09/2025 21:57

Hysterectomy and oophorectomy for me. Now on just of estrogen patches. No progesterone is amazing!

MuffinsAreJustCakesAtBreakfast · 07/09/2025 22:02

Magnesium. About a week before I'm due on I start supplementing

use a decent one. I use solgar

it was life changing

ETA - the timing of supplementing might vary by person, but from what I understand it takes a couple of days to "kick in" so take that into consideration. Mark it in your calendar each month when to start supplementing

HappyHedgehog247 · 07/09/2025 22:03

Angus castus for the brief periods I wasn't on either the pill or HRT.

CrikeyMajikey · 07/09/2025 22:13

I too was a ‘slave to my hormones’, those were the actual words I used too. I’m late 50’s and menopausal now. I started taking Citalopram, an antidepressant, when I entered peri. I wish I’d taken it years before, it takes the edge off all my crazy feelings and anxiety. I’ve no idea if it would of helped but I feel it probably would have.

I tried many contraceptive pills and they all made my symptoms, especially depression, deeper. I dared not have a coil fitted for fear of being trapped in hell.

I found that I was in a 3 month cycle, with every 3rd month being the absolute worst.

Nothing helped. I started tracking my daily moods over 30 years ago and discovered it was my cycle, PMDD wasn’t a thing then. Sounds like you already track and know your cycle.

Amybelle88 · 07/09/2025 22:16

Pyridoxine. Absolute game changer.

zaazaazoom · 07/09/2025 22:17

Acupuncture really helped and then when I was older HRT.
Try everything. Its shit.

TheLivelyViper · 07/09/2025 22:18

The treatment options are a mix of antidepressants, something like the mirena coil or depro infections (to stop periods or reduce bleeding).

zeddybrek · 07/09/2025 22:19

Evening primrose oil with starflower. The seven seas one in the orange box. I've been taking it for 11 years, and I cannot put into words how much better I feel on it. I tried to come off it twice but couldn't. It takes a while to notice a change but definitely worth a try.

Gillyyy · 07/09/2025 22:59

I started taking a supplement called Ditto which helps with PMDD and endometriosis symptoms - might be worth looking into. I’ve found it really helps my mood.

Brummumm · 07/09/2025 23:26

Vit b
The pill

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